"I was 14 years old, living alone away from home and scared to death.
It was during that time that I perfected the life skills I needed to cope, to survive, to protect myself. But my isolation and fear made me continually feel to be apart from everything, instead of being a part of anything. I began to lie when the truth would suffice. I cheated when I knew the answers. I began to manipulate any way that I could and took shortcuts wherever possible. I was actively forming my negative self-image, and even the one bright spot in my life couldn't shine enough light to brighten it.
As a youth I was a nationally ranked tennis player. But winning didn't boost my self-confidence. Instead, a sense of entitlement and ego barged their way into my everyday life.
I began to live and act as if rules didn't apply to me. I lived for instant short-term gratification, not caring who I hurt or what I had to do to get it. I felt a void, and I wanted to fill it with anything that felt good: alcohol, destructive relationships, gambling, overspending, drugs, whatever it took. Alcohol became my God. It continued to fuel my resentments toward people and God after I lost my scholarship and was kicked off my tennis team for alcohol. My life was a seemingly hopeless state of mind, body and spirit and faith was elusive.
After graduation, I began a career as a flight attendant. For an alcoholic, it was perfect!
Traveling to far-off cities with strangers meant I could drink how I wanted, when I wanted and with whom I wanted.
What it turned into was drinking warm mini-bottles of vodka while hiding in a dark hotel room.
But deep down, I knew I couldn't hide from God.
All the while I felt He was there,
waiting for me to ask Him for grace and guidance -
waiting for me to stop living in fear of what lay ahead.
And boy did He ever have plans for what lay ahead!
To be continued next Sunday.
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