Greetings!
Have you noticed that the stress and strain of Covid-19, the political clash that’s dividing us, and not seeing all your friends, is coming out in your relationships?
Some people are drawing back, emotionally shutting down, or getting aggressive and short tempered.
It’s not pretty.
You might notice that even the people you usually care about are very annoying!
Believe me, you are annoying them too!
We’ve all been jammed into one space, living on top of each other for months on end, not seeing other people, not able to socialize and REALLY talk with our friends (yes we get to video chat but let’s face it... it’s not the same!)
You might notice you’re drinking more alcohol, or binge watching more TV, emotionally eating, or doing other behaviors to “check out”.
You might be keeping your emotions all bottled up because you’re afraid if you let them out all hell will break loose!
I know some people who are feeling distant and alone, even though they’re around other people ALL THE TIME... it’s crazy making.
So what are we supposed to do?
Let’s keep hope alive!
My friend and colleague, Ben Saltzman, is a World Class coach and has a solution for you... what if you had a major shift in your relationships?
What if you learned some skills (I’m talking about some cutting edge, next generation skills here) that turned things around in your relationships in just five days?
Let me paint a picture of possibility for you...
In only five days you learn these skills, use them a few times, and find that the old patterns of relating with your family members (that have been causing havoc for years) are totally busted up!
You feel deeper connection, emotional connection, authentic connection.
A new level of trust starts to build between you and them, slowly... but it happens... and you notice that now they are not so irritating.
Then the spark of spontaneous expression, humor, and laughter comes back on line.
And finally Joy breaks out in the house at unexpected times... who would have believed it?
At the same time you discover your personality type (Enneagram Type), and the unconscious reasons you get scared, or ashamed, or hurt, and you discover the Enneagram personality type of your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, kids, dog, cat, whoever!
I've studied the Enneagram for years and it fits so well with Inner Bonding. Understanding your type gives you much important information. The low aspect of our number is our wounded self, and the high aspect is our loving adult, plus it open the way to seeing how to greatly expand our loving adult.
I will be on a panel with others of my number, and I will let you know about this when it's going to happen.
As you reveal unconscious fears and emotional hot buttons, you learn how to avoid them, how to dance with them and around them like a relationship master!
If this is appealing to you, please register now for the “Relationship Breakthrough Challenge: Master 5 Relational Skills in 5 Days!”
Blessings,
Dr. Margaret Paul
P.S. If you have someone you are living with, or a friend you want to practice the skills with, have them sign up for the challenge too! A practice buddy makes the challenge much easier to complete!
