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Steps To A Healthy Relationship
by
Shardavia Holmes, Senior, Saginaw High School
1) SPEAK UP. If you are in a relationship you should be able to tell your partner things that are going on. If something is bothering you, it's best to talk about it instead of holding it in. I know this from a personal experience. I held most of my anger in. I did not want to tell my partner because I thought I would get over it. Sooner than later he broke my heart. I ended up keeping everything in and started hurting the people around me. It's not good to hold things in. Take the time to talk to your partner, you may find you can work it out.
2) RESPECT EACH OTHER. Your partner's feelings matter. You need to let your partner know that you are making an effort to keep their ideas in mind. Having respect in a relationship keeps it going. Treat your partner the way you want them to be towards you.
3) COMPROMISE. Disagreements are common in a relationship. You are not meant to agree all the time. It is important to find a way to compromise in a relationship. You should try to solve all your problems in a fair but rational way.
4) BE SUPPORTIVE. Your partner wants to know that you care about them. I love support. In my relationship when my partner is supportive I feel that he cares about me. This keeps me motivated. Also, you should let your partner know when you need support. Usually people can tell when you need support; even if they can't tell, tell them. Healthy relationships are about building people up, not putting each other down.
5) SET BOUNDARIES. I love being with my boyfriend, but there are times when he needs his space. There are times when I need my own space as well. Just because you're in a relationship, doesn't mean you have to be with them every second of the day. Healthy relationships also require individual time.
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The Saginaw High Teen Advisory Council created this video to talk to teens
about healthy relationships and teen dating violence. |
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For more information on February fundraisers
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Our Community Gives Back
Survivors of domestic violence received a special gift thanks to a new community partnership program between the Saginaw Township Police Department and the Saginaw Township Walmart store, located at 5825 Brockway Road. The partnership looks to better the community by promoting public safety and giving back to those in need. Walmart gift cards totaling $500 were donated to URR in part by the Coca-Cola Corporation, Walmart, and the Saginaw Township Police Department and Police Officers Association.
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The Michigan Human Trafficking Task Force
& Underground Railroad proudly present:
Andy Soper, Director, Manasseh Project
Friday, 2/27, 8:30am-12:30pm
Delta College Planetarium, Bay City
This event will provide an eye-opening look into the crime of human trafficking and how it affects our communities. Soper will discuss networks in place to stop this human trafficking and what YOU can do to put an end to this horrible, and often silent, crime.
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Walk A Mile In Her Shoes: The Men's March to Stop Rape, Sexual Assault, & Gender Violence
Birch Run Premium Outlets
Friday, 4/17, 5:00pm-8:00pm
Our second annual Saginaw County event. Show you support for the women in your life by donning heels, having fun, and getting a chance to win some awesome raffle prizes. Everyone is welcome - men, women, and children. Registration opens soon!
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Advocates for Change: Annual Luncheon to Inspire Change & End Violence Against Women
Horizons Conference Center
Thursday, 5/14, 11:45am-1:15pm
Survivor stories and speakers will shed the light on how your $100 donation ensures safety, empowerment, and change for victims of domestic violence. You can help make sure someone is available to answer the most important call. Contact Lisa Hall at 399-0007 ext. 100 to reserve your seat today.
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For more information on upcoming events
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WE'D LOVE TO SEE YOU
Volunteer opportunities include administrative, childcare, Girls on the Run, maintanence, special events/fundraisers, Under the Rainbow Resale Store, and more! |
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Meet our newest member!
Melissa Steiner is our new
Volunteer Coordinator! |
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Did You Know?
Survivors receiving
URR's services can
"shop" for free at
Under the Rainbow
Resale Store.
Many visit our store
for clothing,furniture,
and household items.
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