Love & Relationships Day 61: Rejection by Loved Ones
Quote from A Course in Miracles
"You have no idea of the tremendous release and deep peace that comes from meeting yourself and your brothers totally without judgment. When you recognize what you are and what your brothers are, you will realize that judging them in any way is without meaning. In fact, their meaning is lost to you precisely because you are judging them. All uncertainty comes from the belief that you are under the coercion of judgment. You do not need judgment to organize your life, and you certainly do not need it to organize yourself. In the presence of knowledge all judgment is automatically suspended, and this is the process that enables recognition to replace perception." ACIM Ch.3.VI.3
A Course in Miracles Mentoring
Your inside circle is mirroring your unhealed beliefs back to you
Importance of addressing the "bear-trap of pain" before moving on
Illusions are not good or bad. They are senseless and unreal.
Use these principles to love yourself and make a new choice
By this do I deny the Presence of the Father
When you feel unjustly treated by anyone, the Course offers this suggestion
Nothing can hurt you unless you give it the power to do so
There is no love but God's
Seek not within the world to find your Self
Call to your Father, certain that His Voice will answer
Your inside circle is mirroring your unhealed beliefs back to you When someone you love is rejecting you or they are refusing to love you, they are unknowingly mirroring your harsh judgments against yourself back to you. I like to think of your loved ones as your "inside circle" of relationships as they represent the most closely-held beliefs you carry about yourself. The ego always projects your belief in separation outside of you to hide the cause of this misperception from your awareness. Projection is the ego's way to distract you from where the misperception is (which is in your mind) to ensure that this error in perception will not be healed. The appearance of the error is that someone "outside of you" is refusing to love or acknowledge you, when it is "actually you" who is unwilling to love and acknowledge your True Self. You see yourself as a separated body; inadequate, powerless, flawed, and prone to illness, and death, and this is a form of complete Self-denial. This is not what you are and by accepting this false image of yourself in the place of truth, it is the function of your "inside circle" to show it to you that it may be healed. How could it ever be healed if you could not see or identify the misperception? Without the roles of those who mirror your unhealed beliefs back to you, your misperceptions could go undetected for a very long time. You cannot release from what you cannot see or are not aware of. This is why A Course in Miracles calls these people in your life your saviors. They show you the beliefs you are carrying that are in need of healing, so that you can free yourself from them with the help of the Holy Spirit.... For more - Click Here
Personal Online Coaching
The source of the problem is in your mind
Steps for healing and undoing the pain
Step #1: Your original judgment or assignment of guilt
Step #2: Your world mirrors your judgment and assignment of guilt back to you
Step #3: Use what you see and feel to identify your judgments against yourself
Step #4: Forgive, pray, and ask for help from Holy Spirit
Step #5: Use your EFT Cards to neutralize the physical pain and stress
When a brother acts insanely, he is offering you an opportunity to bless him
You cannot be totally committed sometimes
You do not need God's blessing but you do need yours
Illusions are investments. They will last as long as you value them.
The source of the problem is in your mind There are certain painful experiences in life - some you understand, some you can't explain, and some that shock, upset, or confuse you, yet the one thing they all have in common is that they are happening from you and not to you. If you want the pattern to stop and you would like happier experiences to replace the painful ones, you must turn inward to the source of the problem, which is in your mind. The problem(s) cannot be resolved outside of you because all healing is of the mind. If you are being rejected by one or more of your loved ones, this is an alert that you have inwardly rejected yourself. It appears that this is happening to you, yet your eyes do not see - they report to you what you believe. The truth is that no one can show up and reject you until after you have rejected yourself. Other people mirror your unhealed beliefs back to you. They are "the effect" of your mind and not the cause. A Course in Miracles teaches that you are always looking at the effect of your past thoughts and nothing more... For more - Click Here
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Meditation on Rejection by Loved Ones - Click Here
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See the Love of God in you and you will see it everywhere
"You are the Will of God. Do not accept anything else as your will, or you are denying what you are. Deny this and you will attack, believing you have been attacked. But see the Love of God in you, and you will see it everywhere because it is everywhere. See His abundance in everyone, and you will know that you are in Him with them. They are part of you, as you are part of God. You are as lonely without understanding this as God Himself is lonely when His Sons do not know Him. The peace of God is understanding this. There is only one way out of the world's thinking, just as there was only one way into it. Understand totally by understanding totality."
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