Love & Relationships Day 62: Rising Above the Family Story
Quote from A Course in Miracles
"It would not be kinder to shift the goal more slowly, for the contrast would be obscured, and the ego given time to reinterpret each slow step according to its liking. Only a radical shift in purpose could induce a complete change of mind about what the whole relationship is for. As this change develops and is finally accomplished, it grows increasingly beneficent and joyous. But at the beginning, the situation is experienced as very precarious. A relationship, undertaken by two individuals for their unholy purposes, suddenly has holiness for its goal. As these two contemplate their relationship from the point of view of this new purpose, they are inevitably appalled. Their perception of the relationship may even become quite disorganized. And yet, the former organization of their perception no longer serves the purpose they have agreed to meet." ACIM Ch.17.V.5
A Course in Miracles Mentoring
What were your "unspoken rules" while growing up?
Beliefs are formed before the age of 7
Obstacles to rising above the family story
Fear of judgment and rejection
Fear of abandonment and loss
Fear of success
Remember nothing that you taught yourself, for you were badly taught
What were your "unspoken rules" while growing up?
As a child, there were probably some "unspoken rules" in your household; rules that may not have been spoken out loud, but you were required to live by them just the same. You might have had rules like:
Don't ask for anything because the family cannot afford it
Don't talk unless you are spoken to
Don't make a mistake because you will get punished
Don't voice your opinion because it doesn't matter anyway
Don't ask for what you want because this is a sign of greediness
You must work hard to get anything worth having
Other people matter more than you do
You must sacrifice for others if you love them, etc.
Whatever the unspoken rules were in your household, those were the years that defined your belief system. It would be easy for someone who grew up with the rules (above) to ultimately form the following belief system: For more - Click Here
Personal Online Coaching
Perhaps you are the pioneer in your family
The "Leaky Boat"
What you remember never was
Rising above the family story
The Holy Spirit's use of memory
Grievances hide the light of the world in me
Perhaps you are the pioneer in your family
I spent years waiting for certain family members of mine to join me in my search for God, truth, love, happiness, consistency, and abundance. I finally realized that they were not going to budge and I was going to have to make that journey seemingly by myself. I was delighted to find out that once I took that first pioneering step, some family members began to step up and join me along the way. If you have been holding back in your search for truth, or you feel like you are the "weird one" or the "oddball" in your family, maybe you are and it is for a very good reason. Perhaps today, you will embrace this as a fortunate trait and you will pack your bags for the journey back to all that is rightfully yours! For more - Click Here
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Daily Gentle Reminders
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You set the goal of peace - This is a time for faith
"This is the time for faith. You let this goal be set for you. That was an act of faith. Do not abandon faith, now that the rewards of faith are being introduced. If you believed the Holy Spirit was there to accept the relationship, why would you now not still believe that He is there to purify what He has taken under His guidance? Have faith in your brother in what but seems to be a trying time. The goal is set. And your relationship has sanity as its purpose. For now you find yourself in an insane relationship, recognized as such in the light of its goal." ACIM Ch.17.V.6
Have faith in Him Who answered you
"Now the ego counsels thus; substitute for this another relationship to which your former goal was quite appropriate. You can escape from your distress only by getting rid of your brother. You need not part entirely if you choose not to do so. But you must exclude major areas of fantasy from your brother, to save your sanity. Hear not this now! Have faith in Him Who answered you. He heard. Has He not been very explicit in His answer? You are not now wholly insane. Can you deny that He has given you a most explicit statement? Now He asks for faith a little longer, even in bewilderment. For this will go, and you will see the justification for your faith emerge, to bring you shining conviction. Abandon Him not now, nor your brother. This relationship has been reborn as holy." ACIM Ch.17.V.7
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