Talking to Children about Traumatic Events
In 2015, the news brought many scary events and disturbing images into our homes: plane crashes in Taiwan, Germany and Egypt; earthquakes, floods, tornadoes and other natural disasters; attacks by religious extremists in the U.S. and abroad; the refugee crisis; police shootings; and rioting in U.S. cities.
If these stories and images are difficult for adults to comprehend and discuss, what effect do they have on the children in our lives? How do we talk to them about what they're seeing and hearing without further traumatizing them?
Avoiding the questions that children have is not the answer, according to
Child Mind Institute's Jamie M. Howard, PhD. The director of the Stress and Resilience Program, Dr. Howard believes, "When a traumatic event happens, parents and trusted adults should be the ones to explain the situation to children, not the media or other children." (See
Helping Kids Cope with Trauma and Stress.)
Talking with Kids About News also offers parents and caregivers some strategies on discussing distressing headlines with children.
And Mr. Rogers offers a gentle but effective example on how to talk to children about violence in this video clip.
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