"If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, 

live at peace with everyone."

Romans 12:18

Bullying has been a hot topic in recent years, and it seems that more children than ever are saying that they've witnessed or experienced bullying. As a parent, you don't want to think about your child being bullied--or even being a bully--but statistics show that you and your family need to be prepared to talk about bullying. 

It can be heartbreaking to learn that your child has been bullied, but as a parent, your reaction to bullying is just as important as your child's reaction. Even in hard situations, you are your child's spiritual leader; point your child to Christ through those difficult times and help them explore how Jesus would have them react. Guide your child in praying for those who may treat him/her poorly. As a parent, pray for the parents/home-life of the bully (you never know what situation that child is coming from). Create a positive, loving environment in your home. Encourage and build up your child every chance you can. Remind your child that God loves him/her and has a special plan for his/her life. 

Your child may not have been bullied, but, odds are, they've witnessed someone else being bullied. Encourage your child to stand up for and befriend those who are bullied. Set the example for your child by showing him/her how to treat everyone equally and fairly.

As Christians, God has called us to love one another, even when we are not treated with love. Bullying, however, is never okay, and we hope that this email equips your family to understand  what bullying is and how your child can make a difference by standing up against bullying. 

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