Seth Kahan on Leadership // Monday Morning Mojo
The Most Important People in our Lives
One thing about me: I iike to keep my BMW nice and clean inside - it just makes me feel good when I travel around town to my appointments. But tonight when I got in my car I actually enjoyed the crumbs, wrappers, and clothes from the weekend. They reminded me of how much fun I had with my son, Gabe, the last three days.

fire circleWe just got back from our annual men's gathering. This was my 22nd and his 14th - he is sixteen.  We have been doing tthis together since he was three. It is one of our traditions.

The weekend gathering every fall is named after our original location: Buffalo Gap. We don't meet there anymore, but the name has stuck. The last two years we have come together at Camp Round Meadow in Catoctin Mountain Park, just down the road from Camp David. There were forty men and boys this year. The weekend is all about connection and interpersonal support, so there is lots of time for conversation. There are workshops we run for ourselves, poetry reading, singing, drumming, storytelling, and, of course, bonfires.

Over the years this community has provided Gabe and I with a community of support, a place to take our struggles as well as our celebrations, and most importantly a wealth of men for my son to observe and learn from other than myself.

So, when I get in my car tomorrow morning and it is less than clean, it will be a sweet reminder of what a great weekend we had together and how fortunate we are to have such a great community as a regular part of our relationship.

The love of family and the admiration of friends is much more important than wealth and privilege.
- Charles Kuralt
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