Midnight is approaching fast
Now, I know you got a little wet today and it is more humid than a summer day in New Orleans, but I am here for you. It's time for you to do something nice for yourself.  Find some nice air conditioning, put your feet up, and smile. Now, if you have a minute, scroll down to get yourself some nice experiences at a nice steep discount.  Act now because the 35% to 65% savings will send at midnight.  See you soon!

Hugh 
Grab Some Great Experiences 
   
This Wednesday
Wed 10/11: Gay Millionaire Matchmaker Speed Dating
Planet Hollywood, 1540 Bway at 45 St, meet at the 2nd floor bar
6:30pm check-in, mingling & cocktails / 7pm start (promptly)
$25 (men age 35 and under who like dating older men)
$37 (Successful men age 36 and over, who are interested in dating younger men)
Columbus Weekend Sale: Use code  Columbus and  save 35%
Created for the gay man 35 and under who has the hots for the handsome successful mature man, enjoying nights painting the town red with an older established man. At our "Millionaire Matchmaker" gay speed dating, younger gays (35 and under) will go on dates with handsome mature men (36 and up). If you connect with men outside your age range, this is the event for YOU! You will go on 8 short dates in one night, plus 3 bonus mingle sessions where you can meet everyone in the room.
Expires 10/9/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
This Saturday 
Sat 10/14: 
Gay Graves Tour
Meet and depart at  1 PM at  brownstone gate to Green-Wood Cemetery, 500 25th St., Brooklyn (only 1 block from the R train at 4th Ave. & 25th St)
$30 adults, $20 seniors, $15 children  (age 13-17)
Columbus Weekend Sale* : Use code Columbus and  save 35% 
This LGBT-focused tour of Green-Wood Cemetery, a National Historic Landmark in the beautiful borough of Brooklyn, is the only one of its kind. It has been specially developed to introduce you to the famous and the not-so-famous gay men and lesbians, their friends, their supporters and their detractors who are among the permanent residents at Green-Wood.  Time passes quickly on this tour because at every moment we are surrounded by beauty, both the man-made monuments and nature's artistry.
* Expires 10/7/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
Wed 10/18
: Big Gay Networking Party and Private Shopping Event
No Cover.  Featuring a fabulous networking party with free wine plus get 50% off all frames in the store
5-8pm @ Union Square Optical, 9 West 14th St
After a highly successful event last season, we are again partnering with Union Square Optical to create another very special, uber Gay Private Shopping and networking event.  Featuring complimentary wine and chips, lots of handsome men, networking, flirting and giveaways.  Plus, all attendees shall get 50% off all frames in the store including brand new looks for the fall season including designs from Dita, Tom Ford, Oliver Peoples, Paul Smith, Garrett Leight, Entourage of 7, and other fashion forward eyewear and sunwear.  Click here to see the full list of designers.  Union Square Optical is proud to have serving NYC since 1985 and provides comprehensive eye exams if needed.
   
Sat 10/21, 4pm: 
Gay Secrets of the Met (Sold Out)
   
Sun 10/22, 2:15pm: 
Gay Secrets of the Met Museum
The most popular Gay tour of the Met 
Led by our favorite queer guide, Professor Andrew Lear
Met Museum, 1000 5th Ave 
$55 full price*; $49 seniors*; $35 Met members and students
Columbus Weekend Sale*: Use code Columbus  get  $10 off
We will explore some of the Met' Museum's queer treasures, from ancient Greek nudes (and erotic vase-painting, on which Professor Lear is a world expert!) to homoerotic works from the Renaissance, and a panoply of modern works, some by LGBT artists, some portraying LGBT people, and some expressing same-sex desire. 
* Expires 10/09/17. Savings on tour portion of ticket only. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. Valid for online sales only. Quantities may be limited. 
   
Wed 10/25: Speed Dating
 for Gay Professionals
Buffalo Wild Wings, 253 W 47 St, Basement level (use elevator)
6:30 check-in/mingling, 7pm (prompt) start). 8:45 end
$25
Columbus Weekend Sale* : Use code Columbus and  save 35%
If you are a Gay Professional looking to find love, then look no further. You may meet the future love of your life, make a great new friend, or even meet a future business partner. This event caters to New York City's most eligible bachelors, and have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples. You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. Plus, you will get 3 additional bonus periods where you may meet anyone in the room.
* Expires 10/09/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
Thurs 10/26:
Tissot & GQ Men's Style Event at Macys
6:00pm, no cover
Macy's Herald Square. 151 W 34th Street
Join TheMenEvent at Macy's Herald Square for a Tissot & GQ Men's Style event! GQ executive stylist, Brett Falgren, will showcase the season's hottest trends and provide one on one style consultations for guests.  Enter for the chance to win and take home Brett's top picks!* Plus, don't miss the chance to meet and snap a photo with NBA basketball player D'Angelo Russell.**  With any Tissot watch purchase receive a special gift.***
Event subject to change or cancellation. *The chosen winner will be picked post event and contacted to redeem your prize. **While time permits. ***While supplies last.
   
Sun 10/29: 
Gay Village Bar Crawl
1pm: Meet and depart from the lobby of the LGBT Center, 208 W 13 St 
$30 age 21-59, $20 seniors (age 60+ with ID)
Columbus Weekend Sale* : Use code Columbus and  save 35%
Since at least the end of the 19th century bar culture has loomed large in the gay community. During this three-hour bar crawl, learn why bars have played such an outsized role in gay life. Learn from veterans of Ty's, Stonewall and Julius' as they tell us about their bars' place in history. Discover who the woman was who opened the first non-mob-controlled lesbian nightclub, and how she has been immortalized. Hear tell why the Village waterfront bars welcomed the rougher side of gay life. Learn about the bar where a gay protest resulted in  an important NYS court decision three years prior to Stonewall. Get to know what the biggest threats to today's gay bar culture are. Highlights include Keith Haring mural "Once Upon a Time" at The LGBTQ Center; the long-gone waterfront bars named Ramrod, Kellers and Sneakers; bottoms up at four gay bars and lesbian bars in the West Village; New York City's AIDS Memorial; and the Stonewall National Monument in Christopher Park.
* Expires 10/09/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
Sun 11/5: Gay Hudson Valley Winery Day Trip
10am departure from Columbus Circle
$150 includes private transportation, 3-4 wineries, tastings, awesome fall color views, lunch stop at the Culinary Institute of America, Walkway over the Hudson Park, Farmers market + more!
Columbus Weekend Sale* : Use code Columbus  and  save $20 

The Hudson Valley is America's oldest wine making and grape-growing region. It is also home to The Culinary Institute of America! Less than an hour and a half from New York City, a visit to to  the Hudson Valley Wineries and wine trails  offers hospitable winery tasting rooms, where you can often meet the owners and taste award-winning wines. Join us for this fun day where you will enjoy a spectacular Fall day out of the city, taste great wines, nosh at The world famous CIA and meet a fun group of gays. If you have been to the Long Island wineries, this is a totally different experience! Hudson Valley Wineries are less crowded, less commercialized and the scenery blows the Long Island Wineries away!
* Expires 10/9/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
Wed 11/8: Speed Dating  for Scruffy Men
Buffalo Wild Wings, 253 W 47 St, basement level (use elevator)
6:30 check-in/mingling, 7pm (prompt) start). 9pm end
$25
Columbus Weekend Sale* : Use code Columbus and  save 35% 

As Time Out NY says: "If you're a fuzzy dude or a total admirer,then head to this speed-dating hustle, where you can meet the furball of your dreams."
Do you like your man with a bit of scruff? This event caters to New York City's most eligible bears & scruff lovers. Our speed dating events have proven to be huge success making lots and lots of couples.  How does it work? You will go on 8 short dates in one night! Each date lasts 6 to 8 minutes and is a really fun, quick and easy way for gay men to meet each other. There are also 3 bonus periods where you can meet all of the guys in the room.
* Expires 11/1/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
   
Thurs 11/9: Gay Tipsy Painting Party
Boxers HK (50th and 9th), downstairs
6:15pm check-in and mingling / 6:30 pm start / 8:30pm end
$39.50  
Columbus Weekend Sale
Save 35% with code " Columbus
Join us for our next Gay Tipsy Painting Party. It's a great way to meet new people and get your creative juices flowing. Join the fun and you can enjoy a beverage and some snacks while learning to paint your own personal masterpiece. Yes, it's a cocktail party and a painting class. Your ticket includes instruction from accredited artist, a 12x16 pre - sketched canvas, unlimited acrylic paint (water based) and painting supplies including brushes, aprons, and easels. You will learn the art of mixing colors, blending and painting techniques in this 2 hour class. We have entire private room with a private server, fantastic drink specials and cool music. Cash bar and snacks are available.
*Expires 11/2/17/Not valid in combination with other offers or on prior sale. Valid for online sales only. Offer may be removed at any time. Other restrictions may apply. 
   
Sun 11/12: Fall Colors
 Central Park Gay Walking Tour
Meet and depart from benches at Tavern on the Green, $25
Columbus Weekend Sale
Save 35% with code " Columbus
Central Park is one of the most beautiful parts of New York City and it is even more stunning on a gorgeous fall afternoon when the colors are at their peak. below the city skyline. There is no better way to experience it than to be with dozens of fun and friendly members of our group. Your professionals tour guide will share history of the park from its heyday to decline and then rebirth plus special secrets on a perfect fall day. 
*Expires 11/5/17.Not valid in combination with other offers or on prior sale.Other restrictions may apply. 
   
Sat 11/18: Fab Fashion and Beauty Tour of the Met
Met Museum, 1000 5th Ave
Led by our favorite queer guide (&world expert in Gay art), Prof. Andrew Lear
Meet and depart at 4:15pm from the Pharaoh statue just inside the main entrance of the Met
Cost: $55 full price*; $49 seniors*; $35 Met members and students
Columbus Weekend Sale**: 
Save $10 with code " Columbus
How Do We Present Ourselves To The World? If you've never thought much about that question, you certainly will after this tour. That's because you'll learn about some of the most fascinating, bizarre and painful things people have done throughout history to look impressive, alluring and downright stunning. Learn more about this tour HERE
* Ticket price includes admission to the Met.
** Expires 10/09/17. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. No refunds/exchanges Offer may be removed at any time. Other restrictions may apply. 
   
Sun 11/19: Gay Grand Central Walking Tour
Meet and depart at 2pm from Pershing Sq Cafe, 90 E 42 St, $25
Columbus Weekend Sale
Save 35% with code " Columbus
Info and Tickets: www.GayGrandCentral.eventbrite.com
Our most popular tour!  Learn about secret platforms, top secret rooms and interesting facts and surprises during this adventure filled with exploring, socializing and learning. Meet other dynamic people in our group while really getting a different perspective on one of New York's most famous landmarks. Following the tour the group is invited to stay together for food and drink at a local tavern.
*Expires 11/12/17.Not valid in combination with other offers or on prior sale.Other restrictions may apply. 
   
Thurs 11/30: 
GayLarious The LGBT Stand Up Show

Broadway Comedy Club, 318 W 53 St, 
7:30 Doors Open, 8:00 show,  $28 door + 2 drink min
Columbus Weekend Sale:*  Only $10  with code Columbus

Gaylarious is the stand-up comedy show featuring a great line-up of NYC's funniest LGBT and LGBT friendly comedians from TV, radio and comedy clubs across the country. You'll have a gay ole' time with a line-up of hysterical comics designed to have you laughing right down to your gay funny bones.  Note: 2 drink minimum during the show. Click here to watch video from the last show
* Valid for online sales only, while supplies last. Offer ends when we announce the line up. Not valid on prior sale or in combination with other offers. 
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This Fri 10/13: 
Boys Night at Desperate Measures
the Knee-Slapping New Musical
York Theater, 619 Lexington Avenue (at 54th St)
Special Offer: 
Only $45
 (reg $67.50) and includes a discounted ticket to the 8pm performance and pre-show Boys Night reception with  free wine
To order: Go to  yorktheatre.org/desperate-measures.html use promo code 
BOYS for any seat on Friday 10/13 at 8pm. Or  click here
 and select Friday 10/13

Desperate Measures is a knee-slappin' new musical loosely based on Shakespeare's  Measure for Measure . It's naughty, it's country, and it's a New York premiere with music by award-winning composer  David Friedman , book and lyrics by two-time Tony nominee  Peter Kellogg , and direction and choreography by  Bill Castellino  ( Cagney, Marry Harry ). Yee-haw, verily!
*Restrictions may apply
   
Gay Play Alert
- Now thru 10/15
Up The Rabbit Hole by Andy Halliday
Theater for the New City, 155 1st Ave at 10th Street,  $25
Tickets and more info: windowpanetheatrecompany.com
Note: there are adult intercourse situations and scenes without clothes
 
The story of a young gay man obsessed with finding his birth mother and the answers to questions surrounding his entire life. After finally finding her, he has the courage to move on and have "a life beyond his wildest dreams." 

Andy Halliday was an founding member of Charles Busch's Theater in Limbo company and appeared in the original casts of Vampire Lesbians of Sodom and Psycho Beach Party. Andy founded Windowpane Theater Company to explores important issues within the queer community. 
   
Mon 10/16:  
4th Annual Broadway & Ballet Hero Awards
$25-$100
Offer: Use code THEMENEVENT to save $5 on Gen Admission 
Stage 48, 605 W 48th St

The spectacular 4th Annual Broadway & Ballet HERO Awards will be presented by HIV HERO and will feature over 30 stars from the worlds of Broadway and Ballet, all performing together on one stage! The event will honor Broadway Legend, Rachelle Rak, ABT Principal and International Ballet Star, James Whiteside, Michael Campayno of Broadway's "Wicked," and JED. Performers in the 2017 show include Olympic Gold Medalist in Gymnastics Icarus-Ioannis Melissanidis,  Broadway cast members from Chicago, A Bronx Tale, An American in Paris, Anastasia, Jersey Boys, Aladdin, Frozen, Wicked and The Radio City Christmas Spectacular as well as leading dancers from ballet companies including the American Ballet Theatre (ABT), the New York City Ballet, Boston Ballet, Atlanta Ballet, and Ballet West. Plus, a special performance from The Boy Band Project. HERO is a 100% volunteer organization; every dollar raised goes to helping stop spread HIV and help those who are affected. 
Special offers for you
ManMate Dinners for 8 Matches You for Dinner!   Since 2004, Dinners for 8 has matched  countless compatible men for fine dining, friendships and eventual  relationships.  T heir follow-up after each event puts you in touch with the men you want to see again one-on-one!  ManMate  founder, matchmaking expert and bestselling author Grant Wheaton also introduces you on a personal, ongoing basis. Special 20% discountSee Offer

Photography  by Rick Stockwell -  Don't you want some new photos to give to a loved one for the holidays?  Or maybe you are having a big holiday party and want to capture the fun with great party photos. Or maybe you need that special photo for a special website? Everyone needs a GREAT photo, whether you're an actor, businessman or desire a great pic for (ahem) "social" apps. With over 20 years of experience, Rick Stockwell will make you look and feel great as you shoot in a comfortable setting, in studio or on location. See Offer

Life Coach David If you're ready to make this best year ever, Life Coach David can help you make that happen!  He is a very experienced and certified life coach who is passionate about what he does.  Whether you want to attract a wonderful relationship, more money, a better job, etc, or even feeling happier and more excited about life, David can coach you on how to do that with great success (Hugh is one of his client's and is already experiencing a positive difference).  The first mini phone session is free when you mention the Men Event  Take advantage of this wonderful opportunity. First mini phone session is free when you mention The Men Event  See Offer

Real Estate  maven Peter Shevell If you are looking to rent, buy or sell, Peter Shevell from Douglas Elliman can help you. He currently has some GREAT rentals in the Lincoln Center area and the Upper East Side See Listings

Lake House Getaway in the CatskillsRelax in front of a roaring fireplace! This vacation home is the superb getaway, perfectly located near the best of the Catskills, with great views of the water, sunset and eagles. Relax in a 3br/2.5ba home with 2 outdoor decks and a screened-in 3 season lanai. 
 
Psychotherapy with Dr. Stephen Capson - Stressed? Need Support? Learn how to deal more effectively with life's challenges and current issues. Help withanxiety/stress, self esteem improvement, relationships/dating, and coping with various health problems / concerns. Gay therapist with 20 plus of experience working with the NYC gay community. Sessions are in a comfortable convenient Chelsea office.  See offer
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