[YOU can create the above crafts at our Advent Workshop this Sunday from 4-6pm with a soup supper and brief vespers.]


For God shows no partiality. - Romans 2:11 

[If you'd like an update on Standing Rock Reservation and the Oil Pipeline and our UCC, please look below today's piece. Some of you have asked since we mentioned this the other day... keep praying for everyone involved!]

It happened again just the other day.... Dictionary.com came out with their Word of the Year for 2016. 

I could feel my heart breaking as I read the word. You may have heard my heart cracking from wherever you were at that moment.


I cannot quite believe it -- and yet I can.

I have been thinking the last couple of years that our relationship with the 'other' is our greatest challenge and opportunity. I think it has part to do with how we want to be in control of our lives and everyone in it. We want to understand everything and don't want to be stretched to learn something new or to share our resources - including our time. Honoring and welcoming the 'other' means that we don't have everything nice and neat and tidy ... we are vulnerable to not knowing and we are not the center of the universe.

See this explanation of the Word of the Year ...

At Dictionary.com we aim to pick a Word of the Year that embodies a major theme resonating deeply in the cultural consciousness over the prior 12 months. This year, some of the most prominent news stories have centered around fear of the "other." Fear is an adaptive part of human evolutionary history and often influences behaviors and perceptions on a subconscious level. However, this particular year saw fear rise to the surface of cultural discourse. Because our users' interest in this overarching theme emerges so starkly for one specific word in our trending lookup data,  xenophobia is Dictionary.com's 2016 Word of the Year.

The word xenophobia is actually relatively new, and only entered English in the late 1800s. It finds its roots in two Greek words, xénos meaning "stranger, guest," and phóbos meaning "fear, panic."
Dictionary.com defines xenophobia as "fear or hatred of foreigners, people from different cultures, or strangers." It can also refer to fear or dislike of customs, dress, and cultures of people with backgrounds different from our own.

Within the recent past, we can date user interest in the term xenophobia to April 2015, when there was a massive surge in lookups that was larger than any of the peaks seen in 2016. This spike in lookups was connected to attacks on foreign workers and overall rising xenophobia in South Africa. While lookups for xenophobia in the US also rose during that time, it was lookups from Dictionary.com's worldwide users that made this particular surge so significant.

The largest spike in our data for the term xenophobia this year occurred on June 24 with a 938% increase in lookups-that's hundreds of users looking up the term each hour. This was the day after the UK voted to leave the European Union as the result of a much debated referendum, also known as Brexit. Another lookup trend that was influenced by the Brexit vote: user interest in the term hate crime soared in the month of July as newspapers covered an increase in crimes motivated by prejudice in post-Brexit UK. In October, the British Home Office reported a 41% increase in hate crimes the month following the EU referendum.
Soon after Brexit, the second largest surge in lookups this year for the term xenophobia leads us to the 2016 US presidential race. On June 29, President Obama gave a speech in which he expressed concern over the use of the term populism to describe Donald Trump's political rhetoric. Obama insisted that this was not an example of populism, but of "nativism or xenophobia." The biggest spike in lookups for the term populism occurred on June 30 as a result of Obama's speech.
Xenophobia in World Events
Xenophobia  manifested itself in other world events in recent years. Immigration, in particular, has become a primary source of political contention. Syria's refugee crisis has been front and center in the news worldwide, and according to  Amnesty International , about half a million Syrians left their country this year to escape civil war. Because Syria is a majority Muslim country, many criticize anti-immigration policies as Islamophobic. Underlying fear of Islam also motivated legislation in France over the past year to ban burkinis, the full-coverage swimsuits favored by many Muslim women (the legislation was ultimately overturned). Unsurprisingly, users of Dictionary.com showed interest in the term burkini for the first time ever this past summer.
The pervasiveness of xenophobia in Dictionary.com's lookup data caused us to reflect on other ways in which fear of the other has dominated popular discourse over the last 12 months. This year in the United States we saw the rise of the alt-right, white nationalism, and other ideologies that promote hate, especially directed toward Muslims, Latinos, Jews, trans and queer communities, black America, and other nondominant groups. On November 9, the day after the US presidential election, the term xenophobia spiked in lookups on Dictionary.com, and, according to the Southern Poverty Law Center, there has been an increase in hate-based incidents since election day.
Xenophobia and Fear of the Other
A related term that often comes up in the context of xenophobia is otherness: "the quality or state of being perceived or treated as different, foreign, strange, etc." Otherness has existed in English since the 1500s, though its early uses were often in the context of a spiritual transcendence beyond the human experience. By the 1800s, otherness was regularly used in reference to cultural foreignness.

Xenophobia  and otherness are often discussed in the context of one another, but they're distinct both in their origins and their historical use. While the etymology of xenophobia explicitly links it to the psychological response of fear, otherness can be thought of in terms of sociological identity, defining what is normative by naming what is not. Similarly, the terms xenophobia and racism often come up together. While they are distinct phenomena, racism is often the basis of xenophobia-boiling simply down to the sentiment, "I don't like you because you don't look like me."
Xenophobia and Technology
The concept of xenophobia has parallels in the technology sector. Uncanny valley, a term that will soon appear on Dictionary.com, explores human discomfort when confronted with otherness in technology. The term refers to the feelings of unease or revulsion that people tend to have toward robots or computer animations that closely imitate or resemble humans. This unconscious response implies that we have strong negative reactions to so-called unnatural qualities in things that look human. Similarly, we can understand xenophobia as one manifestation of fear triggered by perceived differences. If that's the case, the more exposure we have to people who are different from us, the more at ease with that difference we will be. In an ideal world, understanding would lead to acceptance, and from there, empathy would follow.
Why Xenophobia?
While our lookup data can tell us what Dictionary.com users are interested in, it doesn't tell us the reason for the interest. Perhaps some of our users were unfamiliar with the word xenophobia, while others might have looked it up to double check the spelling or pronunciation. Maybe our users looked it up to affirm what they already knew about the meaning, or to share the definition with others. What we do know is that from global events to political rhetoric, xenophobia was a recurring subject of discourse in 2016. Despite being chosen as the 2016 Word of the Year, xenophobia is not to be celebrated. Rather it's a word to reflect upon deeply in light of the events of the recent past.


I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." - Jesus

Prayer: Holy One, help us not to fear, shun or run from one another but embrace the 'other' with your kind of love. Amen.

Do Your Part to Support Standing Rock
November 30, 2016 
Written by Connie Larkman
As thousands of religious leaders, clergy, chaplains and military veterans  make plans to converge in North Dakota Dec. 4 for a day of prayer at the water protectors camp north of the Standing Rock Sioux Indian Reservation, UCC allies are calling for continued advocacy in opposition to the Dakota Access Pipeline (DAPL) in the form of phone calls and petitions.

The veterans 'deployment,' a show of support planned for this weekend, coincides with Sunday's Interfaith Day of Prayer,  initiated by Chief Arvol Looking Horse, the 19th generation spiritual leader of the Lakota, Dakota, and Nakota Nations. The thousands putting their bodies on the line near the reservation will be supported by a movement to mobilize people across the country to reach out to their elected representatives before Dec. 5--the date water protectors were told to leave the lands where they have been camping for months.
"This is a very serious time we are in," Chief Looking Horse said in a video call to action for the day of prayer. "I know in my heart there are millions of people that feel this is long overdue. It is time that all of us become leaders to help protect the sacred upon Mother Earth. She is the source of life and not a resource." 

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