Q: My workplace allows us to dress up for Halloween.
But, because of the long list of what's considered offensive, and costumes becoming more of a political statement, I just don't feel like it this year. How do I stop my coworkers from asking me to dress up? --Kiesha
A
:
You can't stop anyone from asking
. You can come up with a response. Either the truth or a version of it. Take the day off if your work load allows it. Or, be a part of it by simply enjoying the parade of costumes as they stroll in.
A note to employers
: In this climate of potential litigation due to an employee or client becoming offended, it would be wise to send out guidelines regarding costumes.
- Be clear on boundaries. Include a list of what you will not tolerate.
- Clearly state consequences. Will they be sent home? With or without pay?
- Remind them that this is a place of business; certain attire is still required.
- Be sure management follows the same rules.
- Consider offering options; bring in dessert, everyone goes home thirty-minutes early...
A note to employees: First of all, your employer is not required to provide parties or give away company time so that you can show off your costume. Be grateful if they do. Then, get right back to work!
They have the right to expect you to appear presentable and professional. Save the statement piece or sexy outfit for after hours. Don't jeopardize your career, image, or put into question your judgement over this. Keep it neutral and make sure your costume does not impair your ability to do your job.
A note to seasoned, successful, wise coworkers: Take time to advise the younger coworker about the pros and cons to their career when selecting a Halloween costume.
Warning: it may offend you.
