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Mailing address: 21001 N. Tatum Blvd., Ste. 1630 #439, Phoenix, AZ 85050  
This holiday issue of Connections includes Rabbi Sharfman's Shabbat Message
for Friday, October 7 and Kehillah activities through October 16, 2016 / Tishrei 5777
RABBI SHARFMAN'S Rabbi Sharfman
WEEKLY MESSAGE
and CANDLE LIGHTING REMINDER

This week's parasha, Vayelech (meaning And he went...), takes place on the last day of Moses' life, as he turns over leadership to Joshua, and completes the writing of a Torah scroll which he then entrusted to the Levites for safekeeping in the Ark. Moses lived to be 120 years old, strong mentally and physically, which is the source of the blessing offered at significant birthdays, "may you live to 120..."

 
A kavannah for candlelighting for Shabbat Vayelech
Holy One, may my candle lighting this Shabbat inspire me to 'go'/reach out, as did Moses, to those I love and 'return' to my true self, the self without the layers, the self that returns, in love, to You.

This Shabbat has a special name - Shabbat Shuvah - the Sabbath of Return. Can you see the similarity between the words shuvah and teshuvah? It suggests that this Shabbat, between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, is a particularly important time to act on some of the commitments we made to ourselves on Rosh Hashanah, a time to close the gap between our good intentions and our actions. Of the many lessons Moses taught,  one that resonates most with me is an idea embedded in his teaching: words that come from the heart enter the heart....
 
Please note that we have included a personal prayer at the beginning of our Yom Kippur
machzor for those who cannot fast.

I look forward to sharing with you a meaningful and uplifting Yom Kippur.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Sharfman

HIGH HOLY DAYS_______________________________
If you are still seeking a welcoming congregation for Yom Kippur 5777, please contact us. No one is turned away due to financial constraints! Adjustments can be arranged through a confidential call to our office (602-369-7667). You will be treated with absolute respect and discretion.

 
YOM KIPPUR / Kol Nidre:
Tuesday, October 11, 7:30 p.m.
Wednesday, October 12, 10:00 a.m. (morning service)
Children's program will be offered during Torah service
Wednesday, October 12, 3:00 p.m. (afternoon service/Yizkor/Neilah)
Break the Fast is held on Wednesday, October 12 immediately following Neilah.
Please RSVP to [email protected] for Break the Fast
by 3:00 p.m. on Friday, October 7.

 
Please participate in the Kehillah  
annual High Holy Days Food Drive
Last year we collected over 650 pounds of food!

Again this year we are partnering with Mom's Pantry, a Phoenix community food bank. Please bring your donations when you attend Kol Nidre on Tuesday evening, October 11. Or you can bring your donations on Wednesday morning, October 12, when a Mom's Pantry truck and representative will be out front of the synagogue.
(Children can put their donation bags directly into the vehicle!)

Thank you in advance for your generous donations!
 
Learn more about Hunger in America at mazon.org, momspantryphoenix.org or feedingamerica.org. 

THIS WEEK____________________________________
KEVER AVOT MEMORIAL SERVICE
Sunday, October 9 / 7 Tishrei 5777, 10:00 a.m.
Mt. Sinai Cemetery
24210 N. 68th St., Phoenix, AZ 85054
       
Please join us to remember and honor loved ones buried here or anywhere in the world. Rabbi Sharfman will be one of the rabbis participating. Please RSVP with the number attending to [email protected] or 480-585-6060
BOOK GROUP
Sunday, October 9, 10:00 a.m.
At the home of Sherry Siegel
 
All are welcome to attend, even if you haven't finished (or started!) the book. At our October meeting we'll discuss The Nightingale, by Kristin Hannah. Please RSVP to Sherry at [email protected].

Read ahead!
November 13: Charms for the Easy Life, by Kaye Gibbons, at the home of Ilene Riffle
December 11: The Warmth of Other Suns, by Isabel Wilkerson, at the home of Arlene Rosenberg
UPCOMING____________________________________
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MOVIE TIME
originally scheduled for Sunday, October 16 has been cancelled.

Your Movie Time friends will be attending Kehillah's Sukkot Celebration (see next item), and encourage you to join them there!

For information about Movie Time, please contact Marilyn Morris at [email protected] (or call her at 602-494-2800).

Sukkah SUKKOT CELEBRATION
Sunday, October 16
4:00 p.m. - Special YEP! session with FYC invited
5:15 p.m. - Full congregation
 
Mark your calendars now  
for our Sukkot Celebration!

Sukkot begins at sundown on Sunday, October 16, and ends at sundown on Sunday, October 23.
Our 4:00 p.m. YEP!/FYC gathering will be a specially geared towards kids of all ages.
At 5:15 p.m., the entire congregation is invited to join the fun for a dairy/vegetarian potluck, with singing and games. 

Please RSVP to Renee ([email protected]) for the address (private home) and to let Renee know what potluck food you will bring.
GIRLS' NIGHT OUT
Wednesday, November 2, 6:30 p.m
The Haymaker Restaurant Co.
4717 E. Bell Rd., Phoenix, AZ 85032 
 
 

THE VOTE IS IN! 
We will be dining at the locally owned Haymaker restaurant.
They pride themselves on their home recipes. Isn't it time we all found a little
comfort in our food? Please RSVP by Tuesday, November 1 to Renee, [email protected].
 
Torah Talk
TORAH TALK
Saturday, November 12, 10:30 a.m.
at the home of Ilene Riffle

Discover why Torah Talk is one of Kehillah's most-loved traditions! Torah Talk is a morning filled with questions, conversation, laughter, and the opportunity to get up-close and personal with Rabbi Sharfman and your fellow CK members and seekers. No prior knowledge is needed to enjoy Torah Talk; all are welcome. Please RSVP to Ilene at [email protected] by Thursday, November 10, even if you are a regular attendee, so the host(s) can prepare.

ONLY THREE SPACES REMAINING!

The 4th Fabulous Trip to Israel
With Rabbi Bonnie Sharfman and Congregation Kehillah
May 1 - May 14, 2017

Don't wait, register now!
If you are at all interested, let us know asap as only three spaces remain
and we are getting inquiries from non-members.

Click here for the complete itinerary or visit
http://tinyurl.com/FabulousIsraelTrip 

Get a $200 discount if you're a Kehillah member.  
Get 5% off
when you pay by cash or check. 
Now accepting deposits online!  
$250 deposit - click on the red "Book Now" button on the right side

The sights, the tastes, the pride...your heritage. Isn't it time you visited Israel?

Whether it's your first trip or a return trip, traveling with Rabbi Sharfman and your Kehillah friends is an experience you will treasure forever. Rabbi Sharfman is fluent in Hebrew and formerly a licensed Israel tour guide....All that's missing is YOU!   

  Israel Dome
Photo at right: the stunning skyline of Jerusalem
 
Contact Rabbi Sharfman or Renee Joffe to let them know you're interested!

602-369-7667
[email protected]


PHOTO ALBUM
YEP! students at Rosh Hashanah services 
 


OCTOBER BIRTHDAYS and ANNIVERSARIES
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YOM HULEDET SAMEACH!

October 2 - Jason Schrott
October 4 - Paulette Morgenstern
                   Tina Prutting
October 5 - Jonathan Seeliger
October 9 - Tatum Scheinerman
                   Ryan Scheinerman
                   Howard Shore
October 10 - Richard Goldman
October 11 - Larry White
October 14 - Evan Durst
October 21 - Marshall Price
                     Rhonda Berkowitz
October 23 - Lauren Langer
October 25 - Debbie Sobel
October 29 - Elyse Katz
                     Corinne Clancy
                     Howard Friedman
                     Kurt Budenbender
October 31- Lindsay Fleet

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          MAZEL TOV!

October 26 - Alan and Karen Thursby
If you have an October birthday or anniversary and your name is missing from this list, please email [email protected] so we can update our records.
To make a donation in honor of birthdays, anniversaries, "Our Kehillah Family" mentions or any other reason, please use this link or contact us directly.
Thank you!
KEHILLAH IN THE NEWS
Check it out!
"Congregation Kehillah purchases its first home"
is in Jewish News
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OUR KEHILLAH FAMILY

We send prayers of healing to . . .

Gittel bat Deborah
Mildred Finkel,
   sister of Gil Blumenthal
Marsha Joffe
Joe Braslawsce
Barbara Liss
Tom Bartkus
Velva Keene, mother of Rick Keene
Hace Pearl/Debra Koren,
   cousin/niece of Renee & Marsha Joffe Warren Miller
Sandy Myslis
Penny Wolkis


Collen Carney
Shoshanna bat Phyllis
Olivia Adair Steele
Gedalya Nachum bar Bayla Rivka
Stisha Steigmann,
    friend of Marsha Joffe
Rose Sobel, mother of Bruce Sobel
Arlene Rosenberg
Bess Taubman
Joanna Lee, mother of Rich Goldman
Mariam Ahuvah bat Batsheva,
    daughter of Barbara Goldman
Judy Sahid, sister of Cathy Michel
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I am available to all Kehillah members in times of joy and sadness. Please let me know when I can extend support and comfort to you and your family.

                                                                                                   ~ Rabbi Sharfman
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HIPPA PRIVACY RULE: Hospitals won't notify us about your stay, nor will Jewish chaplains visit or share your information with us unless you specifically give permission and request that they do so. Rabbi Sharfman and Congregation Kehillah want to support Kehillah members - so many emotions and issues arise during illnesses requiring hospitalization. Please call the office and give us your name, hospital name/room number and any health details you can share to enable us to be responsive to you and your needs.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR DONATIONS
Rabbi's Discretionary Fund 
Vicki Mardell and Mort Berkowitz, In honor of the birth of Alana Claire, granddaughter of Rabbi Sharfman and Roger Morris 
 
Building and Beautification Fund  Karen and Alan Thursby, in honor of the birth of Alana Claire, granddaughter of Rabbi Sharfman and Roger Morris     

General Fund 
Davie Glaser, in honor of the birth of Alana Claire, granddaughter of Rabbi Sharfman and Roger Morris

Trees Have Been Planted in Israel 
Irma Gottlieb, in memory of Don Simmons
Dan and Evelyn Simon and Irma Gottlieb, in honor of Julia Rachel Plosker  
 
You can help support Congregation Kehillah and express your core values by making donations to Kehillah's various Funds - to celebrate, honor, remember, give thanks, to assist . . . or simply to do tzedakah
 
General Fund
Building and Beautification Fund
Caring Fund

Education Fund
Gottlieb Music Fund     
Oneg & Hospitality Fund
Social Action Fund
Torah Fund
Rabbi's Discretionary Fund 
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Memorial Board
Adopt a Prayer Book   

You can also plant trees in Israel directly through Kehillah, and Jewish National shiny-tree-button.jpg Fund will send a certificate out on your behalf. Each tree is $18 and a portion of your donation stays with Kehillah. Contact Renee for more information or to place your tree order.

Supporting Kehillah and expressing your Core Values is easy!
You can donate on our website, in any amount or send a check. Your donations in any amount are greatly appreciated! Congregation Kehlllah is a 501(c)(3) organization; your donations are tax-exempt to the fullest extent allowable by law. Please consult with your tax adviser.

Here's another great way to support Kehillah -
celebrate with an Oneg!

Sponsoring an Oneg is a great way to celebrate your lifecycle events 
and other wonderful news. For 2016-2017, we are aiming to have every Oneg sponsored! Dates are filling up, so to reserve your Oneg, please contact Renee at [email protected] or 602-369-7667.

OF INTEREST ELSEWHERE
Jewish War Veterans of the United States of America (JWV)
The JWV is looking for new members to keep its 120-year old legacy alive. Founded in 1896, JWV is one of the oldest veterans' organizations in America. The JWV is dedicated to upholding America's democratic tradition and fighting bigotry, prejudice, injustice and discrimination of all kinds.  As a national organization, the JWV represents the voice of America's Jewish Veterans on issues related to Veterans' benefits, foreign policy and national security.  JWV also commits itself to the assistance of oppressed Jews worldwide.
As you may know all Veterans organizations are in need of new members. Many of you served proudly in the military and the camaraderie made it a good experience. It doesn't matter in which service you served, just that you have a desire to join a great organization that provides help and comfort to service members in need.
Arizona has five JWV posts, two that meet at the Veterans Home in Phoenix, one in Chandler and one in Tucson. For more information please contact the Post Commander:
Scottsdale Post # 210 - Michael Chambers, 623-256-0658, [email protected];
Valley of the Sun Post #194 - Michael Halperin, 602-973-7682, [email protected];
Chandler Copper State Post # 619 - Paul Herman, 480-659-2998, [email protected]
Tucson Friedman-Paul Post # 201 - Jerry Small 520-617-4848,
  [email protected].
4th Annual Desert Gathering Jewish Musical Fest
Sunday, November 6, 2016, from 12:00 noon to 5: 00 p.m. at Steele Indian School Park (Amphitheatre area), 300 E. Indian School Rd., Phoenix, AZ 85012. Free with advance reservations; VIP Festival packages also available. Visit www.desertgatheringaz.org for information.

2016 Heritage Award to Diamondback President & CEO Derrick Hall
Arizona Jewish Historical Society will honor Derrick Hall, President & CEO of the Arizona Diamondbacks, with the 2016 Heritage Award on Saturday, November 12, 2016 at the Musical Instrument Museum. Read the press release, visit www.azjhs.org or call 602-241-7870 for tickets or more information.


Kabbalat Shabbat   <>    Torah Talk   <>    YEP!

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Torah Talk
KABBALAT SHABBAT

Kabbalat Shabbat begins on Fridays at 7:30 p.m. unless otherwise noted.  
 
  October 11  
      Kol Nidre 
  October 12  
      Yom Kippur 
October 28
November 18
December 9
 
2017
January 13 and 27
February 10 and 24
March 10 and 24
April 14 and 28
May 19
June 9 
TORAH TALK

Torah Talks are held Saturday mornings from 10:30 a.m. to 12:00 noon, in members' homes. Please RSVP so our hosts know how much food & drink to prepare.     
       
November 12
December 17

2017
January 21
February 18
March 18
April 15
May 20
June 17  

YEP! 
   
YEP! sessions are held on Sundays from 9:45 a.m. to 12:00 noon at VOSJCC, in the BJE classrooms.

October 16 - special family learning & Sukkot celebration, beginning at 4:00 p.m.

October 30
November 6 and 20
December 4 and 18

2017
January 8 and 22
February 5 and 26
March 12 and 26
April 9 and 23
May 7 and 21
       
DATES MENTIONED IN THIS ISSUE
For details, please see the corresponding items on the left.
Holidays are shown
in italics.

 
Sunday, Oct. 9
Kever Avot
Book Group

Tuesday, Oct. 11
Kol Nidre

Wednesday, Oct. 12
Yom Kippur

Sunday, Oct. 16
Sukkot Celebration

Saturday, Oct. 22
Torah Talk

Friday, Oct. 28
Kabbalat Shabbat

Sunday, Oct. 30
YEP!

Wednesday, Nov. 2
Girls' Night Out


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Do you have information for Connections?

Please send your news or photos to Renee in the Kehillah office before Shabbat for the following Monday's issue.


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Need a hand? The Kehillah Brotherhood
is here to help you. 


Need a ride to services or to an event? Have an odd job that might need an extra hand or two? Give the Brotherhood a shout! Email Rich Fox at [email protected]


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Information for Seniors

The Senior Concierge Project (through Jewish Family and Childrens Service) can provide information and help with socialization, education, transportation, home care, living facilities, legal assistance and more for those over age 60. Contact Janet Arnold, Senior Concierge, at 480-599-7198 or [email protected].

IF YOU DON'T DRIVE, DON'T WANT TO DRIVE, OR SHOULDN'T BE DRIVING,

Envoy America provides transportation and companionship services for Seniors, providing door-to-door, wait-and- return, advanced reservations, and pre-paid services based on time. No cash, no tipping, no surge pricing, and no surprises! Call to go out for shopping, visiting doctors, meeting with friends, running errands, visiting museums or shows, etc. Call Envoy America at 800-375-5558. For more information, visit www.EnvoyAmerica.com.
























































































































































































































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7430 E. Pinnacle Peak Rd., Ste. 132
Scottsdale, AZ 85255
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