Bits & Tips: Spring 2018 Edition
YUConnects offers unique social events, targeted matchmaking and educational programs to foster healthy relationships toward marriage. 
It is self-funded and open to the entire Jewish community.

Save the Date!
Wednesday, May 9th

Mazel Tov to
Dr. Efrat Sobolofsky, Director of YUConnects, 
and  Rabbi Zvi Sobolofsky, Rosh Yeshiva at YU who will be honored at the RIETS Annual Dinner on Wednesday, May 9.

Please donate today in their honor  and  celebrate the YUConnects Program.
Click here to learn more about the dinner.

Recent Engagements 
321 Engagements & Counting!

Talya Rand
of Bergenfield, NJ
&
Abraham Weinstock
of Brooklyn, NY

Matched by Mrs. Susie Fenyes

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Melanie Moore
of Scarsdale, NY
Yehuda Klein
of Woodmere, NY

Matched by Mrs. Sima Greenstein

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Brian Hiller
of Overland Park, KS
&
Sara Teig
of Sudbury, MA

Met at a YUConnects event 
in Israel
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Deborah Gourdji
West Hempstead, NY
Or Massaiov
of Teaneck, NJ

Matched by Mrs. Susie Fenyes
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 Mazel tov to all!
to YUConnects in honor of an engaged couple!
Meet and Greet

YUConnects recently had the pleasure of meeting 
87 men and 53 women while handing out hot pretzels on the YU and Stern Campuses.
Congratulations to our raffle winners for coming up with some wonderful ideas for first dates.

Shiur Spotlight 
of the Month

 Out of Egypt and Into the "Parsha": Liberating Our Dating Habits from Exile
by Rabbi Daniel Z. Feldman

Click Here to listen to more Shiurim on the YUTorah/YUConnects page
and other dating resources !

Smile of the Day


Help Us Make More Matches!
 

Have friends who are joining YUConnects?

Do YOU want help in maximizing your membership?

Check out these 
Refer to our  "Accepting A Match" tutorial for further help!
SUN - Singles Uniting Network 
New initiative to help singles in your community!

What: Periodic meetings of singles to network and act as matchmakers for each other. 
Where: Each Shul will appoint a facilitator who will run and host the meetings of singles at their home
For more information: read the article  here and contact David Katzoff at SinglesUnitingNetwork@gmail.com

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Center for the Jewish Future
Yeshiva University 
500 W 185th St., Furst Hall 421
New York, New York 10033
212-960-5400 x 6163
yuconnects@yu.edu

  upcoming events
          

 Network and Nosh!
When: Sunday, April 29
Who: Ages 20-35
Where: Citi Field
Price:  Only  $18 with promo code TNY18YUC before April 22 (for BOTH events: Torah New York and Network and Nosh)
How:  click here to register.
Questions? (212)960-5400 ext. 6163 


              Shabbos in Woodmere!    
When : June 9-10
Who: Ages 21-27
WhereWoodmere, NY
Price: $45
Registration opens the second week in May.
Sponsored in Memory of Linda Mitgang, a"h.


       


DineNMeet Shabbos in Far Rockway!
When: April 27-28 
Where:  Far Rockaway, NY
Who:  Ages 24-33
Cost: $50
How:  www.dinenmeet.com Application deadline by Monday, April 23rd at 1pm
Questions? (848)202-9573

 



OP-Ed
Professional Insight

10 Ways to Make 
Your Online Profile Stand Out
by Alan Avitan
Online Dating Coach

In the fast-paced digital age we live in there are few things that have become immune to the rapid rise in efficiency, dating being no exception . The modern dating landscape has rapidly changed from offline to online, from bar hopping to thumb swiping, and long awkward phone calls to quick easy chats.

As an online dater myself I completely understand how daunting it can be to create a dating profile. After all, trying to figure out which pictures of you look the best, trying to come up with that stellar bio that makes you sound cool without coming off as full of yourself, and hoping that what you've included is just enough to get the right people interested.

The world of online dating has allowed us to connect with more people, faster and easier than ever before. That said, it's also made it that much more competitive given the amount of options we now have. It's therefore even more important that your profile stands out and gets noticed by the people you're actually interested in.
 
If online dating is one of the outlets you use to meet people, a great profile is key. A generic profile that doesn't say much can be easily overlooked, so below are my tips for making your dating profile stand out from the crowd.

1. Your first picture matters!
People probably go through tens if not hundreds of profiles at a time so it's important that your first picture grab their attention. A great quality picture taken with a professional camera can set you far apart from one taken on a phone and can easily make you stand out from all the other pictures there seeing.

Click HERE for to read more.

YUConnects Pay It ForWed
Did you know that YUConnects has many resources for newly engaged couples? Check out our website to see what we offer. And, your donation to our non-profit will entitle you to unique tefilla cards for use at your chuppa. Should you be blessed with making a Simcha, your support of YUConnects can ensure others benefit as well. What a beautiful way to " Pay it ForWed!
Wedding Checklist  for the Wedding Day 
Beautiful Tefilla Cards  f or use at the Chuppah  Ceremony 
* A List of Kallah and Chosson Teachers  within your  community. Call our office for recommendations. 
Tribute Cards  to give in celebration of the big day

Read about events, activities and great links for hot topics in dating! 
  Check out our
  
Special thanks to the 
YUConnects 
Advisory Board,
who offer  continuous guidance and support.
Click Here to view our Board.
YUConnects Staff

Dr. Efrat Sobolofsky, 
Director-  esobolof@yu.edu

Mindy Eisenman, Staff Connector-  meisenma@yu.edu

Marjorie Glatt, 
Event Coordinator- mglatt@yu.edu

Rachel Novick,
Administrator- rachel.novick@yu.edu

Elizabeth Schwartz
Social Work Intern