"Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."
(1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
Dear St. Paul's,
Growing up in Connecticut, whenever I received a gift from an adult, my parents would make me sit down and write a thank you note to the gift giver. Oh, how I dreaded those notes! Part of the reason was because I was a typical young boy-I just wanted to enjoy the gift, whatever it was. Fly the kite, build the model, throw the darts. "Let me have fun!" I said. Finally after multiple threats, or the revocation of the gift, I would sit down with my pencil and a dog-eared piece of paper, and write a rough draft. "Dear Ant Sally, thank you so much for the amazing James Bond car. The ejecter seat is my favrit..." Then my mom and dad would pour over the smudged manuscript, making sure the grammar and spelling were correct. "You gotta fix this, this, and this." It was pure torture.
Granted, my parents were a tad over zealous in their thank you note orthodoxy, but I just didn't really get the value of the exercise. I wondered, "What is wrong with these people? Do they give gifts just to make kids miserable, forcing them to make payment with these silly notes?" It made absolutely no sense to me. And even when Aunt Sally would come to me later and say "Oh, Jon, thank you so much for your note. I loved it!" I would smile politely, and my parents would beam, but inside it was grumble, grumble, grumble. "If you only knew what you put me through..."
You'll be happy to know that I've seen the light. I finally got it. Expressing thanks isn't about "making payment" to someone for gifts given to me. Gratitude is a balm for my own soul. Gratitude is a shield against my selfish inclinations. Gratitude is humility in action. Forget cleanliness-gratitude is next to godliness. So in this season of Thanksgiving, and as Advent approaches, be intentional about giving thanks for all that God has already done for you. Be grateful for what you already have. "Dear God, thank you so much for the amazing year that you've given to me and to my family. Thank you so much for what you are doing at St. Paul's. It's a miracle how you worked out that challenge we were facing..." All of a sudden, those things which haven't worked out so well just seem to fade away.
Somewhere, my parents are smiling. Happy Thanksgiving, and God bless as you await the Newborn King.
Gratefully in Christ,
Pr. Jon
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