Question of the Week:
 
I notice that lighting candles is a big part of Judaism. We light candles every Friday for Shabbos, we light candles on every festival, and Chanukah is all about candles. What is the connection between candles and spirituality?
 
Answer:
 
There is something about a flame that makes it more spiritual than physical. 
 
When you use something physical, it is diminished. The more money you spend, the less you have. The more petrol you use, the emptier your tank becomes. The more food you eat the more you need to restock your pantry. 

But spiritual things increase with use. If I use my wisdom to teach, the student learns, and I come out smarter for it. If I share my love with another, I become more loving, not less. When I give a spiritual gift, the recipient gains, and I lose nothing. 
 
There is no better illustration of this than a candle. When you use one candle to light another, the original candle remains bright. Its light is not diminished by being shared, on the contrary, the two candles together enhance each others brightness and increase light.
 
We sometimes worry that we may stretch ourselves too thin. In matters of spirit, it isn't true. The more goodness we spread the more goodness we have. By making a new friend you become a better friend to your old friends. By having another child you open a new corridor of love in your heart that your other children benefit from too. By teaching more students you become wiser. And by spending time on meaningful pursuits, you realise how precious each day is, and use your time better.
 
Keep lighting your candles. There is a fire in your soul. You will never run out of light.
 
Good Shabbos and Happy Chanukah,
Rabbi Moss
 
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MENORAH LIGHTING BASICS (times for Sydney Australia)
 
For more about Chanukah CLICK HERE
 
The festival of Chanukah lasts eight days. The Menorah is lit every night of Chanukah, beginning this Saturday night, December 24 th  until Saturday December 31st .

This Saturday night, the Menorah must be lit after Shabbos has ended, no earlier than 8:51pm. Next Saturday night, the last night of Chanukah, it should be lit after 8:53pm.
 
From Sunday to Thursday, the earliest time to light is 6:40pm, but preferably should be lit after sundown (8:08pm). The candles should be either oil or wax, and should remain lit for at least half an hour after nightfall (nightfall is 8:39pm).

On Friday evening, the Menorah should be lit before Shabbos candles are lit, no earlier than 6:40pm and no later than 7:51pm, again ensuring that there is enough oil or wax to last until half an hour after nightfall (8:39pm).
 
On the first night one candle is set at the right of the Menorah and kindled. Each night another candle is added.
 
The newest light, which is the one furthest to the left, is always kindled first.
 
Use a "Shamash" (service candle) to kindle the lights, and then place it in its special place on the Menorah.

It is a mitzvah to light the Menorah in the home where you sleep. It is not sufficient to be present at a public menorah lighting, or at a friend's house.
 
All members of the family should be present at the kindling of the Chanukah lights. Those who live alone should also kindle Menorahs in their home.
 
The Chanukah lights are lit either in the front window or by a doorway opposite the Mezuzah.
 
MENORAH BLESSINGS
Before kindling the lights, say:
 
1) Ba-ruch A-tah Ado-nai E-lo-hei-nu Me-lech Ha-olam A-sher Ki-de-sha-nu Be-mitz-va-tav Ve-tzi-va-nu Le-had-lik Ner Cha-nu-kah.
 
2) Ba-ruch A-tah Ado-nai E-lo-hei-nu Me-lech Ha-olam She-a-sa Ni-sim La-avo-tei-nu Ba-ya-mim Ha-heim Bi-z'man Ha-zeh.
 
3) The following blessing is said only on the first evening (or the first time one kindles the lights this Chanukah):
 Ba-ruch A-tah Ado-nai E-lo-hei-nu Me-lech Ha-olam She-heche-ya-nu Ve-ki-yi-ma-nu Ve-higi-a-nu Liz-man Ha-zeh.  

SHABBAT SERVICES TIMES AND COMMUNITY INFO
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Friday, 23 December 2016 | 23 Kislev 5777
Candle Lighting............... 7:49 pm (*Earliest 6:40pm)  
Mincha........................... 6:10 pm
Friday Evening Service.... 6:30 pm
Followed by Kiddush.

Shabbos, 24 December 2016 |24 Kislev 5777
Chassidus Class.......................................... 9:00 am
Shabbos Morning Service........................... 10:00 am-12:15 pm
Children's program.....................................11:00am
 
Early Mincha and Seudah Shlishis in honour of Adam Karpas and Jodi Conn's call-up and upcoming wedding- Mazal Tov!....... 1:00pm
   
Mincha and barmitzvah of Aaron Charet ........   7:45 pm

Seudah Shlishis sponsored by Matthew and Raquel Charet in honour of Aaron's Bar Mitzvah - Mazal Tov!
 
Gematria and Story by Rev Amzalak................. 8:05 pm
Shiur:............................................................8:25 pm
Shabbos ends and Maariv................................. 8:51 pm
Followed by Havdalah and lighting the Nefesh Menorah- 1st candle.
 
WEEKDAY SHACHARIS SERVICES
Sunday, Mon & Tues (Pub. Hol) ...... 8:00 am
Wed- Fri......................................... 7:00 am
Latest Shema this week................. 9:15 am
 
NEW MOON/ MOLAD | THURS 29 DEC 4:52:7AM
ROSH CHODESH TEVES | FRI 30 DEC

MAZAL TOV TO 
Adam Karpas and Jodi Conn and their families on their upcoming wedding
Matthew and Raquel Charet on Aaron's barmitzvah
Daniel & Monique Gara on Jeremy's barmitzvah on Wednesday 
 
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO
Jonah Ink....... 25 Kislev/ Sunday 25 December
Aviv Farhy........ 2 Tevet/ Saturday 31 December
 
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO
Rachael & Brett Kaplan........ 29 Kislev/ Thursday 29 Dec
 
LONG LIFE TO
Rene Bermeister for her late mother
Malcha bat Hillel.................. 25 Kislev/ Sunday 25 December
Reverend Amzalak for his late brother Avraham ben Yitzchak 28 Kislev / Wednesday 28 December

 
NEXT WEEK, FRIDAY NIGHT 30 DEC, SHUL COMMENCES AT 7PM DUE TO MENORAH LIGHTING AND OUR CHANUKAH DINNER - BOOKINGS CLOSE WEDNESDAY  www.nefesh.org.au/hilarious