Dear Families,
It’s hard to believe that I’ve been a parent for over 20 years. Have a young adult as a “child” can be a very interesting thing to ponder when I’m alone with my own thoughts for a bit.
On one hand I’m kind of glad that I don’t have to think too much about the day to day with a little one at home, on trips or back and forth to school. But I also desperately miss the joy and laughter and silliness that filled the house when she was younger. I know that there were days that were challenging, exhausting and frustrating. But that is life with children and each phase brings the yin and yang of parenthood.
I still find joy in my young adult, but now challenges come in an entirely different way, shape and form. I can only sit back at times and hope that all of the advice that I gave over the years, all of the patience that I feel I showed, and all of the support and guidance that I shared as a parent, will and does make a difference. I reflect on what I could have done better or more. I think as parents we all do that, but along with being a parent who could make mistakes, we are human and not perfect. We all do our best and give our best and our children realize that.
I have been interviewing for new teachers and a new question that I added is; “What inspires you to be a better teacher?” I’ve been thinking about his in respect to being a better person myself. I think my inspiration to be a better person is knowing that the responsibility of being a parent never truly goes away and the things I do and say will always have an impact on my child.
I also know that your children inspire me to always do and say and act in the best way possible. Inspiration comes in many different ways for different people. I hope that you also find inspiration in both the joys and challenges and in the wonderful life of being a parent (or grandparent, or extended family member).
Warmly,
Mary Beth
It's not only children who grow. Parents do too.
As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives,
they are watching us to see what we do with ours.
I can't tell my children to reach for the sun.
All I can do is reach for it, myself.
-Joyce Maynard