THE CORNERSTONE

October 22, 2023

29th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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COMING UP

Stewardship of Treasure

Everything we have is a gift from God, and we're called to share these gifts with others. Stewardship is our response to God's generosity.


We kick off our 2024 Stewardship of Treasure Pledge Renewal in the coming weeks. We invite you to prayerfully reflect on what God has given you and what you can give back in return.


As you prayerfully consider your pledge, review the 2022-2023 parish annual report and renew your stewardship pledge for 2024 by clicking the button below.

PLEDGE RENEWAL

Winter Coat & Pajama Drive

Help provide new or gently used, freshly washed coats and pajamas in sizes 12 months to 5T for Pregnancy Aid.


Drop off donations in the vestibule at Holy Cross Catholic Church and Saint Patrick Catholic Church during October.


Pregnancy Aid serves the well-being of families with children in and beyond the womb by providing material and emotional support.

Catholic Daughters of the Americas

CDA is one of the oldest and largest organizations for Catholic women in the Americas, providing local spirituality, sharing, and activity under the support of a vibrant national organization.


every 4th Sunday

October 22 | 11:30 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church


Members donate to charities, administer scholarship programs, and strive "to be helping hands where there is pain, poverty, sorrow or sickness." They embrace the principle of faith, working through love to promote justice, equality, human rights, and human dignity.

Funeral Services


—Tom Merron—

October 27 | 11:00 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

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—Roberta Doyea—

October 28 | 11:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church

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Make the Connection Breakfast

The 6th annual Make the Connection Breakfast is a fundraiser in support of St. Leo Food Connection Emergency Food Programs.


October 26

7:00 am - 8:00 am

Doors open at 6:30 am


St. Leo Catholic Church

William J. Bichsel Social Hall


Breakfast is complimentary; please consider donating to support hungry families in Pierce County!

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Pancake Breakfast

The Knights are cooking breakfast!


October 29

9:00 am - 11:00 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Church Hall

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Breakfast is from 9:00 am to 11:00 am. If you're an 11:00 am Mass-goer, come early to eat and keep a one-hour fast before receiving Holy Communion.


Breakfast is by donation. Proceeds support seminarians. Save the date for the next Pancake Breakfast on December 31.

—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—


November 1

Source + Summit format change— no meal; Adoration begins after the 7:00 pm Mass for the Solemnity of All Saints and continues until midnight. The regular format returns on December 6.


November 2

No 9:00 am Mass; join us at 7:00 pm for the Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed.


Women & The Word

The 9:30 am Women & The Word session now starts at 10:00 am, after the 9:00 am Mass.


First Friday Mass

First Friday Mass at 11:00 am

through May 2024

No 9:00 am Daily Mass

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LITURGY

Kateri Circle Mass

Throughout the year, and especially in November during Native American Heritage Month, we celebrate Indigenous people's rich traditions, languages, and contributions with the Kateri Circle community.


every 4th Sunday

October 22 | 1:30 pm

St. Leo Catholic Church


This is one of two cultural masses celebrated at St. Leo Parish on the 4th Sunday of each month and one of three in Tacoma. Scroll to the following article to learn more.

Filipino-American Mass

Celebrate Mass and fellowship embodying the Filipino-American spirit while recognizing and embracing multiculturalism in our Catholic faith and celebrating Fil-Am Heritage Month.


Mass every 4th Sunday

October 22 | 11:30 am

St. Leo Catholic Church

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Parol Making Workshop

October 22 | 12:30

St. Leo Catholic Church

William J Bichsel Social Hall

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One of the most iconic symbols of the Filipino Christmas spirit is the Parol, a star-shaped lantern expressing shared faith and hope, symbolizing the triumph of light over darkness and goodwill during Christmas. It is also known as a representation of the star of Bethlehem that guided the Three Wise Men to the manger of baby Jesus.


A $10 donation to help cover the cost of the materials is suggested, and everyone is encouraged to bring a dish to share for Salo-Salo.

Samoan Bilingual Mass

Celebrate the Mass with the St. Peter Chanel Samoan community, and experience Samoan Catholic traditions during Mass, reflecting the cultural blend of the Catholic faith with the customs and practices of the Samoan people.


every 2nd & 4th Sunday

October 22 | 12 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church


Learn more about the Samoan Catholic community traditions in an article in Northwest Catholic.

All Saints Day

Solemnity of All Saints is a Holy Day of Obligation celebrating all the saints in Heaven, recognized by the Church as holy men and women and those who remain unknown. 


November 1


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

9:00 am

with the students, staff, and families of Saint Patrick Catholic School

The church doors are locked when the all-school Mass begins.


7:00 pm

followed by Adoration until midnight


Source + Summit begins at 8:00 pm instead of 6:30 pm; there is no meal in November; the regular schedule resumes on December 6.



—Holy Cross Catholic Church—

5:00 pm

All Souls Day

Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed is a day to celebrate, honor, and pray for all those who have died to rest peacefully with God.


All Souls' Day is the second day of the famous "Día de Los Muertos" celebrations in Mexico and other Hispanic countries and communities.


November 2


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

7:00 pm

No 9:00 am Mass; please join us at 7:00 pm instead



—Holy Cross Catholic Church—

9:00 am

1st Friday Mass

Let's gather to pray together at Mass on the first Friday of each month from October to May.


every 1st Friday

November 3 | 11:00 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

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No 9:00 am Mass; please join us at 11:00 am instead.


Lunch Theme

Lunch for seniors follows Mass in the Church Hall, sponsored by the Health Ministry. Lunches on Senior First Friday explore the cuisines of different countries each month and honor a Saint from that country.


—save the dates—

2023 | December 1,

2024 | January 5, February 2, March 1, April 5, May 3


Volunteer Opportunity

Volunteers are needed to help serve the themed lunches. To volunteer or if you need a ride to Mass, call 253-274-4109 or email Garry FitzGerald. Saint Patrick Catholic School middle schoolers are encouraged to volunteer to fulfill required service hours.

ADVOCACY

Vote By November 7

October 20 began the 18-day voting period. Remember to mail your ballot by November 7.


For information about the Catholic Church's teachings on numerous policy issues, see the USCCB's publication, Forming Consciences for Faithful Citizenship.


Register to vote by visiting Washington's Secretary of State webpage

Respect Life Month

In October, the Catholic Church in the United States celebrates Respect Life Month, and the first Sunday of October is designated as Respect Life Sunday. The USCCB Secretariat of Pro-Life Activities provides materials to help Catholics understand and value the gift of human life and help build a culture that cherishes and protects it.

The following materials are designed to be brought to life as tools in your hands. These resources may be downloaded, printed, and reproduced. View resources.

40 Days for Life

The visible, public centerpiece of 40 Days for Life is a focused, 40-day prayer vigil outside an abortion facility in the community. It is a peaceful and educational presence. Those called to stand witness send a powerful message to the community about the tragic reality of abortion.


—Fall Vigil—

through November 5

Tuesday - Sunday

8:00 am - 4:00 pm

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public right of way at

Cedar River Clinics

1401 Martin Luther King Jr. Way


To sign up, email 40 Days for Life.


For more information, visit 40daysforlife/Tacoma.com.

STEWARDSHIP

Parishioner Assistance Still Needed — Pushpay Deadline Approaching

Thank you for your consistent giving to our parish. We are grateful for your continued generosity and are excited to announce a new way to give. We value our parish community and want to ensure everyone knows about our new giving platform.

 

We are moving away from Our Sunday Visitor (OSV) Online Giving and EFT services. We have chosen to contract with Pushpay. We strive to be good stewards of your financial gifts and believe the significantly lower processing fees offered through Pushpay will allow your gift of treasure to support our parishes' mission further. As always, security is a top priority. 

 

We aim to complete this transition process to Pushpay by November 1, so we need your help moving your current OSV Online Giving and EFT gifts. 


Online Giving (credit cards or bank account)

If you currently donate online (via OSV), please follow the instructions below to set up your recurring gift through Pushpay and cancel your donation through OSV.


EFT (bank account only)

If you currently donate through EFT (donations processed via the Parish Office at Saint Patrick Parish), please follow the instructions below to set up your recurring gift through Pushpay. Then, email Michelle Carpenter to stop your EFT donations.


Envelopes

If you currently give using envelopes at Mass, please consider donating online and setting up an account in Pushpay by clicking the PUSHPAY button below.

INSTRUCTIONS

Weekly Collection Needed

$19,811

10/15/23 Collection

$22,804

Needed Year to Date

$316,976

Actual Year to Date

$320,624

PUSHPAY
INSTRUCTIONS

Weekly Collection Needed

$5,770

10/15/23 Collection

$5,752

Needed Year to Date

$92,320

Actual Year to Date

$106,490

PUSHPAY

Dear Friends,


Thank you for your generous support of Annual Fund 24. Our goal is $250,000 and 100% participation by October 31. We have raised $127,000, with 44% of school families participating.


Many small donations become large donations. Consider a monthly recurring donation of $25, which becomes $300 after one year—all gifts are needed, regardless of the size.


Become a Sustainers' Club member by allowing your recurring gift to convert automatically towards the following year's fund by leaving the end date empty.


If you would like to learn more, you can watch our Annual Fund 24 appeal video.

Leigh Ann and Matt Zehnder

Chairs, Annual Fund 2024 

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—registration—

SACRAMENTAL PREP & FAITH FORMATION

Christian Initiation

Are you interested in joining the Catholic Church? Register for Christian Initiation sessions.


Tuesdays | 6:00 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center

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Learn More

Email Meg Hannan, Baptism & Faith Formation Coordinator, or call 253-274-4112 to learn more about Sacramental Preparation for Baptism, First Holy Communion, Reconciliation, and Confirmation.

Catechesis of the Good Shepherd (CGS)

CGS is an approach to faith formation where children 3-12 years old are formed in the Catholic faith in a sacred space called the 'atrium. 

God's Love for Us 

In the atrium, the child hears that the most important book in the whole world is the Holy Bible. The Bible is God's Word to us. In it, we hear how much God loves us. They come to learn how to create an atmosphere of silence so that they may listen closely to His Voice.

Registration

Current and new families can enroll for sessions running through May 2024.


Limited space is available in the morning sessions; afternoon sessions are full.

REGISTRATION

Learn More

To learn more about CGS at Saint Patrick Catholic Church, visit the atrium, serve or train as a catechist, email Kim Ward, CGS Coordinator, or call 253-274-4108. 


For more information, visit the national CGS Association and the local consortium website, The Sheepfold.

OUTREACH

Stephen Ministry

Are you physically, emotionally, or spiritually going through a tough time? Are you struggling with a personal crisis or challenge? Feeling isolated or lonely?


Consider inviting one of our parish's trained Stephen Ministers to walk alongside you during this difficult time.


Email Laura Dougherty or call 253-274-4109 to learn more.

Do you need a ride to Mass?

We have a few volunteers who have expressed interest in helping transport parishioners who cannot get to Mass independently. 


Those being transported must live within five miles of Saint Patrick Catholic Church. 


Please email Laura Dougherty or call 253-274-4109 to make arrangements.

PASTORAL CARE

Catholic in Recovery

Catholic in Recovery provides healing from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments.


Tuesdays | 6:00 pm

St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church

Convent Chapel on the SW corner of the parish campus


Meetings combine the spiritual principles of 12-step recovery and the sacraments of the Catholic Church. Join others in recovery as we overlap scripture from Sunday's Mass readings, liturgical themes, and recovery topics with honest discussion and prayer. Confidentiality is protected.


For more information, visit www.catholicinrecovery.com or contact Catherine at 206-227-6737 or [email protected]

FAITH FORMATION

Women & The Word

Ladies of any age are welcome. Bring your coffee and join us as we reflect on God's Word.


Thursdays | 10:00 am

Join us immediately after the 9:00 am Mass with Saint Patrick Catholic School; however, there is no 9:00 am Mass on November 2.


Thursdays | 7:00 am


Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center


All are welcome. Need not be a parishioner or Catholic! Bring your friends.

Bible Study

Studying scripture in a group leads to more profound discovery. Join Deacon Bill Eckert in a bible study on the Gospel according to John. You'll get an overview of the Church's approach to scripture and interpretation.


Tuesdays

4:00 pm - 5:30 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church

Parish Hall


Bring your bible. Liturgically themed refreshments are provided by a generous parishioner! All are welcome. Need not be a parishioner or Catholic! Bring your friends.

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ADORATION

Source + Summit Special

After Mass on the Solemnity of All Saints, a holy day of obligation, come together to grow in fellowship through worship, music, and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament.


Come to Mass and stay for Adoration. This night is for you, your family, friends, and neighbors, young or old. Stay for half an hour, an hour, a few, or until midnight!


November 1

8:00 pm - Midnight

Saint Patrick Catholic Church


Source + Summit returns to the regular format on December 6.

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—Schedule—

6:30 pm | Dinner in the Church Hall

7:15 pm | Adoration & Worship Music

7:30 pm | Reflection topic presented

8:00 pm | Adoration ends


To learn more, email Lauren Muraski or call her at 901-287-9065.

Holy Hour for Life

Join us for Eucharistic Adoration, prayer, and confessions.



November 3

Every 1st Friday

6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church


—save the dates—

December 1, January 5, February 2, March 1, April 5, May 3, June 7, July 5, August 2

Eucharistic Adoration

Rest in the presence of Jesus in the Eucharist! It'll change your life. All are welcome. Sign-up is required.


—CHAPEL at Holy Cross—

Perpetual Adoration 24/7

To sign up


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

Mondays | 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

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MINISTRIES

Social Hour

Social Hour after Mass is not just about refreshments; it's a time for building, nurturing, and strengthening relationships by connecting on spiritual and personal levels and fostering community, support, and belonging.


Saint Patrick Catholic Church

The Dougherty family is hosting Social Hour on October 22. If you are interested in hosting, talk to or email Laura Dougherty.


There is no out-of-pocket cost to host. The Parish provides the donuts and coffee— your family picks up the donuts, sets up, serves, and cleans up.


Holy Cross Catholic Church

Social Hour is hosted after the 10:00 am Sunday Mass as scheduled:


—1st Sunday—

St. Peter Chanel Samoan Ministry

—2nd Sunday—

Knights of Columbus Council 16667

—3rd Sunday—

Altar Society 

—4th Sunday—

Catholic Daughters of the Americas 

— 5th Sunday—

CDA or Knights

Holy Cross Choir

Come love God through song with the Holy Cross choir.



“He who sings praise is not only singing but loving Him about whom he sings.” —St. Augustine of Hippo— 


Wednesdays | 6:30 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church

Choir Loft


If you are new to the choir or would like more information, please email or call Erica Minneman, Music Director, at 253-310-7508.

Knights of Columbus

The Knights of Columbus is a global Catholic fraternal service order founded by Michael J. McGivney in 1882 for practicing Catholic men.


—Council 809 News—


Family of the Month

Dave and Laurie Pearson


Knight of the Month

Justin Farias


Knight Tidings

October


—coming up—

PANCAKE BREAKFAST

9:00 am - 11:00 am

October 29

December 31

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—standing meetings—

Meetings are held at 6:30 pm in the Church Hall at Saint Patrick Catholic Church or via Go to Meeting virtually.


ROSARY

2nd Thursday of the month

except for July and August


OFFICER PLANNING MEETING

3rd Tuesday of the month


MEMBERSHIP MEETING & SOCIAL

4th Tuesday of the month


To learn more, call 253-380-4000 or email the Knights. Follow on Facebook.

Holy Cross Sale

Holy Cross hosts a quarterly sale to raise funds for charitable works. Check out some of the new and gently used items!


—upcoming sale—

December 1 - 2

10:00 am - 4:00 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church

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Shop Friday and Saturday from 10:00 am to 4:00 pm with a $5 bag sale on Saturday from 2:00 pm - to 4:00 pm.


Donations & Sale Preparation

Donations are accepted weekly, except for large furniture.


Tuesdays

10:00 am - 2:00 pm 

Holy Cross Catholic Church


Volunteers are needed to accept donations and prep for upcoming sales during that time too!

YOUTH & YOUNG ADULTS

Middle School Youth Group

Grades 6-8 students are invited to build a relationship with Jesus.


High school students, young adults, and the young at heart are invited to support the Youth Group in leadership roles.


November 2

Thursdays | 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center

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—save the dates—

November 9, & 16

December 7, 14, & 21


The first few sessions will be games-heavy to build community. The weekly schedule always includes:

  • Dinner
  • Games
  • Topic introduction
  • Small group discussion
  • Adoration

Catholic Youth Convention

Deepen your relationship with God.

Join hundreds of high school youth to experience God through community and joy, learning, and prayer!


November 4 | 9:00 am - 8:00 pm

St. Michael Church, Olympia

REGISTER

Registration closes on October 29

Mass Consumption

Young adults are invited to delve into the Word and share faith while discussing the daily readings.


Mondays

6:30 pm - 8:00 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center


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PRAYER INTENTIONS

October 24 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Philip & Pamela Koehler


October 25 | 9:00 am  

for the repose of the soul of 

Thomas Price


October 26 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Bryce Holbrook


October 27 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

George & Margarite Wolter


October 28 | 5:00 pm

October 29 | 9:00 am 11:00 am 7:00 pm

for the people of the parish

October 23 | 9:00 am

for the intentions of  

Keith Klappmeyer


October 25 | 5:00 pm

for the repose of the soul of  

Dick Lucich


October 26 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Jim Keithley 


October 27 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of

Greg Dayton


October 28 | 5:00 pm

October 29 | 10:00 am

for the people of the parish

We pray for our sick,

Lucas Jacob Flores,  Dan Wombacher, Bill Bailey, Bob Jameson, Dolores Glump, Barbara and Tom Tomberg, Georgeann Cukjati, Doug Jones, Jlynn Callahan,  Angie Allen, Ann Kormos, Joan Bruce, Millie McNerthney, John Bosse, Molly Cleary, Tagi Leau, Glenna Toledo, Jerry Bock, Tim Hopkins, Andre Franco, Michelle Devettori, Janet McIntyre, Norm Christenson, Toni Mineo, Marla Grassi,

and Patricia Smurro


We pray for our dead,

John Gallo, Nhora Ospina, Nancy Larson, and Gail Cornelius, sister of Paula Fiorino

Men's Prayer Group

Men of all ages gather to read the day's scripture and a reflection from the Word Among Us.


Fridays

6:45 am - 7:30 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Church Hall


They also read and discuss books focused on faith. Past reads include Weight of Glory by CS Lewis, Mercy: What Every Catholic Should Know by Daniel Moloney, and He Leadeth Me by Fr. Walter Ciszek, which Fr. David highly recommended.

SCHEDULES

1123 North J Street

Tacoma, WA 98403

253-383-2783


—Mass Times—

Saturday Vigil Mass

5:00 pm


Sunday Mass

9:00 am | 11:00 am | 7:00 pm


Daily Mass

Tuesday - Friday | 9:00 am*


*except at 11:00 am on the first Friday of the month from October - May for Senior First Friday Mass & Lunch


Mass with the Saint Patrick Catholic School every Thursday, September - June, unless otherwise noted



—Confessions—

Saturday | 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm


—Office Hours—

Tuesday - Thursday

9:30 am - 3:30 pm

Staff Directory

5510 North 44th Street

Tacoma, WA 98407

253-759-3368


—Mass Times—

Saturday Vigil Mass

5:00 pm


Sunday Mass

10:00 am


Mass in Samoan

12:00 pm | 2nd & 4th Sunday


Daily Mass

Monday | Thursday | Friday | 9:00 am

Wednesday | 5:00 pm


—Confessions—

Saturday | 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm


—Office Hours—

Monday - Friday

8:00 am - 3:00 pm

Staff Directory
PHOTO HIGHLIGHT

Sponsored by Saint Patrick Catholic Church & School, Pack 299 4th grade Webelos Den connected with art at the Tacoma Art Museum! On Neighborhood Nights, hosted every Thursday, 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm, admission is free, and the TAM offers programs with community partners, artists, scholars, and entertainers. On the third Thursday, the TAM Studio features hands-on artmaking and DJs spinning music in the Museum lobby.


—Photo Credit Alecia Genge—

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Email [email protected] or leave a voicemail at 253-383-2783. Messages are checked daily and routed to the appropriate staff person. If you need the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, call 253-383-2783, extension 4102, and leave a message.