THE CORNERSTONE

January 14, 2024

2nd Sunday in Ordinary Time

Having trouble viewing The Cornerstone? View this email as a webpage in your browser.

"Somewhere, I don't remember where I ran across a little reflection about the joy of bringing children to Mass. I want to share it with you. ...your kids belong to God first. You are co-creators and stewards of your children. It's up to you to help them grow in their relationship with God, their Father."


Fr. David Mulholland

Pastor Letter Archives | January 2023

Kids! Bring them to church. Saturate their lives with the love of God. Even if they lay on the floor. Even if they need 437 goldfish and a sucker to be quiet. Even if you stand in the back, swaying back and forth, holding them. Even when it's hard. Even when your pew looks like a hurricane just came through. 

 

Bring them to church. Let them see you worship. Let them see you pray. Let them see you working at addressing your faults and leaning on our Lord when things are hard because if they don't see and learn these things from you, who are they going to learn them from? 

 

The world will teach them faithfulness is not a priority. The world will teach them that what they want is more important than what God wants for them. The world will direct them so far off course, confuse them, and misinform them that just being "good" is enough. The world won't teach them about Jesus. That's our job. 

 

Bring them to church. 

 

"And anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me. But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea."

—Matthew 18:5-6—

 

Teaching kids is a huge responsibility. We must take it seriously and do it well. Prepare well, speak truth, and remember they are God's children first.

ALWAYS scroll to the bottom of The Cornerstone; you might need to click view the entire message if your email provider clipped it or view it as a webpage in the browser to stay informed about important news, events, and programs. You'll know you've reached the end when you see our photo highlight.

COMING UP

The Parish Offices are closed on Monday, January 15, in observance of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

No 9:00 am Mass on January 16


—Holy Cross Catholic Church—

No Bible Study on January 23


Office hours from January 24 until February 15 will be Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, 9:30 am-3:00 pm, and Wednesday, 10:30 am-3:00 pm.

Funeral Mass Announcements


Skip Butler

January 16 | 11:00 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Share | Livestream


Skip Butler, a beloved Saint Patrick Catholic School 6th-grade teacher, retired in 2014 after 40 years of teaching suffered a stroke two weeks before Christmas and was not able to recover. He passed away on January 7, surrounded by family.


A reception immediately follows at Saint Patrick Catholic School in the gymnasium named after him.


In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Saint Patrick Catholic School tuition assistance fund in Skip Butler's name.

John Louis Messina Sr

January 19 | 11:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church

Share


Rosary

January 18 | 6:00 pm

St. Rita of Cascia Catholic Church


John was surrounded by friends and loved ones in his last moments at the age of 84. He is the brother of former Principal Francie Messina Jordan.


In lieu of flowers, donations in John's name can be made to the Jesuit community. Read the obituary to learn more about the life of John Messina Sr.

9 Days for Life

9 Days for Life is an annual novena for the protection of human life. Each day's intention is accompanied by a short reflection and suggested actions to help build a culture of life.


January 16-24


​Sign up to receive the daily prayers via email or text message.

SIGN UP

A Pilgrimage to Greece

You are invited to follow in the footsteps of St. Paul the Apostle and the Early Christian Community with Bishop Schuster and Fr. Johnson.


October 8–18, 2024


Enjoy Greek culture and cuisine while seeing the Acts of the Apostles

and Letters of St. Paul come alive in your travels.


Registration is open; there are only 31 spots available.

REGISTER

Altar Society

Altar Society is a women's group that hosts funeral receptions and raises funds for altar flowers. All parish women are welcome.


January 18 | 11:00 am

Holy Cross Catholic Church

Parish Hall


They meet on the third Thursday of the month.



Middle School Youth Group

Grades 6-8 students are invited to build a relationship with Jesus.


High school students, young adults, and the young at heart are invited to support the Youth Group in leadership roles.


—YOUTH GROUP MEETING—

January 18

Thursdays | 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center

Share


The weekly schedule always includes:

  • Dinner
  • Games
  • Topic introduction
  • Small group discussion
  • Adoration


—save the dates—

Middle School Youth Group

February 1, 8, 15, 22

March 7, 14, 21

April 18, 25

May 2, 9, 16, 23, 30

June 6


Retreat

April 13-14, 2024


Leaders Meeting

January 25, February 29

March 24, April 11-12


Youth Group for Middle Schoolers meets every Thursday except for the last Thursday of the month unless otherwise noted.


Youth Ministry leaders and high school volunteers meet on the last Thursday of the month, except in May.

Young Catholic Professionals

Kick off the new year with the Young Catholic Professionals (YCP) Seattle Executive Speaker Series featuring David Jackson, the CEO of ServerDomes.


January 18 | 7:00 pm

St. Monica Catholic Church


This is a free public event. Business casual attire. Complimentary food and drinks. RSVP at ycpseattle.org

 Moms Group   (Instagram Post).jpg

New Moms Group

Feel less alone, more connected, calmer, and better able to face the challenges of new motherhood. You'll gain connections, sharing, understanding, confidence to respond to the emotional highs and lows of new motherhood, and skills in building resilience. Because every baby deserves a healthy mother, and every mother deserves to enjoy parenthood.


Join us for an eight-week series with Rachel Ford, LICSW.


January 28 - March 17

Sundays

1:00 pm - 2:30 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center

Share


Email Laura Dougherty to RSVP. 

RSVP is appreciated but is not required.


By providing a brave and affirming space, free from judgment, Rachel Ford explores the current challenges moms face and celebrates the "small wins" of each day. She strives to make each person feel genuinely seen and heard.


She finds great joy in building relationships among groups of women who can support and nurture one another.  


As a therapist, perinatal mental health expert, mom of three, parishioner, and school parent at Saint Patrick Catholic Church & School, she is dedicated to creating a community of moms who can buttress and care for one another. 

Grief Support Group

When a loved one dies, you can feel isolated, lonely, sad, and that no one understands what you're going through.


GriefShare is a faith-based 13-week seminar and support group designed to provide support, education, encouragement, and comfort as you share your grief journey with others who understand how it feels to lose a loved one.


Grief support will be provided in a confidential, caring space where people can share their journey with others.


Thursdays

February 15 - May 9

10:30 - 12:30 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

 Parish Center

Share


To register, email Kristine Keough Forte or call 360-430-4361.


We know grief has no timeline; please know that you are welcome to join us at any time after the death of a loved one, whether it has been days, months, or years since their death.  


Kristine Keough Forte, M.S., D.Be, has over 40 years of experience in a clinical setting caring for individuals and their families during serious illness and at the end of life. She believes a faith-based approach provides the best support for people on their grief journey. After retirement, she coordinated the Grief Ministry at St. Rose Parish for two years. Kris and her husband, Mario Forte, moved to Tacoma to be closer to their children and grandchildren and joined Saint Patrick Parish.

A Baby Shower

Holy Cross Catholic Church is hosting a baby shower to support Pregnancy Aid of Tacoma!


February 17

before the 5:00 pm Mass

February 18

before the 10:00 am Mass

Share


Drop off donations in the Pack 'n Play in the vestibule at Holy Cross Catholic Church.


New and clean, gently used maternity clothing, baby gear and supplies, and infant and toddler clothing are being collected! Copies of the wish list of most needed items are available in the vestibule.


Gifts don't need to be wrapped. Monetary donations are beneficial. Make checks payable to Pregnancy Aid of Tacoma.


If you have any questions, please call Peggy Gagliardi at 253-564-6660.

SCHOOL

Schedule a Tour

Our heritage, your future— schedule a tour to learn more about Catholic Education at Saint Patrick Catholic School, especially for students entering PreK, Kindergarten, and Middle School.


Visit our newly renovated Early Learning Center for preschoolers and our recently renovated Kindergarten through 8th-grade classrooms.


Are you already enrolled? Tell your friends and family to tour now for 2024-2025 admissions applications and enrollment. Now is also the time for siblings of current students to apply!

INQUIRE

STEWARDSHIP

Weekly Offertory

Giving online using Pushpay allows you to make donations, payments, and pledges via your mobile phone, smart device, or computer. Your gift benefits sacramental preparation, liturgical programs, and religious education.


Prayerfully consider making a recurring weekly or monthly donation to the parish collection by creating an account. Thank you for your investment and continued support!

unavailable at the time of publication

PUSHPAY

Weekly Collection Needed

$5,770

1/8/24 Collection

$7,802

Needed Year to Date

$161,560

Actual Year to Date

$197,325

PUSHPAY

If you still need to update your giving in Pushpay to reflect your 2024 stewardship pledge, please do so now.

Northwest Catholic Collection

Northwest Catholic is the official publication of the Archdiocese of Seattle, mailed six times yearly to every registered Catholic household in Western WA.


In addition to the print magazine, NW Catholic includes a news website, NWCatholic.org; a weekly email newsletter; and social media outreach on Facebook, X (Twitter), and Instagram.


NW Catholic's mission is to promote the new evangelization and form disciples by proclaiming the good news of Jesus Christ.


A percentage of this collection goes to the US Bishops' Catholic Communication Campaign.


A special collection will take place the weekend of January 27 and 28. Please give generously to this campaign using the parish giving links in the article above or drop the special collection envelope in the offertory basket at Mass!


ADVOCACY

Catholic Advocacy

The 2024 state legislative session has begun.


Advocate for the common good by reading the Catholic Advocacy Bulletin, published every Friday during the session. The bulletin includes Action Alerts and opportunities to sign in virtually for or against bills of importance to Catholics. If you do not receive the WSCC's Catholic Advocacy Bulletin directly, we invite you to sign up. 


Below are resources to explore.

PASTORAL CARE

Wellness Wednesdays

Following Jesus Christ as our teacher, the Seattle Archdiocese Mental Health Ministry gathers wisdom and resources. It reaches out to parishes and schools to create welcoming communities of compassion, support, and education to reduce the stigma of mental illness.


Wellness Wednesdays Speaker Series about Grief, Trauma, and BIPOC Mental Health is free and offered in-person and online on April 10 and July 10. View the flyer to learn more.

REGISTER

Stephen Ministry

Are you physically, emotionally, or spiritually going through a tough time? Are you struggling with a personal crisis or challenge? Feeling isolated or lonely?


Consider inviting one of our parish's trained Stephen Ministers to walk alongside you during this difficult time.


Email Laura Dougherty or call 253-274-4109 to learn more.

Catholic in Recovery

Catholic in Recovery provides healing from addictions, compulsions, and unhealthy attachments.


Tuesdays | 6:00 pm

St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church

Convent Chapel on the SW corner of the parish campus


Wednesday | 6:30 pm

St. Nicholas Catholic Church

Gig Harbor


Meetings combine the spiritual principles of 12-step recovery and the sacraments of the Catholic Church. Join others in recovery as we overlap scripture from Sunday's Mass readings, liturgical themes, and recovery topics with honest discussion and prayer. Confidentiality is protected.


For more information, visit www.catholicinrecovery.com, email Catherine or call her at 206-227-6737.

Do you need a ride to Mass?

We have a few volunteers who have expressed interest in helping transport parishioners who cannot get to Mass independently. 


Those being transported must live within five miles of Saint Patrick Catholic Church. 


Email Laura Dougherty or call 253-274-4109 to make arrangements.

FAITH FORMATION

Women & The Word

Ladies of any age are welcome. Bring your coffee and join us as we reflect on God's Word.


Mondays | 9:00 am

Thursdays | 7:00 am


Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center


Need not be a parishioner or Catholic! Bring your friends.

CGS (Instagram Post).jpg

Catechesis of the Good Shepherd (CGS)

CGS is an approach to faith formation where children 3-12 years old are formed in the Catholic faith in a sacred space called the atrium. 

The Parable of the Mustard Seed is found in all three levels (3-6 year-olds, 6-9 year-olds, 9-12-year-olds) of the Catechesis of the Good Shepherd and the children, no matter what age, tell us that it is one of their favorite parables.

READ MORE

To learn more about CGS at Saint Patrick Catholic Church, visit the atrium, serve or train as a catechist, email Kim Ward, CGS Coordinator, or call 253-274-4108. 


For more information, visit the national CGS Association and the local consortium website, The Sheepfold.

Men's Prayer

Men of all ages gather to read the day's scripture and a reflection from the Word Among Us.


Fridays

6:45 am - 7:30 am

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Church Hall


They also read and discuss books focused on faith. Past reads include Weight of Glory by CS Lewis, Mercy: What Every Catholic Should Know by Daniel Moloney, and He Leadeth Me by Fr. Walter Ciszek, which Fr. David highly recommended.

Bible Study

Studying scripture in a group leads to more profound discovery. Join Deacon Bill Eckert in a bible study on the Gospel according to John. You'll get an overview of the Church's approach to scripture and interpretation.


—No session on January 23—

Tuesdays

3:00 pm - 4:30 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church

Parish Hall


Bring your bible. Liturgically themed refreshments are provided by a generous parishioner! Need not be a parishioner or Catholic! Bring your friends.

How to Sign Up for FORMED

FORMED offers all sorts of Catholic faith content on-demand, including thousands of movies, programs, audio, and books instantly.


Check it out. It's free— as our gift to you. FORMED is available on your desktop, phone, tablet, and laptop. For access to all FORMED content, follow these simple steps:

  1. Go to signup.formed.org
  2. Enter zip code 98403
  3. Enter your name and email


You can get the free FORMED app for your phone or another mobile device by searching FORMED in the app store.

ADORATION

Eucharistic Adoration

Rest in the presence of Jesus in the Eucharist! It'll change your life. All are welcome. Sign-up is required.


—CHAPEL at Holy Cross—

Perpetual Adoration 24/7

To sign up


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

Mondays | 3:00 pm - 7:00 pm

sign up

Source + Summit

Come together to grow in fellowship through worship, music, and Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. This night is for you, your family, friends, and neighbors, young and older.


If Adoration sounds daunting, don't worry. We'll explain what Adoration is, grow together experiencing the Eucharist, the source and summit of our faith, and meet Jesus where you are!



—Format & Location Change—

February 7

every 1st Wednesday

6:30 pm - 8:00 pm


Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center

Fireside Room & Chapel


We're kicking off the new year with Adoration at the Parish Center, not the Church. Come and go Adoration will be in the Chapel with light music and a hang-out area in the Fireside Room. Dinner is not provided.


All are welcome; we would love young adults and families to help build this community in our parish!


If you have questions, email Lauren Muraski or call her at 901-287-9065.


—save the dates—

March 6, April 3,

May 1, June 5

Share

Holy Hour for Life

Join us for Eucharistic Adoration, prayer, and confessions.



February 2

every 1st Friday

6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Holy Cross Catholic Church


—save the dates—

March 1, April 5, May 3, June 7, July 5, August 2

MINISTRIES

Choir Rehearsals

Come love God through song with the Holy Cross choir.


—Saint Patrick Catholic Church—

Wednesdays | 7:00 pm


If you are new to the Saint Patrick Choir or want more information, please see the Cantor after Mass.


"He who sings praise is not only singing but loving Him about whom he sings." —St. Augustine of Hippo— 


—Holy Cross Catholic Church—

Wednesdays | 6:30 pm

Choir Loft


If you are new to the Holy Cross Choir or want more information, please email or call Erica Minneman, Music Director, at 253-310-7508.

Knights of Columbus

The Knights of Columbus is a global Catholic fraternal service order founded by Michael J. McGivney in 1882 for practicing Catholic men.


—Council 809 News—


Knight of the Month

Chris Constantine


Family of the Month

Rich and Lacie Vierra


Knight Tidings

January 2024


Member Knights, if you are not seeing the monthly newsletter in your inbox, please check your spam or junk folder.


—standing meetings—

Meetings are held at 6:30 pm in the Church Hall at Saint Patrick Catholic Church or via Go to Meeting virtually.


ROSARY

2nd Thursday of the month

except for July and August


OFFICER PLANNING MEETING

3rd Tuesday of the month


MEMBERSHIP MEETING & SOCIAL

4th Tuesday of the month


To learn more, call 253-380-4000 or email the Knights. Follow on Facebook.

Social Hour

Social Hour after Mass is not just about refreshments; it's a time for building, nurturing, and strengthening relationships by connecting on spiritual and personal levels and fostering community, support, and belonging.


Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Social Hour is hosted after the 9:00 am Mass. 11:00 am Mass-goers are encouraged to come at 10:00 to enjoy coffee and donuts before Mass and leave enough time for a one-hour fast before Holy Communion.


There is no out-of-pocket cost to host. The parish provides the donuts and coffee— your ministry or family picks up the donuts, sets up, serves, and cleans up.


—January 14—

RCIA

—January 21—

Saint Patrick Parent Association

—January 28—

Saint Patrick Catholic School

—February 4—

Scouts Pack & Troop 299


If you are interested in hosting, email Laura Dougherty.


Holy Cross Catholic Church

Social Hour is hosted after the 10:00 am Sunday Mass as scheduled:


—1st Sunday—

St. Peter Chanel Samoan Ministry

—2nd Sunday—

Knights of Columbus Council 16667

—3rd Sunday—

Altar Society 

—4th Sunday—

Catholic Daughters of the Americas 

— 5th Sunday—

CDA or Knights

Holy Cross Sale

Holy Cross hosts a quarterly sale to raise funds for charitable works. Check out some of the new and gently used items!


2024 dates will be announced soon.


Shop Friday and Saturday from 10:00 am to 4:00 pm with a $5 bag sale on Saturday from 2:00 pm - to 4:00 pm.


Donations & Sale Preparation

Donations are accepted weekly, except for large furniture.


Tuesdays

10:00 am - 2:00 pm 

Holy Cross Catholic Church


Volunteers are needed to accept donations and prep for upcoming sales during that time too!

YOUTH & YOUNG ADULTS

Mass Consumption

Young adults are invited to delve into the Word and share faith while discussing the daily readings.


Mondays

6:30 pm - 8:00 pm

Saint Patrick Catholic Church

Parish Center


Facebook Group | Instagram

Learn More | Email

PRAYER INTENTIONS

January 16 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Bob Lane


January 17 | 9:00 am  

for the repose of the soul of 

Linda Campbell


January 18 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Chris Keller


January 19 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of

Nancy Larson


January 20 | 5:00 pm

January 21

9:00 am 11:00 am 7:00 pm

for the people of the parish

January 15 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of 

Joseph McKamey


January 17 | 5:00 pm

for the repose of the soul of 

Needham Ward


January 18 | 9:00 am

for the intentions of 

Dennis DePaul


January 19 | 9:00 am

for the repose of the soul of  

Michael Strong


January 20 | 5:00 pm

January 21 | 10:00 am

for the people of the parish

We pray for our sick,

Doug Schweiger, Theresa Gibbs, Kourtney Kuehlthau, Penny Rohrs, Sharom De Vega, Nancy Oliver, Bob Jameson, Barbara Tomberg, Sister Catherine Prendergast, OP, Suzanne Gardner, Doug Jones, Angie Allen, Ann Kormos, Joan Bruce, Millie McNerthney, John Bosse, Molly Cleary, Jerry O'Leary, Delores Glump, Dan Wombacher, Cindy Fish, Georgeann Cukjati, Dianne and Rob Rieder, Shirley Petrinovich, Erin Miller, Tom Tomberg, Michelle Devettori, Michelle Costanti, Jim Davis, Janet Mello, Andre Franco, Janet McIntyre, Norm Christenson, Toni Mineo, Marla Grassi, Patricia Smurro, Glenna Toledo, and Tim Hopkins


We pray for our dead,

Tagi Le'au, Skip Butler, John Messina Sr

MASS SCHEDULES

1123 North J Street

Tacoma, WA 98403

253-383-2783


—Mass Times—

Saturday Vigil Mass

5:00 pm


Sunday Mass

9:00 am | 11:00 am | 7:00 pm


Daily Mass

Tuesday - Friday | 9:00 am*


*except at 11:00 am on the first Friday of the month from October through May for Senior First Friday Mass & Lunch


Mass with the Saint Patrick Catholic School every Thursday, September through June, unless otherwise noted



—Confessions—

Saturday | 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm


—Office Hours—

Tuesday - Thursday

9:30 am - 3:30 pm

Staff Directory

5510 North 44th Street

Tacoma, WA 98407

253-759-3368


—Mass Times—

Saturday Vigil Mass

5:00 pm


Sunday Mass

10:00 am


Mass in Samoan

12:00 pm | 2nd & 4th Sunday


Daily Mass

Monday | Thursday | Friday | 9:00 am

Wednesday | 5:00 pm


—Confessions—

Saturday | 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm


—Office Hours—

Monday - Friday

8:00 am - 3:00 pm


Temporary Office Hours

Office hours from January 24 until February 15 will be Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday, 9:30 am-3:00 pm, and Wednesday, 10:30 am-3:00 pm.

Staff Directory

PHOTO HIGHLIGHT

The McDaniel family shared this photo from their trip to the FOCUS Catholic SEEK24 Conference in St. Louis. There were over 24,000 people on the night of Eucharistic Adoration.


The SEEK24 conference, put on by the Fellowship of Catholic University Students (FOCUS), gathers college students and adults from across the country and internationally for talks, prayer, and fellowship to equip them with the tools to become effective witnesses to the Gospel. Learn more.


Do you have a photo, video, or story to share? Please email it to [email protected].

Stay connected!

Like. Follow. Share. Comment.

SUBSCRIBE
LinkedIn Share This Email
Facebook  Instagram  Youtube  Linkedin
Facebook  

How to Reach Us

Email [email protected] or leave a voicemail at 253-383-2783. Messages are checked daily and routed to the appropriate staff person. If you need the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick, call 253-383-2783, extension 4102, and leave a message.