Over the weekend, I visited a former college advisor at her home. My beloved professor, social as a butterfly, invited one of her freshman students over to chat with us. As we were catching up, they asked about work and I received the typical reactions: "What is cohousing?" "I could never live like that," and "How much time do these people spend together exactly?" My former advisor warmly likened cohousing to the kibbutz she lived in decades ago, whereas her 18-year-old student met the concept with a lot of resistance.
The generational divide fascinated me! As we chatted, I informed my mentor that cohousing is not as financially involved as the kibbutz she once knew. On the other side of the spectrum, I told her student about the unexpected isolation she may face after graduation. College is perhaps the easiest time to make friends, though dorms certainly have pitfalls. One woman grew up when people valued and nurtured community. The other got her first smartphone when she was 8 years old, and attended a virtual high school graduation due to COVID-19. It's no surprise young people have grown accustomed to being alone; we don't know any different.
The lack of understanding about cohousing always escapes me, as someone who thinks about it nearly every day. I did my best to assuage concerns and explain the environmental and health benefits associated with cohousing, but the interaction reminded me of the work left to be done. So, I'd like to welcome questions from our readers, and offer resources if you're new here.
-Erin Harris, Marketing & Outreach
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