February 2021
THE LETTERS OF LGBTQ+

What do the letters of LGBTQ+ mean?

The G and Q have multiple meanings. GAY and QUEER can sometimes be used as blanket terms for the whole LGBTQ+ community. GAY could refer to the collective of gay men and gay women. QUEER is an inclusive term but also can be a term for those who feel that the other terms do not fit them.

QUEER was a derogatory term in years past but has been reclaimed by the younger generations today.

L = Lesbian
Lesbian is a word that attempts to define females (cisgender and transgender M2F) who are naturally attracted to other females.

G = Gay
Gay, when not used as a blanket term, is a word that attempts to define males (cisgender and transgender F2M) who are naturally attracted to other males.

B = Bisexual
Bisexual is a word that attempts to define people of either gender who are naturally attracted to both genders.

T = Transgender
Transgender is a word that attempts to define people whose gender assigned at birth does not match the gender of their soul or being.

Q = Queer or Questioning
Queer can be a blanket term or the Q could represent those who are questioning where they fit on the gay-straight continuum.

+ = Other
The + in the LGBTQ+ has come to include the OTHER category. When LGBT became LGBTQ, it soon became LGBTQIA where the I sometimes represented the Intersex and the A represented either the Allies, the Agender, or the Asexual. In order to be inclusive, the + was used for the others who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community.

If you would like more information about the + in the LGBTQ+, we recommend THE GENDER BOOK by Mel Reiff Hill and Jay Mays.
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We work to keep our online resources current and relevant. All of our online resources are available freely online.

We seek opportunities to work with counselors in the field and take the AFCI resources to the School Counselor and Professional Counselor conferences in Texas.

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SHAREABLE LINKS

There are a lot of resources available on the Understanding Gay site. Here are some shareable chunks that can be used when sharing and recommending the resources that are available at Understanding Gay (AFCI).
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