"Happily Ever After" and more from Fr. Ron Week 40

On October 7, the Roman Catholic Church celebrates the yearly feast of Our Lady of the Rosary

St. Patrick Parish News & Updates

October 4, 2024 | Issue 40

A Word from the Pastor

October 4, 2024

Our Scripture readings at Mass this weekend highlight the importance of Christian marriage. The Catholic Church teaches that marriage is a sacred and profound sacrament, instituted by Christ, which signifies the union between Christ and the Church. This sacrament is not merely a social contract or ritual; it is a divine gift that sanctifies and saves the spouses, allowing them to experience a love that mirrors the unconditional love of Christ for His Church.

Marriage is understood as a covenant between a man and a woman, characterized by mutual love and fidelity. It is a vocation that calls couples to a deeper communion of life and love, aimed at the good of the spouses and the upbringing of children. The grace of the sacrament empowers spouses to love each other as Christ loves the Church, fostering an indissoluble bond that reflects divine love.

The Church emphasizes that marriage is a lifelong commitment, a reality that endures as long as both partners are alive. This bond cannot be dissolved by any human authority, highlighting its sacred nature.

Furthermore, the family, often referred to as the "domestic Church," is seen as a microcosm of the universal Church, where the values of faith and love are nurtured.

In the context of mixed marriages (different religions), the Church encourages harmony in faith between spouses, recognizing that differences in belief can challenge the unity of the marriage. Spouses need to be attentive to the differences and complementarity of their beliefs.

The sacrament of marriage is also viewed as a mission, where couples are called to be witnesses of God's love and grace in the world. That is one of the meanings of marriage as a sacrament – being a sign of God’s love in the world.

Overall, the Church's teaching on marriage underscores its significance as a path to holiness, a source of grace, and a vital component of the Christian life.

On Saturday, October 19, the "Happily Ever After" marriage enrichment will present a day for married couples. It will be led by couples from the Worldwide Marriage Encounter and will be held in our parish center, from 9:30 am to 3:30 pm. More information is contained elsewhere in the bulletin or newsletter. I encourage you to participate and grow in God’s love as a couple.

In one Heart,

Fr. Ron

rmbagley@yahoo.com

Showers of Blessing Clothing Drive

Showers of Blessings will be holding a clothing drive the weekend of October 26 and 27. There will be volunteers on the patio before and after all Masses. Our need for clothing items continues to grow as we are averaging almost 70 guests every Tuesday.

We would greatly appreciate any of the following items:

Men

- Men’s new or slightly used jeans (especially waist size 30,32,34)

- Men’s new boxer briefs and T shirts

- Men’s new or slightly used shirts and jackets

Women

- Women’s new underwear and bras

(regular and sports bras)

- Women’s new or slightly used jeans, shirts and jackets

- New or slightly used shoes for both men and women

Additionally with colder weather, the following items are also in demand, blankets, sleeping bags, gloves and beanie hats. We sincerely appreciate all your donations and kindness as we continue this growing ministry within our parish.

DONATIONS are ALWAYS appreciated and accepted.

To learn more about us check out our website:

Showersofblessingscarlsbad.com

Six week Fall Bible Study with the Book of Job - Sign up after Mass This Weekend

Experiences of pain, loss, and suffering draw up the agonizing question: Why? We will read excerpts of The Book of Job, reflect on our own questions about God and suffering, and share how we might apply what we learned in everyday life.

There will be two meeting options:

Six Monday evenings, 6:45 pm – 8:30pm, October 14 – November 18

Six Tuesday mornings, 10:00 am - 11:30am, October 15 – November 19

or 760-434-5688; or at the parish office; Cost is $15;

Join us and bring a friend.

Sponsored by the St. Patrick Bible Study Team.

Filipino Choir Sings at Saint Peter’s Basilica

This choir is from the Collegio Filipino in Rome where priests from the Philippines go for advanced studies. They are singing at a Mass in St. Peter's Basilica at the beginning of the synod (earlier this week). The Pilipino words simply mean Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy.

For the Church, Worship Involves Countercultural Virtue of Gratitude

Read the article here...

Married Couples, Save the date!

On Saturday, October 19th, the "Happily Ever After" marriage enrichment presented by couples from the Worldwide Marriage Encounter local area will be held in the St Patrick's Parish Hall. The event will run from 9:30 am - 3:30 pm.

Come and find out how you can build your relationship even amidst the craziness of life.

Diocesan Institute

The Gospel of Luke

Fr. Azam Mansha, CJM – Wednesdays, October 9-November 13

9:00am – 11:30am

St. Patrick Church

Course flyer here...

Ruah Adonai Breath of God Bible Study

Join now for 2024-2025 as we study in two parts. Now Is the Time of Mercy! Divine Mercy In the Second Greatest Story Ever Told is a dramatic 10-session journey featuring popular speaker Fr. Michael Gaitley, MIC., …who weaves a tapestry of wonder and beauty from the threads of the dramatic history of Poland, the transformative message of St. Faustina Kowalska.”

The second half of the year, we will study the Gospel of Luke, The Story of Salvation Fulfilled by Ascension Press. Saint Luke was a physician, prolific writer and traveling companion of Saint Paul. The Gospel of Luke includes unique parables like the Good Samaritan, the rich man in Lazarus, and the prodigal son. This coming liturgical year is the year of Luke, so this will reinforce what we hear at Holy Mass.

Beginning Thursday, October 10 at 8:30 am, participants will meet every week to view an engaging video presentation, followed by a lively group discussion and fellowship. Ruah Adonai is open to men and women.

Prayer of St. Francis

Here are two new musical versions of the prayer that people know as the Prayer of St. Francis.

Watch Daily and Sunday Masses Livestreamed from St. Patrick Church here:

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Catholic Trivia

"Catholic Trivia”... not because they are trivial but because these might be things that not everyone knows. Test your knowledge by reading the five questions, remember your answers (or jot them down), then click the link below to find the answers.

What are the three theological virtues?
What are the four cardinal virtues?
What virtue does St. Paul say is he most excellent or important?
Which cardinal virtue “helps people stand firm against evil and hardship while remaining steadfast to what is good”?
Which cardinal virtue includes the wisdom that guides one in practical decision-making?

Feel free to email Fr. Ron with ideas for future Catholic Trivia questions rmbagley@yahoo.com

If you have other members of your family or your friends who would like to be on our email list, just let me know or write to Mary McLain at mmclain@stpatrickcarlsbad.com We will be pleased to add them.

Masses are available on our website www.stpatrickcarlsbad.com

We have a YouTube channel where we have daily and Sunday Masses.

YouTube channel here...

Answers to Catholic Trivia here!

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Twenty-Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time – Year B

First Reading

Genesis 2:18-24

God creates woman from Adam’s rib.

Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 128:1-2,3,4-5,6

A prayer for God’s blessing

Second Reading

Hebrews 2:9-11

Christ was made perfect through suffering so that we might all be consecrated.

Gospel Reading

Mark 10:2-16

Jesus teaches against divorce and welcomes the children.

Background on the Gospel Reading

Today we continue to read from the Gospel according to Mark. For the past three Sundays, we have been hearing Mark’s reports of conversations between Jesus and his disciples. Recall that in Mark’s Gospel, Jesus uses these private moments to teach his disciples in greater detail about the Kingdom of God. Beginning with today’s Gospel, Jesus returns to Judea, Jewish territory, and resumes his public ministry. The first verse of chapter 10 of Mark’s Gospel tells us that crowds gathered around Jesus, and he taught them, as was his custom. Immediately, the Pharisees approach Jesus to test him.

The Pharisees question Jesus about the lawfulness of divorce. Under specific conditions, divorce was an accepted practice among the Jewish people during the time of Jesus. It was regulated by the Law of Moses, as found in Deuteronomy 24:1-5. This law only permits that a husband may divorce his wife if he finds her to be indecent. This is the justification that the Pharisees reference when Jesus inquires about the commandment of Moses. In reply, Jesus quotes from the Book of Genesis and counters that God’s original intention was that men and women would become one flesh in marriage. Jesus describes the teaching of Moses as a concession made to God's original intention because of human stubbornness.

In private, Jesus’ disciples question him further about this teaching on divorce. It is to his disciples that Jesus lays out the implications of his teaching by explaining that remarriage after divorce is adultery. Jesus’ teaching was more restrictive than the teaching of the Pharisees, which permitted remarriage. Jesus further distinguished his teaching from the cultural norms of his time by applying his words equally to men and women. Jewish culture permitted only that a husband may divorce his wife. Wives were not permitted to divorce their husband for any reason, including adultery.

At first glance, the final part of today’s Gospel seems unconnected to the previous teaching about divorce. When read together, however, these passages present a strong picture of Jesus’ emphasis on the importance of family. God intended for women and men to be joined together in marriage. Among the purposes of marriage is the raising of children. By welcoming children and fostering their relationship with God, parents and families bear witness to the Kingdom of God.

At the end of today’s Gospel, the people were bringing their children to Jesus, and again Jesus’ disciples show that they just don’t get it. Recall that in the Gospel for each of the past two Sundays, Jesus has taught his disciples the value and importance of these “little ones” in the Kingdom of God. Yet in today’s Gospel, the disciples try to prevent people from bringing their children to Jesus. Jesus reprimands his disciples and welcomes these children. Again, Jesus offers these children as an example of the kind of complete trust and dependence upon God that ought to be the attitude of all believers.

Psalm 128

This Sunday’s responsorial psalm is frequently used for Catholic weddings. Here is a simple chant version of Psalm 128.

Family Mass

There will be a Family Mass this Sunday, October 6 at 9:00 am. Come and bring the whole family.

The Ye Olde Garage

We are ramping up for the Fall and Christmas Holidays. We have Halloween Costumes, Thanksgiving and Christmas Decorations – all being readied for your shopping needs.

Our Monthly Sunday Sale will be October 13 from 8:30 am to 2:30 pm. We would love to see you stop by and see what is happening at the Ye Olde Garage. We are located at the North/East corner of the parking lot. Look for the green Ye Olde Garage Sign and the American Flag. We will be there. If you can't make it for the Monthly Sunday Sale, the Garage Sale is open every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 9:30 am to 2:00 pm.

KNIGHTS FALL FOOD DRIVE

The Knights of Columbus will be collecting items for the Annual Fall Food Drive to benefit Catholic Charities, St Patrick Parish Food Bank and Showers of Blessings. This food drive will last 3 weeks and to begin on October 12, and end on October 27, 2024.

The main donation station will be located by the front door of the Parish Hall, look for the Knights of Columbus pop up tent as well as the church patio. Knights will be there to accept your donations of non- perishable food items (no glass containers) along with cash /checks. Checks must be made payable to Catholic Charities.

For your convenience scan the QR code on the flyer to make a monetary donation online. The Knights will be

available to help with any heavy items or answer any questions.

Below is a list of most requested items. As always, any donation is appreciated. Your community appreciates your participation and generosity!

♦ Disposable diapers size 3, 4 and 5

♦ Baby wipes

♦ Non-perishable rice beans

♦ Trail Mix

♦ Yogurt cups (unrefrigerated)

♦ Fruit cups

♦ Juice boxes

♦ Mini-raisin boxes

♦ Bottled water

Knights Of Columbus

ANNUAL TOOTSIE ROLL DRIVE

The Knights will be on the church patio after all the Masses on the weekend of October 19-20. All donations will help support People with Intellectual Disabilities, who need your support!

Thank you for helping!

“Seminario Vida en el Espíritu Santo, octubre 12-13, 2024” Para más información, haga clic aquí:

Un Saludo de

parte del Diacono Miguel,

“Pero desde el principio, al crearlos, Dios los hizo hombre y mujer. Por eso dejará el hombre a su padre y a su madre y se unirá a su esposa y serán los dos una sola cosa. De modo que ya no son dos, sino una sola cosa. Por eso, lo que Dios unió, que no lo separe el hombre”. (Marcos 10: 2-16) Todos sabemos el daño que hace un divorcio. Si la pareja tiene hijas e hijas, miramos como ellos son los más afectados. Miramos cómo son puestos en situaciones difíciles, donde tienen que escoger de estar a lado del papa o de la mama. Miramos cómo sufren a no sentirse amados y necesitados. El divorcio tiene muchas consecuencias. ¿Qué pasa en las parejas casadas, incluyendo los que viven como casados, para que lleguen a esa conclusión de divorcio? Entran “otros dioses” que nos distraen del verdadero Dios. Cuando uno se casa, se toma de las manos e intercambian los votos matrimoniales, las parejas prometen “respetarse y amarse” todos los días de sus vidas. ¿Qué significa respetarse y amarse todos los días de sus vidas? Es mirar a Dios en tu pareja, no enfocarse en los defectos de tu pareja, todos somos imperfectos. Mirar que tu pareja es un regalo de Dios. Es alguien que te complementa, que te llena como nadie más puede. En el Evangelio de este 27º Domingo del Tiempo Ordinario, Jesús nos dice, ‘que tenemos que ser como niños’ para entrar al Reino de Dios. A veces las experiencias de la vida nos hacen duros y nos cierran a las maravillas de Dios. No permitamos eso, abrir nuestro corazón y seamos como “niños y niñas amadas de Dios.

“Como Votar a la Luz del Evangelio” Haga clic aquí:

Viviendo Nuestra Fe: “Honrar la Creación”. Haga clic aquí:

Otra Reflexión: “El Matrimonio: una Relación de Respeto, de Confianza y de Igualdad”. Haga clic aquí:

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