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When we mindfully notice how far we have come, what we have gathered around us or inherited, sought and secured, created and maintained, things become more nuanced. A deeper appreciation of ourselves and our unique life and circumstances come to the fore.
The hamster wheel stops, black and white turns to Technicolor and we see things differently - and Specsavers played no part.
The striving for more, to feel in deficit and the relentless pushing forward into the future rubbishes the now; which is all we have.
If you want to supercharge your gratitude practice but don’t know where to start here’s a quick user’s guide.
Start right now by noticing
Write down three things in the morning you are grateful for that day and do the same in the evening. What were the highlights? Stuck for ideas other than “I’m still here” then here is a Gratitude Guide for all things magically mundane but deceptively gorgeous:
Your at a glance gratitude check list
· Cat’s purr/puppy breath
· Supermarket check-out chat
· Leftover pizza
· Happy hour
· Looser fitting jeans
· Getting a bargain
· A new pot plant
· Great literature
· The kindness of strangers
· The opportunity to show kindness
· Eating dessert first
· Hot showers with great products
· Hugs and kisses
· A duvet day
· Sweet smelling laundry on the line on a fine day
· Dead heading in the garden or house
· Pottering
· Creative loafing with nothing in the diary
· A message from a friend from long ago
· Someone daring to reach out
· Marx Brothers’ movies
· A genuine apology
· A good pen and lovely stationery
· Compliments
· A convenient parking space
· No check-out queues
· Someone actually being helpful at customer services
· Long bath, book, candle and a glass of wine
· Not being in pain
· Unexpected windfalls
· People “treating” you for a change
· Change of season
· Online shopping
· Firelight
· Slow cooker meals
· Cashmere
· Perfume
· Girls night out
· Cocktails
· House to yourself
· The smell of coffee brewing
· Winning an argument
· Soup
· Nice underwear
· New socks
· Walk in nature
· Gorgeously impractical footwear
· Laughter
· Sorting out an old jewellery box
· Realising you feel peaceful and worry free
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