IDEAS, NEWS AND RESOURCES | June 2019
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"I found myself writing in my journal about my lack of focus. It was as if the future we had planned had arrived and I had no clue what was next."
The Social Construction of Retirement: One Woman’s Experience

By Bonnie Milne

I retired from my full time Lecturer’s position at RMIT Vietnam in June of 2017. My husband and I had made plans for our retirement. We would spend six months a year in our house in Palm Springs, California and the other six months on Salt Spring Island in our small, water front, off the grid, water access only cabin.

The first year of retirement flew by. I spent six weeks in Australia with my daughter, son in law and grandchildren, topped off by New Years and a week of sightseeing in Paris with two of my granddaughters! The following summer, my husband and I worked nonstop renovating a rental house our family invested in on Salt Spring Island.

In October 2018 the proverbial shit hit the fan! I found myself writing in my journal about my lack of focus. It was as if the future we had planned had arrived and I had no clue what was next. I was waiting to see how my health was before I made plans. This struck me as absurd! Why wouldn’t I make plans and carry them out as I always had? If my health changed, I would deal with it!

But how had this stalemate happened? How had I arrived at this stage of my life so ill prepared? Why didn’t I have a plan? Why did I think my health would deteriorate simply because I retired? How could I be realistic about my future? What could I expect? What would keep me motivated and full of light and life?

I began to research. I wanted and needed a focus – a purpose, really, and it seemed to me that ‘giving back’ or ‘paying forward’ was what I wanted to do. I began to search out engaging, challenging volunteer opportunities. At the same time, I began educating myself on the process of aging and started exploring how others managed their retirement years.

There is, of course, a lot written on aging and retirement. I did, however, find it difficult to find consistent information. For example, when I tried to determine the likelihood of developing Alzheimer’s the numbers varied (a lot). What is clear is that many people will develop Alzheimer’s – meaning there will be many people who will require care. Juxtaposed with this information is the decrease in the number of people over the age of 65 and over the age of 85 entering care homes over the past twenty years, a trend that is expected to continue. I’m not yet ready to wrap up my research but I am at the point where I am finding repletion – a great sign!
From what I’ve read, here’s what’s sticking:
A healthy happy retirement includes:
  • a focus, a mission, a passion, a purpose, a challenge (take your pick)
  • a plan that we are prepared and able to alter
  • friends – extremely important – loneliness has the same degree of impact on our health as smoking
  • learning, being curious, being open
  • a hobby, a volunteer position, work that we love (or all three)
  • exercise – weight training is at the top of the list
  • whole nutritious food

Repeatedly, I’ve read that the path to the fountain of life includes reduced caloric intake. Yikes!

To me this list looks very much like a funhouse mirror of my life before retirement. Some work, lots of socializing, learning, exercising and less eating. I am beginning to embrace my retirement!

Bonnie also provides a list of resources if you are interested in exploring these ideas more. Click here.

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Resources of the Month
New Book

Thriving Women, Thriving World:
An Invitation to Dialogue, Healing and Inspired Actions


This book is a celebration of women. It is an invitation to journey from #MeToo to thriving women via Appreciative Inquiry, dialogue, and story telling. It addresses topics, through an appreciative lens, that may be difficult to talk about, yet must be talked about to heal social wounds and create conditions for women to thrive worldwide. If you are wondering what to do in response to the global cry of #MeToo, this book is for you. 

Authors: Diana Whitney, Caroline Adams Miller, Tanya Cruz Teller, Marlene Ogawa, Jessica Cocciolone, Haesun Moon, Kathryn Britton, Angela Koh & Alejandra Leon de la Barra

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Thriving Women Thriving World by Diana Whitney with Tanya Cruz Teller, Marlene Ogawa

More Ways to Get Involved
Join in with the Relational Research Network's new project:
The RRN Support Learning Community

The Relational Research Network is hosting conversations beginning in July, with researchers who want to to critically think about how inquiry and research processes connect and inspire us when we look at them through the lens of a relational practice. The questions we will explore:

  • How can your research project have a relational focus or become a relational practice?
  • How would you like to do relational research and have meaningful conversations about your work?
  • Sharing your work with others in the learning community, engaging through questions, challenges, or issues related to your research project.
  • Having the opportunity to be in conversation with other researchers to network, co-learn and create opportunities for collaboration.

There will be 2 calls each month from July though November. See the full schedule for these conversations - The RRN Support Learning Community - by visiting our website. You will need to register in order to participate or "sit in" and listen to these learning conversations.

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