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Charisma,
The NEW YEAR is almost here!
It's time to say goodbye to the year 2016 that was filled with lots of happy and also sorrowful moments in every one of our lives and say hello to the New Year 2017 with passion, hope, zeal, and enthusiasm. As we all celebrate the end of another year, I would like to say it has been a pleasure knowing every single one of you. May the coming year bring peace to your world and joy to your life. May it also bring much abundance and prosperity into your life and the health to enjoy it.  We all will open a new book with blank pages...the book is called OPPORTUNITY and it's first chapter is NEW YEAR'S DAY. Wish you a great year ahead. May each day of the New Year get filled up with sweet fragrance of contentment and God's peace.

This newsletter is the last one for the 2016 year so lets reflect back on the last of all the
incredible things  
that we experienced within our chapter in 2016 AND look forward into 2017! 

 
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Welcome to Charisma!
New Member Spotlight
Taryn Calli
Upcoming Meetings
Charisma Business Meeting
Wednesday, January 11th 2017
6:30pm - 8:00pm
Where? Vicki Marlett's New House!
Call In:   (712) 432-1500, Access Code: 489286#
 
ABWA CHARISMA CHARTER CHAPTER January 2017 Meeting!

6:00 PM - 8:30 PM
 
3333 Golfing Green Dr, Farmers Branch, Texas 75234
 
(EARLY BIRD pricing RSVP's needed by WEDNESDAY, January 18th by 5:00pm!)

Speaker:
Tanya J Miller, LLC - "Things Your Mama Said"

Things My Mama Said shares with you our collection of twenty straight-from-the-heart true stories centered around the wisdom of a mother who spent her entire life guiding her children and teaching them the ropes. 



*Vendor Opportunities Available*

* * Reminder -- the meeting price has changed: 
  • $25 for members
  • $30 for guests
  • $5.00 additional late fee for all RSVPs after 5:00pm on the Wednesday prior to the meeting date.

Interested in learning more about ABWA and membership?  Click HERE and even join online!



On a side note:
2016/2017 Volunteer
Positions needed:
Hospitality - (RSVP Brookhaven)
Newsletter
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Newsletter Due Dates  
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March 10th       March 31st
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Contact us at: abwacharisma@gmail.com
2016-2017 Board Members
President -- Christine Snyder
Vice President -- Donna Arnold
Treasurer -- Robin McCoy
Secretary -- Amanda Rucker


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BEST PRACTICES
As many know we achieved Level I Best Practices, and we were all ecstatic to wear our red at National Conference, WELL DONE CHARISMA ! 

The NWLC in Chattanooga was amazing and we all left learning and gaining more than what we went in with.

Conference Reports
My 2016 Conference Report
by Judy Taylor

I attended the Friday session of Track B. It was Stand Out Leadership...Lead It Like You Mean It! and it was given by Connie Podesta. She guided us through selecting our type of personality and then learning how to deal with other types for a beneficial outcome. Connie asked us to pick the geometric shape that we liked best: square, triangle, circle or wavy lines. Squares are left brained, focus on details and not the best team players. Triangles are perfectionists, masters of sarcasm, compulsive and more successful because they hate to lose. Circles are noisy, good socializers, peacemakers and hate confrontation. Wiggly lines and the idea people, creative and hate authority.

When you are dealing with different personality types, it is best to make the type you are trying to convince comfortable. You will have more success if you cater to their personality types rather than feed your comforts. For example, when you are dealing with a circle or square, meet in their office and do not be late. Also, personal space is important. The comfort zone for a square is no closer that 4 feet and that of the triangle is 12 inches. You can see how uncomfortable one can get if you breach the space. Chances for your success go down drastically. 

You can go to her website to learn more about the shapes at  http://conniepodesta.com/shapes-thanks.


Judy


National Conference Report presented by Verdie Henderson
 
UNDERSTANDING GENERATIONAL DIFFERENCES
(I've been a little uncertain about the differences in the generations; as I'm only familiar with the Baby Boomers, so I was glad to attend this class. These are some of the high-lights of what I learned).
 
The study of the generations:
  • The Silent Generation - 1922 thru 1945
Trends : Silver screen - Rise of labor unions - Patriotism - Families - Golden age of radio
(Not as productive, they were just biding their time until retirement, and they disliked using new technology)
  • Baby Boomers - 1945 thru 1955
Trends : Prosperity -Television - Suburbia - Assassinations - Vietnam - Civil Rights movement - Cold war - Women's Liberations
(Workaholics, don't like learning, on their way out, don't like change)
  • The Jones - 1956 thru 1965
Trends: Civil rights movement, Cold war, Vietnam, Women's Liberation, Apollo Lunar program, save the earth program, Green Peace
(Materialistic and shallow, anxious to get rid of Boomers, middle child behavior, not as capable as Gen X and technology)
  • Generation X - 1966 thru 1976
Trends: Latch key children, Single parent homes, MTV, Aids, Computers, Mass layoffs and downsizing, Video games, Vegetarians and vegan choices
(Slackers, they've got it made, they whine a lot)
  • Generation Y - 1977 thru 2000 (Millennial)
Trends: School yard violence & suicide, Multiculturalism, Internet, Globalization, Environmentalism,
Helicopter parents, Self-esteem movement
(More educated, they're high-maintenance, have no or low attention span, they won't persevere to get the job, have no people or communication skills, do the job by their rules.



Conference Recap: Three Generations of Lessons
Julia Kramer
 
Most of you know I recently became a mother. As much as I love conference, I had to face either bringing my little guy or not attending. Neither of those sounded fun, so I chose the lesser of two evils and brought him along. He actually had his 5-month "birthday" while we were in Chattanooga!
 
When we got to the hotel room that first day I started to second guess whether I made the right choice, but by that time it was too late. We marched into the room full of hundreds of ladies. I was blown away by the acceptance and patience of the women in our organization. Yes, he is a terribly cute baby, but I think that was only half the reason everyone was so nice and helpful. I didn't feel judgment or annoyance the whole time we were there - even when he got the hiccups in the middle of one of the class sessions.
 
I couldn't help but think, "we need more of this". If women want to move the glass ceiling we need to bridge the gap between young-single-women and empty-nesters by encouraging them to participate in organizations like ours - at whatever level they can manage given family and work commitments. The need for ABWA becomes crystal clear at times like that.
 
It may not have been easy, but I did manage to learn a few things in spite of my pudgy distraction. The Accounting and Finance refreshers were great to have - even if I did have to walk over to Stacey Whitmarsh's group so she could help me with the math. I also learned some of the Track B lessons vicariously through my mother. It was her first conference, (spending time with her grandson may have had something to do with her attending), and it was fun to listen to her excitement over everything she learned.


Congratulations to the 2016-2017 ABWA National Board: 
  National President : Vanessa Willis
National Vice President: Sharon Godbee 
National Secretary-Treasurer: Sonja Ogletree-Satani
District Vice Presidents:
I. Felicia Johnson
II. Julie Burch Trachta
III. Jennie Darby
IV. Delores Loche-McLain 
V. Mary Shindell
VI. Melissa McCaughey




Congratulations again to the 2016 Charisma Charter Chapter Top Ten Nominee, Christine Snyder, and 2015-2016 Charisma Woman of the Year, Robin McCoy!


Charisma Vendor Night 2016
We had soooo many vendors and so little time !! We all shopped 'til we dropped and also honored member and former ABWA National President, Carolyn Hunt, with the Lifetime Achievement Award!

A HUGE THANKS to all our Vendors: 
 


The Charismas Party was a huge success! Thanks to all who came to party with Charisma.




It is with deepest sympathy to the Snyder Family that we had to say goodbye to  Brigitte Kapp Snyder on December 14th. Brigitte was an ABWA Charisma Charter Chapter Member and mother to Christine Snyder (Charisma 2016-2017 President). She was loved by all and will be greatly missed.  In Lieu of flowers, the Snyder family would like you to donate to the Brigitte Kapp Snyder ABWA Scholarship Fund. To donate please go to:



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