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3 Rules Teens Should Follow
to Leave Poverty!
Courtesy of Brookings

Policy aimed at promoting economic opportunity for poor children must be framed within three stark realities. First, many poor children come from families that do not give them the kind of support that middle-class children get from their families. Second, as a result, these children enter kindergarten far behind their more advantaged peers and, on average, never catch up and even fall further behind. Third, in addition to the education deficit, poor children are more likely to make bad decisions that lead them to drop out of school, become teen parents, join gangs and break the law.

In addition to the thousands of local and national programs that aim to help young people avoid these life-altering problems, we should figure out more ways to convince young people that their decisions will greatly influence whether they avoid poverty and enter the middle class. Let politicians, schoolteachers and administrators, community leaders, ministers and parents drill into children the message that in a free society, they enter adulthood with three major responsibilities: at least finish high school, get a full-time job and wait until age 21 to get married and have children.
How The MEDIA Groom Youth
Summary by Emerald O’Brien of Unmasking Sexual Con Games, Chapter 3

Emotional grooming is not limited to human relationships.  Media messages are grooming many teens and some adults.  The goal of any con game is to manipulate, persuade, or coerce someone into doing what the groomer wants.

Many advertisers and media executives admit that they’ll do whatever it takes to get and keep your attention.  A high-ranking Abercrombie and Fitch popular pre-teen and teen clothier and magazine mogul commented to The New York Times,  “I pay little attention to the critics who feel that youth ought to be locked in boxes until they’re 50.  All I care about is the target audience and how that person is feeling at the moment.”  The 1999 holiday “Naughty and Nice” issue included nudity, descriptions of sexuality, and an interview with a porn star.  Another Christmas edition included a picture of four girls in bed with a young man holding up his boxers. Other issues have included photos of a nude female, breasts exposed, embraced behind by a naked man, and a lesbian couple kissing at their ”wedding”  (Plugged In magazine December 2001)
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