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Want Kirk or Casey to provide your parents, teachers and kids with dozens of practical strategies to succeed this coming school year. Your parents and teachers will rave!
We are offering a special 50% OFF if you book a workshop for this fall.
Share this with your PTA, school, church, children's ministry, pre-school and other foster/adoptive agencies. Call Brett at 888-506-1871 or reply to this email. He will provide all the details.
BRAND NEW PODCAST for TUESDAY, JULY 21
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| Summer Clearance Sale ENDS MONDAY, JULY 27 Prices increase on Tuesday. *Don't procrastinate: Hungry families have gobbled up the CDs/DVDs much faster than anticipated. Once they are gone, prices increase. See the bottom box for the CD descriptions or Click here for the Summer Clearance Sale. 5 Ways to Stop Lying, Stealing & Defiance Q: What consequence should I give my daughter for stealing my shoes and jewelry, hiding things under her bed and lying about it? A: None. No consequence will work in this situation. Let's move from "making her behave" to teaching your child self-control skills that last a lifetime. She already knows stealing and lying are wrong--that's why she won't let you in her room. She is ashamed. She needs to know HOW to change her behavior.
1) Instead of marching in and lecturing/scolding her, lie down on the floor with her. It's a more calming, intimate posture. It lets her know she doesn't have to be on the defensive--you are coming to help. Think of yourself as a CSI detective looking for clues, not coming to interrogate.
2) Acknowledge and identify. She's expecting to be scolded. "Amanda, I know you have a good heart and that stealing things isn't the real you. You probably feel scared right now. I felt the same way when I was your age and I had a hard time with controlling myself. It's kind of scary, huh?" Just listen.
3) Teach and praise her self-control. Create a treasure chest with acceptable toys, bracelets and little things your daughter CAN take the next time she feels the impulse to steal. Yes, we want her to eventually stop taking things. But for now, take baby steps. When she gets that impulse, we want her making a conscious decision to take something acceptable...rather than steal those shoes from your room.
When she does, listen what she hears. "Amanda, know what's cool? A few minutes ago, you had this really strong impulse to go take something from my room. But you didn't! Instead, you made a positive choice. That's called self-control and only about 8 people in this world have it! I'm really proud of you." When you praise your kids with the same intensity you usually use when yelling at them, their behavior will change. They do want to please you.
4) Plan for imperfection. Your daughter is going to mess up. She is going to steal something from your room. So plan for it and create a tradition. "Amanda, when you make a wrong choice, I want you to come boldly to us and admit, 'I messed up!' I promise that when you do, we will not lecture, overreact or shake our heads at you. We will boldly forgive you and simply ask you to put back whatever you took. That's it. No big drama." I want your kids knowing they can come to you when they are struggling...rather than hiding, lying or running away. Make this part of your family conversation. Model it. Admit when YOU mess up. Ask for forgiveness.
5) Give your child ownership. Some adopted children feel this compulsion to take and hoard acutely since they had to fight just to survive as babies. Some children don't feel like they have much control of their lives, so they steal, lie, boss other people around, cheat at games, etc. Does your child feel like he has some ownership of his life? Does she feel confident using her gifts and passions? Does he know how to control himself? Do you as parents model self-control or do you find yourselves yelling, nagging and having your own tantrums?
Once your child learns self-control, it lasts a lifetime. Once your kids can control themselves and handle conflict, you don't have to be the constant referee. And once Mom and Dad learn how to control their own emotions, the rest of the family will follow. This is the difference between changing outward behavior...and breaking generational patterns that have afflicted your family.
Are you ready to break these generational patterns? Listen now to the step-by-step instructions on the CDs WITH your children....so they can be responsible for their OWN behavior, whether they are 4 or 17. It's way cheaper than therapy, flat screens and video games (roughly $12 per hour for the whole package). You have to decide what you value and what you want. Next time your child is melting down in public, back talking you or fighting you over homework, think, "What would it be worth to change this situation?" If you need personal help, reply to this email or call Brett at 888.506.1871 (or you can text Brett at 443-752-5959). He will help you choose the perfect products to change your family. Summer Clearance Sale ENDS MONDAY, JULY 27 Prices increase on Tuesday. *Don't procrastinate: Hungry families have gobbled up the CDs/DVDs much faster than anticipated. Once they are gone, prices increase. See the bottom box for the CD descriptions or Click here for Summer Clearance Sale.
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(2) Get ANY 6 Audio CD Sets for $497.00...
NOW ONLY $249
Put the name of the six CD sets in the comment box at the bottom of the order form.
We will ship your order immediately.
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No shipping fees. Start listening NOW! The set downloads instantly to your desktop computer or laptop.
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CD Descriptions
ADHD University™ (3 Audio CDs + Workbook & Kirk's Written Q&A to over 50 Questions) This is the most comprehensive program we've ever created. Learn 50 practical, concrete strategies to help your child to: Be responsible without making excuse and control his impulses, emotions, anxiety, and sensory issues.
- Dozens of practical strategies for any child who struggles with focus, anxiety, homework, impulse control, organization, social skills, transitions, etc.
- Most comprehensive program ever-for home and the classroom.
- Build confidence so your child accepts responsibility without making excuses.
Stop Defiance & Disrespect NOW!
Learn specific words to end the backtalk, eye rolling and emotional power struggles with kids who act like attorneys. Every family needs this--it's foundational.
- Eliminate the emotional power struggles and endless arguments.
- Stop kids from rolling their eyes, talking back or silently ignoring you.
- Diffuse demanding kids who argue, throw meltdowns, or act bossy.
Discipline That Works: Get Your Kids to Listen the First Time.
Kirk will show you 25 ways to discipline without yelling to stop the fighting, lying, tantrums, whining, complaining and more. Learn to give directions ONE time... NO more repeating things!
- Give directions one time. No more repeating yourself, yelling or bribing!
- Stop lying, hitting, interrupting, tantrums, whining, and complaining.
- Teach kids how to control themselves. A must have in every home.
Straight Talk for Kids: Casey Speaks Directly to Your Kids
Want your kids to be more responsible and confident? Casey Martin shares his own struggles and shows other kids how to control their own emotions, make friendships, and succeed in school. Kids listen to another kid! Perfect for kids ages 6-26.
- Kids listen as a teenager shows them how to deal with daily disappointment, anger, frustration, peer pressure, irritating siblings, and homework.
- Kids feel understood, confident, motivated, and purposeful.
- Casey teachers kids how to communicate with parents respectfully to earn trust.
Straight Talk for Stressed-Out Moms
Get The Respect & Peace You Deserve. Learn how to say no to unrealistic expectations, perfectionism, and guilt trips. Live with passion, joy, and peace. Begin leading with confidence and finally feel like a good Mom!
- Stop neglecting yourself to make everyone else happy. Learn to make yourself a priority.
- Say no to unrealistic expectations, perfectionism, and guilt trips.
- Don't allow others to manipulate you and push your buttons.
Stop Sibling Fights: Stop Being the Referee Teach your kids how to handle conflict themselves so you don't have to be the constant referee. Kirk provides specific, concrete strategies that work when your kids get physical and hurt each other, tattle, fight over chores, or squabble in the car, restaurants, and in public.
- Stop being the referee in the home.
- Stop the mean, rude, and hurtful verbal and physical attacks.
- Stop the petty arguments over chores, video games, iPads and everything else!
Kids Ages 2-7: Build the Right Foundation If you have younger kids, this set of CDs is an absolute MUST. Kirk will give you the exact words to use when your kids argue and scream constantly, hit, kick, spit, bite, and throw things, whine, complain, and throw tantrums in public, or interrupt you while you're on the phone. Features 2 Audio CDs and Q&A Workbook.
- Kirk shows you exactly what to do in the 80 toughest situations from morning to dinner to bedtime with kids ages 2-7.
- Stop the tantrums, screaming, hitting, biting, and throwing.
- Get kids to listen and do what you ask without the meltdowns and crying.
Control Screens So They Don't Control Your Family (2 audio CDs)
No more power struggles, negotiations, empty threats and sibling competition over screens. Our goal isn't simply to get your kids to stop playing video games and texting. It's to teach them how to interact socially and build relationships with eye contact; experience the joy of using their gifts to serve others; discover new passions and enjoy being outside; and cultivate their creativity and imagination.
- Stop power struggles over phones, DS and video games without arguments or tears, even when schools require a tablet.
- Stop sibling wars over limited screen time or one computer in the home.
- Break the addiction to Minecraft and nasty attitude when kids get off screens.
10 Secrets to Motivate Unmotivated Kids
Have a child who isn't motivated by consequences or bribes? Who is apathetic or defiant or just doesn't fit in? Kirk will show you 10 specific, proven ways to spark your child's internal motivation. Your kids want to be confident and purposeful-we'll show you how.
- Internally motivate kids who don't respond to consequences, are apathetic or don't care about school.
- Get your kids to stop playing video games and start being purposeful.
- Inspire kids who appear angry, negative, lazy or entitled.
Men's CD: I Want To Be A Good Dad & Husband
Every man I know wants to be a good dad and husband. But no one ever showed us HOW. So we say, "It's my way or the highway," yell, dismiss our wives' concerns or just check out. And leave parenting to our wives. Our kids feel alienated. What men need is a game plan. Kirk's goal is simple: give men 25 simple, concrete strategies they can use every single day, to deal with the toughest home challenges they face.
- Learn simple, practical ways to change the "my way or the highway" approach that alienates your kids.
- Calm upset kids instead of escalating situations and punishing. Handle chaos at home after a long day at work.
- Make your wife feel valued and respected instead of dismissing her concerns.
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