קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

13 January 2026 ~ 24 Tevet 5786 ~ Parashat Vaera

Chaverim y'karim ~ dear friends,


I am somewhat at a loss for words given the fire-bombing of a synagogue in Jackson, MS this past weekend. My colleague, Rabbi Jeffrey Salkin, has written a post in The Forward which summarizes the history of this particular synagogue, highlights when it was struck by an arsonist in the past (1967), and calls upon our non-Jewish neighbors to assess seriously what is happening in our country. "An arsonist torched a Mississippi synagogue. It feels hauntingly familiar."


From chants, violence, and intimidation outside synagogues in New York City to the destructive violence that has engulfed this Southern synagogue most recently, we are facing what our ancestors knew all too well. The ideology behind Jew-Hatred morphs and takes many forms ... we have lived it for 3,000 years. The rise in violence began long before October 2023 but today it lurks about and goes, literally, into our buildings from the Ivory Towers to the brick facades of our sacred spaces.


If you would like to help the world remember who we are: don't be a stranger! In your own spaces and places, stand tall and proud as a Jew. And so you remember that you are not alone, consider one of the upcoming events either at temple, at the JCC in Sherman, or the Jewish Federation in Southbury to be with our people.


Last week, the Torah portion included both the entry to slavery for the Israelites and the challenge to Moses to be the one to lead us out of Egypt. We read of the illness and the antidote all in a matter of a few chapters.


The illness and depravity of Jew hatred will not go away. But we have some control over how we will respond:



  • being well versed and able to recognize the language and intentions of our enemies;
  • participating actively with our sacred heritage in our homes and synagogues;
  • connecting with fellow Jews and the myriads of those who love us;
  • looking for partners and neighbors who stand with us to live the words written by George Washington and enshrined through the laws of this land: "the Government of the United States (which) gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance."


If you would like to offer some tzedakah to the Beth Israel Synagogue in Jackson, I can only imagine how they will lovingly receive your gift.


As always, I am sharing resources below to help you have some of the tools necessary for your own knowledge as well as what to share with others.


L'shalom,


Rabbi Mark Cohn

SUGGESTED READINGS & RECORDINGS, & RESOURCES from the Rabbi's Desk (or more likely, his screen) ...


ARTICLES


"When solidarity costs too much: Europe’s silence on Iran" (11 Jan 2026) by Dov Maimon in The Times of Israel Blogs. The uprising in Iran is one to watch closely. European (and American) quiet - particularly in the legacy press - is disappointing though not surprising. Make sure to check out the Foundation for Defense of Democracies visual aid on their website to see in nearly real-time what is happening on the ground.


"Anti-Zionism Is A Hate Movement" (28 Dec 2025) by Lucy Tabrizi in her Substack, Notes from the Ruins. Lucy is someone to follow on topics related to antisemitism and antizionism but also the current uprising in Iran. On the topic of antizionism, make sure to check out the Movement Against AntiZionism.


"American Jewry’s future lies not on the coasts but in its heartland" (8 Jan 2026) by Joe Roberts in eJewishPhilanthropy. Joe is the Executive Director of the Jewish Federation in Tulsa, OK. It may be easy for East Coast Jews to think that Jewish life is most robust on the coasts but to do so overlooks some of the most important elements and critical places of and for American Jewish living.


"Launch a decade of renewal, now" (8 Jan 2026) by Gidi Grinstein in eJewishPhilanthropy. Now HERE is a topic for a lunch & learn, a board meeting, and an after service oneg. The classic Jewish response to any bad situation is not 'Why?' but 'What to do in response?' We have some agency and control over changing realities - so, nu? What do we do with that?


"Will the Regime in Iran Fall? History Offers Some Clues." (10 Jan 2026) by Simon Sebag Montefiore in The Free Press. Simon is one of the great historians of our day. There is so much to discuss and understand on the crisis in Iran, he gives some important historical framing.


"Iran's Humanitarian Crisis" (12 Jan 2026) by Eve Barlow in her Substack, Blacklisted. Eve shares information and news which must be transmitted as Iranians are fighting for their lives and for a chance to reclaim their country after 47 years of the Islamic Revolution.


"Things Worth Remembering: ‘Good Night, World’" (11 Jan 2026) by Ruth Wisse in The Free Press. One of the greatest scholars of our day approaches one of the greatest Jewish poets of 100 years ago ... who lived during days not so dissimilar from our own.

Purim's coming:

SAVE THE DATES (and figs)


Stay tuned for details!!


Friday evening, February 27 @ 5:30pm

A Pre-Kabbalat Shabbat Wine, Cheese, and Shalach Moness (no, that is not a disease, it just sounds like one).


Tuesday, March 3 @ Noon

PURIM Lunch & Learn - this will be the first of three discussions on the Scroll of Esther

SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


KABBALAT SHABBAT

FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM


JANUARY 23 - Shabbat Bo, Guest Led by Barbara Kessler

FEBRUARY 13 - Shabbat Mishpatim

FEBRUARY 27 - Shabbat Zachor


SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM

(Led by CJ Kelly)



JANUARY 17, 24, 31

FEBRUARY 7, 14*, 21, 28*

(*led by Rabbi Cohn)


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