December 2025

 

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Message From the AAML President


Key Takeaways From 2025 AAML Annual Meeting Keynote Speaker Yolanda Cartusciello on 'Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution Across Generations' | Read More


What You Missed From the 2025 AAML Annual Meeting Session 'A Goodwill Luau: Legal and Forensic Approaches Across Jurisdictions' | Read More


AAML Tech Tips: Using AI to Keep Up With Your Emails and More | Watch Video


Registration Is Open for AAML's 2026 Events | Register Now


Foundation Update: A Message From AAML Foundation President Gary Rosen | Read More


Renew Your Fellowship by Dec. 31 | Renew Now


Fellows in Action | Submit Your Works


Showcase Your Expertise: Contribute to the AAML Newsletter | Pitch Your Article


This Thursday: Navigating a Nation of Rules: Understanding Cross-State Alimony and Child Support Laws | Register Now


On-Demand Education Offerings Available in My AAML Library

 
 

Message From the AAML President

By: Thomas Sasser, AAML President

Dear Fellows,


As the year draws to a close and the holiday season is upon us, I want to take a moment to reflect on what truly defines the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. This season of giving is an especially fitting time to celebrate not only our professional excellence, but also our shared commitment to service, compassion and leadership.


At the heart of that commitment is the AAML Pro Bono Resolution, adopted in 2021, which calls on Fellows to aspire to provide 50 hours of pro bono service each year. This resolution reflects who we are as an Academy — lawyers who understand that access to justice is essential, particularly for families navigating life’s most difficult transitions.


I am proud to report that many Fellows continue to answer this call in extraordinary ways. In particular, I want to recognize the Northern California Chapter, which reported an exceptional 773 hours of pro bono service in 2025. That collective effort represents lives impacted, families supported and justice advanced. I also wish to acknowledge the remarkable individual contributions of Yasmine Mehmet and Neil Forester, whose significant pro bono hours exemplify the very best of our profession. Their dedication is a powerful reminder of the difference one lawyer — and our Academy as a whole — can make.


Looking ahead to the new year, I hope you will join us for the 2026 AAML Midyear Meeting, taking place March 10–13 at the beautiful Fairmont Princess in Scottsdale, Arizona. This meeting promises outstanding CLE, meaningful connection and the opportunity to recharge alongside Fellows from across the country.


We are also planning something special during Midyear: AAML Day at the Ballpark, with details and registration coming soon. On the afternoon of Thursday, March 12, we will attend MLB Cactus League Spring Training to watch the Chicago Cubs take on the Seattle Mariners — a fun and memorable way to spend time together outside the conference setting.


As many of you know, one of my personal goals as President is to speak directly with every Fellow of the Academy. I continue making those calls, and they have been among the most rewarding experiences of my presidency. If you have not yet heard from me, please know that you will — I fully intend to connect with every Fellow over the course of 2026. I value those conversations and the insight, wisdom and perspective they bring.


As we celebrate the holidays, I encourage each of you to reflect on the ways you give — through your practice, your pro bono service, your mentorship and your leadership. The Academy is stronger because of your generosity and your commitment to excellence.


On behalf of the AAML, I wish you and your families a joyful holiday season and a healthy, fulfilling New Year. I look forward to all we will accomplish together in the year ahead.


Warmest Holiday Wishes,

Thomas J. Sasser

President, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Key Takeaways From 2025 AAML Annual Meeting Keynote Speaker Yolanda Cartusciello on 'Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution Aross Generations'

By: Steve Mindel, AAML

At the 2025 AAML Annual Meeting, keynote speaker Yolanda Cartusciello explored the results of the recent AAML Workplace Experience Survey. This article emphasizes the importance of communication to avoid misunderstandings and conflict as a result of generational differences.

What You Missed From the 2025 AAML Annual Meeting Session 'A Goodwill Luau: Legal and Forensic Approaches Across Jurisdictions'

By: Andrew Soshnick, AAML

This article recaps a session at the 2025 AAML Annual Meeting with important takeaways for performing a goodwill analysis.

AAML Tech Tips: Using AI to Keep Up With Your Emails and More

By: The AAML Law Practice Management and Technology Committee

In this new Tech Tip from the AAML Law Practice Management and Technology Committee, Reginald Hirsch sits down with David Morgan to explain how Fellows can use Microsoft Copilot to summarize their unread emails while maintaining client confidentiality and share other tips for incorporating the technology into their practices.


If you are unable to view the above video, please click here.

 

Registration Is Open for AAML's 2026 Events

It's time to mark your calendars and start preparing for AAML's 2026 events, which are guaranteed to expand your knowledge in family law and connect you with leaders in the field.


Use your remaining 2025 budget dollars to register for these events!

The 2026 AAML Midyear Meeting will be held in Scottsdale, AZ, from March 10-13, 2026. Experience togetherness and a refreshing annual retreat focused on practice management. Families welcome! Register now — we expect this event to sell out.

Join us for the 2026 Arbitration Training in Chicago from May 7-8, 2026. This two-day training is for AAML Fellows who want to integrate arbitration into their practice and offers an intense but insightful focus on the issues of arbitration.

The third annual National Family Law Conference is set to take place from June 25-27, 2026, in Las Vegas. Increase visibility of your firm's reputation and expertise among advanced family law attorneys from around the country. We encourage Fellows to attend and share this exciting opportunity with associates to accelerate their practice with inspired law theory CLE and networking.

The AAML Institute for Family Law Associates offers a unique and immersive learning experience tailored specifically for family law associates. Taking place in Chicago over four days, Sept. 25-28, 2026, this intensive program provides comprehensive training in both substantive family law and essential practice management skills.

 

Foundation Update: A Message From AAML Foundation President Gary Rosen

I was very honored to be sworn in as the new AAML Foundation President last month at the Foundation’s Lifetime Members’ Luncheon in Chicago.


At that time, I publicly thanked Brian Vertz for the extraordinary leadership that he demonstrated for the past two and a half years leading the Foundation. I am very grateful that Brian will be continuing his service to the Foundation as immediate past president, and I know that I will be leaning upon him for advance and counsel throughout my term.


During the Lifetime Members’ Luncheon, the Foundation very proudly announced the recipients of our 2025 grants.


As a result of the tremendous generosity from Fellows across the country, we were able to provide $322,000.00 in grants to programs and agencies across the country.

Renew Your Fellowship by Dec. 31

Only two weeks left to renew your Fellowship with AAML for 2026! Log in to your member portal and complete the renewal process.


Having trouble? Download these step-by-step instructions. Renew by Dec. 31 to avoid losing your Fellow status.


NEW! Enroll in auto-renewal with AAML and avoid the worry of remembering to renew next year. To set up your auto-renewal, simply check the auto-renew box during the renewal process and add a credit or debit card to your profile.

Showcase Your Expertise: Contribute to the AAML Newsletter

Share your knowledge, elevate your profile and position yourself as a recognized expert in your field. The AAML Newsletter offers a valuable opportunity for Fellows to highlight best practices, offer fresh insights and reflect the forward-thinking work happening at their firm — all while contributing to the broader conversation shaping our profession.


If you're interested in submitting an article or would like more information, contact the AAML editorial team at editorial@aaml.org or fill out the Contributor Interest Form.

 

AAML Webinar This Thursday

Navigating a Nation of Rules: Understanding Cross-State Alimony and Child Support Laws

Family law does not function the same from coast to coast — especially when it comes to alimony and child support.


Join us Thursday, Dec. 18, when leading family law attorneys from across the country will compare and contrast their states’ approaches to alimony, spousal maintenance, child support guidelines, deviation factors, high-income cases and enforcement mechanisms. The panel will explore how differing statutory frameworks, case-law trends and judicial discretion shape outcomes — and why familiarity with other jurisdictions can strengthen your strategy, negotiation posture and litigation preparedness.



Whether you handle interstate cases, advise relocating clients or simply want a stronger grasp of how support works beyond your borders, this webinar delivers practical, practitioner-focused insights you can apply immediately.


This webinar is complimentary to Fellows.

On-Demand Education Offerings Available in My AAML Library

Take time this holiday season to watch our most popular on-demand offerings in My AAML Library:





These recordings are complimentary to Fellows.

 

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