September 2026 - Issue 1

 

Past Newsletters

Upcoming Events, Seminars and Webinars

Table of Contents

 

Message From the Editor


Back-to-School for Co-Parents: The Checklist Your Divorce Lawyer Wishes Was in Every Backpack | Read More


From Zen to 007: Elevate Your AAML Annual Meeting Experience | Register Now


Welcome New Fellows!


Foundation Update: The Engine of Our Impact — Inside the Grants Committee | Read More


Showcase Your Expertise: Contribute to the AAML Newsletter | Submit Your Article


Join Us for Friday's Webinar on Tax Updates, Tariffs and Valuation Considerations | Register Now

 
 

Message From the Editor

By: Rob McAngus, AAML Newsletter Editor

Every September, a lot of us spend a weekend tracking down backpacks, supply lists and the one very specific brand of folder a teacher insisted on to prepare for a new year of learning. It is worth remembering that the back-to-school instinct should not stop at our own front doors. The associates in our firms are also still learning this practice, and September is a good month to invest in them.

 

You may have heard that registration for the AAML Institute for Family Law Associates has now closed. If you got your associates in before the deadline, they are in for four good days in Chicago, Sept. 25-28: an introductory track for associates one to five years in, an advanced track for those who have already first-chaired a case, mentorship from Fellows who have actually tried these cases and, I am told, an evening of competitive darts. The faculty roster this year is outstanding, and that assessment holds even after you subtract my name from it.


If you meant to sign someone up and the date got away from you, you are not alone, and the remedy is a calendar entry rather than a regret. Registration opens again in the spring. Put a reminder somewhere you will actually see it, and pick the associate now rather than next August.


While the Institute lasts four days, what makes an associate is the other 361, and that part does not come with a registration link. It is the hearing you let them take when you could have taken it faster yourself. It is the 20 minutes after a bad ruling when you walk through what you would do differently. It is handing over the client call, the cross outline, the mediation opening and then stepping back while they do it their way. The Institute earns its place because it puts associates in a room with peers from other firms in other states, where they discover that the case keeping them up at night is keeping 40 other young lawyers up as well. We cannot manufacture that room in our own offices. We can decide what the associate walks into it already knowing.


Switching gears, I want to share something exciting that's coming. The Academy and the AFCC are working toward the joint conference in 2027. For those who have not attended a joint program before, the value is in the composition of the room. Judges, mental health professionals and lawyers are all working on the same problems from different chairs. It is a different kind of learning than we get talking among ourselves, and it is worth building into your 2027 calendar now. More to come, and I will keep this space warm until then.

 

Finally, this remains your newsletter. If the Institute sparks a thought about how we train the next generation, if you have a system for developing associates that actually works or if you have a practice pointer you wish someone had handed you in your second year, I would love to hear from you. We are always looking for new voices and fresh angles. Reach out with an article idea, a short column or even just the seed of a topic, and we can help you shape it.

 

I look forward to hearing from you and to seeing many of you in Chicago.

Back-to-School for Co-Parents: The Checklist Your Divorce Lawyer Wishes Was in Every Backpack

By: Julia Leveridge, AAML Ohio

Back-to-school season can be especially challenging for co-parents, but a little planning can help prevent misunderstandings and last-minute stress. This article offers a practical checklist to help co-parents coordinate schedules, expenses, school communications and expectations so the school year starts on the right foot.

 

From Zen to 007: Elevate Your AAML Annual Meeting Experience

From mindful mornings to a glamorous grand finale, the 2026 AAML Annual Meeting offers experiences designed to energize, connect and inspire. Start your day with a rejuvenating yoga session on Thursday, Nov. 5, then cap off the conference in style at the President's Dinner: A 007 Affair on Saturday, Nov. 7.


Whether you're seeking cutting-edge CLE, opportunities to connect and collaborate with the nation's leading family lawyers or simply a chance to recharge with friends and colleagues, the AAML Annual Meeting delivers it all.


Additional registration and fees apply to these add-on experiences.

 

Welcome New Fellows!

Join us in welcoming the new Fellows who joined the Academy in August:

Sean Ditzel, Georgia

Bethany Hurd, Minnesota

Alyson Lembeck, Georgia

Claire Cody Miller, New York

Alicia Palmer, Texas

Barry Waldman, Virginia

AAML Foundation Update

The Engine of Our Impact — Inside the Grants Committee

Following the spectacular news that the AAML Foundation met its ambitious $365,000 donation milestone this year, a vital question emerges: How do these generous gifts transform into meaningful community action? The answer lies in the rigorous, behind-the-scenes work of our Grants Committee, expertly led by Chair Julia Swain and Vice Chair John Durward. While summer often represents a slower period in the legal calendar, it is the busiest season for this dedicated group.


The committee has been deep in the process of reviewing scores of highly competitive grant applications from nonprofit organizations across the country. Every proposal has undergone meticulous evaluation to ensure alignment with our core mission: protecting children, supporting domestic violence survivors and funding critical pro bono family law services. Julia, John and the committee members have completed the process of ranking the candidates and navigating the complex, thoughtful discussions about how many grants to award this cycle. A major highlight of this process has been identifying which exceptional organizations will become the special recipients of our prestigious named grants, connecting specific donor legacies directly to high-impact community programs.



Last year, the Foundation set a historic record by awarding $322,000 across 51 grants. Thanks to your unmatched generosity in helping us clear our $365,000 goal, the committee now has an even more powerful financial footprint to distribute. We extend our deepest gratitude to Julia, John and the entire committee for volunteering their time to ensure our collective resources achieve the maximum possible impact for families in crisis. The 2026 grant recipients will be announced in November!

Share Your Insights: Contribute to the AAML Newsletter

Share your knowledge, elevate your profile and position yourself as a recognized expert in family law. The AAML Newsletter offers a valuable opportunity to highlight best practices, offer fresh insights and showcase the forward-thinking work happening at your firm.


Use our new article submission form to share your thought leadership. AAML Fellowship is not required to be featured in the AAML Newsletter. Please contact the AAML editorial team at editorial@aaml.org with any questions.

 

Join Us for Friday's Webinar

Economic Change Meets Family Law: Tax Updates, Tariffs and Valuation Considerations

Tax law changes, tariffs and evolving economic conditions are creating new financial considerations in divorce matters. Join us this Friday, Sept. 18, at noon CT for a practical webinar led by Stacy Preston Collins, managing director at Stout, that will explore how these developments may influence business valuations, income analyses, support issues and settlement negotiations. Through real-world examples, you'll gain insights to identify emerging risks, better evaluate complex financial information and confidently advise clients in an increasingly dynamic economic environment.


Complimentary to Fellows. This program is not eligible for CLE credit.

 

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