How is our approach to tantric massage different from others? In essence, it integrates a variety of concepts from tantra with massage. To begin the tantric massage, the ritual of creating a sacred space allows the rest of the world to melt away. The two partners honor each other, invoke whatever qualities they wish to have present during their intimate time together, and state their desires, fears and boundaries for the massage.

In a traditional massage, one person gives, the other receives. In a prone position, with eyes closed, the receiver silently and blissfully receives, as the giver massages away. Our tantric massage brings the seeming opposites of giving and receiving into a harmonious whole. For example, the giver explores how he can receive pleasure as he gives to his partner. Is he experiencing delight as he touches her silken skin and caressed her curvaceous body? In turn, the receiver can be interactive and tell her partner about how she would like to be touched. She can make requests, and hence take responsibility for her own pleasure. This is an important concept of SkyDancing Tantra, on which this massage is based.

In our tantric massage, the giver and receiver are positioned physically in such a way that they can make eye contact, bringing the two partners into an immediate connection in present time. For instance, the receiver might lie on his back with his head propped up, while the woman sits between his legs. Long strokes up his belly encourage him to breathe deeply. She can match his breath, hence supporting the feeling of becoming one with each other. Matching the touch with the breath can create deep relaxation and arousal.

During the massage the partners can also explore the 3 Keys to Orgasmic Bliss: Movement, Breath and Sound. This allows the energy to expand, and to irrigate all its cells with vibrant, refreshing and relaxed life-force energy, and to activate the body's blissful Multi-Oh Response.

Ecstatically,   

Mika & Cassidy have been practicing Sky Dancing Tantra together since 2009 when they took the Love & Ecstasy Training. They have since assisted countless workshops with Steve & Lokita Carter, and are scheduled to complete the SkyDancing Tantra Coach & Teacher Training next month. Mika & Cassidy are passionately committed to the tantric path as it deeply enhances their connection and intimacy as a married couple and supports their intention to live life with hearts wide open. Together, they have over 30 years of experience teaching and practicing the healing arts, including Tantra, yoga, massage, breath work, movement, group process and transformational therapy. Their workshops provide a safe, nurturing and playful environment that encourages intimacy and expansion.

Both Mika and Cassidy are adept at knowing what each student needs in order to support their individual expansion and growth. They believe that all humans have the capacity to heal themselves and create positive change in the world, and they see Tantra and yoga as powerful tools for doing so.  READ MORE