Dear Friends, 


It's time to prepare for Pesah! Please reference our Pesah web page, which has all this information and more, including service times and links to access services online.


In this email you'll find information on:

1. How to clean and prepare for Pesah, as well as special instructions on what to do when the first Seder falls on a Saturday night (as it does this year)

2. Four additional questions for your Seder this year from Rabbi Paula Mack Drill

3. Authorizing Rabbi Drill to be your agent in selling your Hametz (note: Rabbi Drill will be at morning Minyan the week of April 6 for those who wish to authorize her to sell Hametz in person)

4. Purchase of gefilte fish (we were able to add a small second order)

5. Purchase of discount Kosher wine for Pesah from ShopRite Wines & Spirits

6. Information on the Siyyum (the celebratory meal which overrides the fast) for firstborns


Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, and Kosher Pesah,

Rabbi Ari Lucas

Why is this year different from all other years? There are a number of answers to this question, but one is that the first night of Pesah falls on a Saturday night. When that happens, there are a number of atypical practices that are worth reviewing:


1. On all other years, firstborns (Bekhorim) are obligated to fast the morning before the first Seder. This is their way of paying a debt to God for having been spared the 10th plague on the night of the Exodus. A סיום (Siyyum) — a party for completing a significant section of study — takes precedence over the fast. Since Yom Kippur is the only fast that can conceivably take place on Shabbat, and while fasting on a Friday can happen (such as for Asarah B'Tevet, one of the fasts associated with the destruction of the Temple), fasts are never moved TO a Friday FROM their original day. In this situation, the fast/feast is moved back yet one more day, to Thursday. Therefore, we will observe this fast/feast on Thursday, April 10. Morning Minyan that day will begin at 6:45 am, and firstborns are invited to attend the Siyyum and celebration immediately following services, which should begin at around 7:35 am.


2. On all other years, we generally search for Hametz (בדיקת חמץ/Bedikat Hametz) the night before the first Seder. And then it is burned/removed the next morning in the ביעור חמץ (Bi'ur Hametz) ceremony. This usually takes place about one-third of the way through the “Halakhic day,” which is one-third of that day's hours of sunlight, from sunrise to sunset. In a year such as this, we cannot search for the Hametz the night before, as we don't make use of a candle on Friday night, and we can't burn it the next morning, on Shabbat. Therefore, this year, we search for the Hametz on Thursday night, and burn it Friday morning. Burn your Hametz at CAI on Friday, April 11, 8:30-9:00 am with Cantor Caplan. One does not, however, recite the second formula nullifying Hametz at this time. And so…where does that leave us with our food, dishes, and Hallah for Shabbat? I will lay out a few possibilities for you:


• First, even though we will have burned the Hametz on Friday morning, the actual prohibition of owning/consuming Hametz still does not come into play until Shabbat morning, which is the day of the first Seder. So technically, one is permitted to eat Hametz on Friday night, and all the way through about

11:00 am on Shabbat morning. We will pause around this time in Shabbat morning services to recite the special statement nullifying Hametz.


• However, one must have one's house completely “turned over” and prepared for Pesah by the time we light Shabbat candles on Friday night. Families that use separate sets of dishes for Pesah should already be using them once the sun sets on Friday. That puts the 25 hours between sundown on Friday night and darkness on Saturday in a weird Halakhic “no-man's land.” One ought not yet consume Matzah, for there is a strong tradition that even for those who enjoy (?!) eating Matzah throughout the year, one should refrain from consuming it for a period of time (some say one day, some say one week, some say a full 30 days) before the first Seder, so that the first bite into the modest Matzah is done בתיאוון (B'teyavon — with appetite/gusto), so that the Mitzvah of consuming that Matzah is done with some novelty and joy. At the same time, one's home is already cleared of its Hametz, which makes Hallah for Shabbat dinner and Shabbat lunch complicated.


• Some rule that for the two loaves needed for each Shabbat meal, egg Matzah should be used. Since it is considered מצה עשירה (Matzah Ashirah — enriched/enhanced Matzah), which is the very reason one cannot fulfill one's obligation for Matzah by eating it (and why most Ashkenazi authorities actually forbid its consumption on Pesah itself), it is far enough away from true Matzah such that by eating it Friday night and Saturday you can still eat the real stuff “with gusto.” But it is also not Hametz, so it is safe to eat within a cleaned-for-Pesah kitchen. You may certainly fulfill your Shabbat meal obligations this way.


• Others completely prepare the home for Pesah, but leave out some loaves of true Hallah, totally segregated from all other foodstuffs, sealed in a Ziploc bag or aluminum foil. The Hamotzi, in this situation, should be recited quickly (perhaps outside), with everyone taking a piece to enjoy…and then quickly consumed or discarded before continuing with the rest of the meal using Kosher for Passover dishes/utensils. It is a good thing to rinse one's hands/mouth after eating this truly fluffy Hametz before returning to your Kosher for Passover Shabbat lunch and dinner.

 

So…make your choice: egg Matzah (which you can even eat at a regularly-timed Shabbat lunch) or full Hallah (which, again, must be fully consumed or disposed of immediately after the blessing, and consumed early on Saturday), with the rest of the meal being consumed using plates, utensils, and food that is fully Kosher for Passover.


3. Finally, on all other years, the sale of Hametz to a non-Jew happens the morning of the first Seder. This year, the Hametz will be sold by Thursday night, April 10. If you wish to authorize Rabbi Drill to sell your Hametz, please do so by 4:30 pm on Thursday, April 10. You can exclude your Hallah for Shabbat from the sale by putting it in a separate location.

 

As always, let us know if you have any questions. And we wish you an early

חג כשר ושמח, Hag Kasher v'Sameah. A sweet, joyful, and Kosher Pesah!

Here are four additional questions to consider at your Seder this year from Rabbi Drill:


1. How do we understand belonging to community; what do we receive from community?

2. What skills and blessings do I bring to my community?

3. How does community allow us to weave together people with different perspectives and understandings of the world?

4. How can community be a vehicle for repairing a broken world?

Are you seeking new ideas and/or Haggadot to enliven your Seder? Pesah maven Susan Werk has many ways to enrich the holiday. Susan will offer Pesah how-tos for hosting creative, meaningful, and engaging Seders for your family!


For Early Childhood Age Parents and Grandparents

Thursday, April 3

9:15-11:00 am | Conference Room 1

Register Here

For All Ages and Stages: Suggestions and Haggadah Selection

Thursday, April 3,

11:00 am-6:00 pm

Appointment Only (45 Min.)

Conference Room 1

Schedule Appointment

The Rabbinical Assembly

Pesah Guide 5785


The guide outlines the policies and procedures relevant to the preparation of a Kosher for Passover home in accordance with the principles of Conservative Judaism's understanding of Jewish law. Answers to additional Kashrut questions can be found here.

Gefilte Fish Sale


A&B brand, pre-cooked sweet gefilte fish! Each 3-lb. loaf equals about 2 ½ regular loaves, providing about 25 servings per loaf. Just slice and serve — no baking or boiling necessary! Contains no matzah meal! Gluten-free!


$26 Per Loaf


We were able to arrange a second, smaller order of gefilte fish. The supply is limited. Do not wait to place your order.


All orders must be received by noon on Friday, April 4. This is a final deadline. After that, no new orders or changes to orders may be made.


Pickup will be in the Main Office Entrance of the Synagogue on Thursday, April 10, 8:00-10:00 am. If you have questions, please email communications@agudath.org.

Order Gefilte Fish

Breakfast for the Firstborn

Sponsored by Rabbi David Saltzman and Judi Fabricant in memory of Irving Saltzman z"l


Thursday, April 10, 6:45 am Services, 7:35 am Siyyum, 7:50 am Breakfast Library/Adult Lounge

Traditionally, firstborn Jewish children fast during the day of the first Seder in thanks for having been spared during the 10th Plague in Egypt. But firstborns can get out of fasting if they attend a Siyyum—hearing a scholar finish studying a tractate of Talmud. Following the Siyyum, led by Rabbi Paula Mack Drill, enjoy a Seudah (celebration-feast). And firstborns may then eat during the rest of the day! Parents, here's something special that you can do with your firstborn.

All are welcome.

Register Here

The Rabbinical Assembly

Search for Hametz

This one-page sheet includes text, instructions, and transliteration for the ritual of searching for Hametz

(בדיקת חמץ) and the destruction of Hametz (בעור חמץ).

Sale of Hametz


The Biblical injunction is that “no leaven shall be seen or found in your possession during Pesah.” In order not to be compelled to dispose of all leaven products in our possession — especially those of significant value — we have legal provisions for the sale of Hametz that remains in our homes and/or offices. Every member of the community can appoint Rabbi Paula Mack Drill to represent them for this transaction. Rabbi Drill will “sell” everyone's Hametz to someone who is not Jewish for the duration of Pesah. After the holiday, the Rabbi will buy it back. While some may say this is only legal fiction, it serves an important purpose — to demonstrate the intention of everyone to observe the laws.


Click the button below for more information and to complete the form to sell your Hametz online. If you would like to sell your Hametz in person, effecting a Kinyan (the transaction to designate Rabbi Drill as your agent to sell your Hametz), Rabbi Drill will be at morning Minyan from Sunday, April 6, through Thursday, April 10. You are also welcome to email Rabbi Drill at pmdrill@agudath.org to set up a time to sell Hametz in person.


All transactions must be completed by 4:30 pm on Thursday, April 10.

Sell Your Chametz

Get in the Pesah spirit with "Matza Mia!" by international phenomenon, Jewish a cappella singing group, Six13. On Wednesday, April 30, at 7:00 pm, commemorate Yom Hazikaron and celebrate Yom Ha-atzma'ut with Six13 in concert at CAI. All ages! All are welcome! Sponsored by the Nat and Bea Taubenfeld z"l Fund and the Marsha Henry z"l Concert Fund

Register Here

Pesah service times can be found on our Pesah web page.

Service Times

Burn Your Hametz at CAI


Cantor Caplan will make a campfire in the staff parking lot (corner of Academy Road and Elizabeth Street) on Friday, April 11, 8:30-9:00 am. All are invited to come and burn your Hametz.

Wine Sale with Sunrise Cellars, ShopRite Wines and Spirits of Westfield and Caldwell


Proudly offering 200+ Kosher and non-Kosher wines and spirits in-store and online, Sunrise Cellars, ShopRite Wines & Spirits have selected their bestselling Kosher wines at a discounted price to enjoy during your Pesah seders. Choose between home delivery, Caldwell store pickup, or pickup at CAI, all on Monday, April 7. Don't see your favorite product? Need assistance deciding on what will work best for your meal or your taste? Any questions can be directed to Sunrise Cellars Owner Liad Amir at liadamir83@gmail.com or

973-309-5211. The deadline to order is Monday, April 1. Click the button below for details about ordering, a product list, and pricing.

Order Wine

"One Little Goat: A Passover Catastrophe"

Lunch and Learn with Author Dara Horn

Saturday, April 5, Following Kiddush, Chapel

"Three-time National Jewish Book Award-winning author Dara Horn ("People Love Dead Jews")’s first book for young readers, "One Little Goat" is a quirky, dryly funny, Passover-themed graphic novel featuring a lost Matzah, a never-ending seder and a time-traveling talking goat. A delightfully bizarre exploration of the meaning of Passover, One Little Goat is layered with joy, humor, and magic that flows from generation to generation." Learn More


Join author and CAI congregant Dara Horn to hear an excerpt from the book. Hardcover copies will be available at the discounted price of $10 during the Lerner Early Childhood Center Spring Boutique on Thursday, April 3, 1:00-5:00 pm and 6:00-8:00 pm, or purchase your copy from the Main Office during regular office hours. Cash and check only. Download Flyer

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