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A Tribute to Coach Jim Sykes
During my time at Justin-Siena, many individuals invested in our growth: Brother Richard, with his steadfast commitment to education; Mr. Morrish, whose passionate love for theater inspired students on and off the stage; and Brother Conrad, who led with quiet strength. And there were many more...including Coach Jim Sykes.
Driven, competitive, and relentless, Coach Sykes instilled respect for the team, for each other, and for oneself. He demanded our best not through perfection but through effort—his example set the tone for all of us.
Coach Sykes arrived at Justin-Siena in the early seventies, tasked with building a football program in the school’s beginning stages. By 1973 and 1974, he led back-to-back one-loss seasons, advancing to the section championship against a powerhouse Central Catholic team in 1973. His success carried on both at JS and at Fairfield High, where he continued to cultivate championship teams and lasting legacies.
A Leader Beyond the Game
Back in October 2024, over a dinner conversation with Jim Dodd '75 and Kirk Hamilton ‘75, Coach Sykes’ name came up and Kirk insisted we take a trip to see him at his ranch in Arizona. For those who know Kirk and Jim, there was no question that this would happen, just a matter of when. Coach had made an extraordinary impact, and we needed to return the favor! As Kirk eloquently put it, " You look to a good coach for leadership, knowledge, and inspiration. Coach Sykes still provides that now, as a true friend."
For many of us, Coach Sykes was more than a football coach—he was a mentor and a friend. If you played for him, you likely have a story. He might have even given you a nickname—one you wore with pride. I still picture Dave Martin’s practice jersey with “Turtle” stitched proudly across the back!
A Visit Worth the Journey
In January, an additional group of standout players from the 1973/74 team trekked to Coach’s ranch in remote Arizona—a trip that required intentional planning. Vic Venuta '74, Andy Lewis '74, Kip Losey '74, and Rick Stachon '74 made that journey, cherishing the opportunity to sit down and reconnect. The visit was not only special for Coach, but also for the crew taking time to visit and catch up - it takes a good while to get to Arivaca, AZ.
Coach Sykes wasn’t just invested in athletes; he cared about all his students, on and off the field. When Kirk Hamilton, Jim Dodd, and I visited him, he asked about people—many of whom weren’t star athletes, or even involved in sports. His genuine concern for their well-being was clearly a testament to the kind of person he is.
Andrew Lewis ’74 reflected on the life lessons Coach Sykes imparted: "Coach Sykes brings back great memories. He taught me so many valuable lessons which I carried into my law enforcement career here in Napa—self-discipline, accountability, and most importantly, the value of teamwork. I have fond memories, especially playing alongside so many great teammates."
As we grow older (I won’t say more mature—we're still waiting on that), we become more reflective. Leadership and influence come in many forms. A good friend’s mother, now 92, answers the simple question, "How are you?" with one powerful word: "Thankful." Words mean something, and her response always challenges me to reflect on my own gratitude.
ALLHEART Coach
This visit was about more than reminiscing; it was about appreciation. Coach Sykes' influence has extended far beyond the teams he coached, touching lives in ways he may never fully realize. For those reading this, I know you are painting your own picture of him— as a coach, and also as a leader who instilled effort, perseverance, and accountability.
And to you, Coach Sykes, for all you have given to so many, we appreciate you and will always be thankful.
A special nod to Kirk Hamilton for inspiring these visits—when Kirk insists on something, "no" is not an option. His initiative made this memorable reconnection possible.
Coach has stayed in touch with many former students over the years, holding his time at Justin-Siena as a truly special chapter in his life. And for all of us who had the privilege of playing under him, the feeling is mutual.
Thank you, Coach.
Sincerely,
Nelson Bettencourt, III '74, and a whole bunch of other people!
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