What's in a Name?
My full name is Conrad Wildsmith. The name Conrad, chosen by my parents, is a symbol of my individuality, a personal choice that has been with me since I first grasped its significance. It's not just a name, but a part of my identity. When I stepped into my first teaching role, I transitioned from being simply Conrad to being addressed as Mr. Wildsmith. This formal title marked my entry into adulthood and authority, setting me apart from the students I taught.
Several years into working in a formal public school environment, I accepted a position to teach at an independent school in Paris, France. Here at The International School, I first experienced a more direct and egalitarian approach to the classroom in that students addressed teachers by their first names. I quickly recognized that this practice allowed for more genuine interactions and broke down formal barriers that impeded effective communication. It highlighted a vital truth: relational respect is not inherently tied to using formal titles but is fostered through openness and mutual recognition, where each individual is valued and respected.
As I began visiting advisories last week here at SAA, I asked the students to address me by my first name. This decision is not just a personal preference but is rooted in my belief in the power of authenticity and its crucial role in fostering genuine relationships in education. Learning thrives on authentic relationships where trust is the cornerstone. In my 30 years in education, I have found that students respect adults for their authenticity, not for socially constructed titles. Confidence and respect in a person are not built through formalities but through actions and words that reflect genuine character and moral judgment.
Here at SAA, I am committed to creating a culture of transparency where staff, students, and parents feel comfortable speaking freely and trusting that my actions and words are always in their best interests.
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