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It’s been seven years since I last coached local youth hockey with the Kennebecasis Valley Minor Hockey Association. I truly thought my minor hockey coaching days were behind me, and that, as grandparents, Vicki and I would simply sit in the stands and watch our grandson, Miles, play the game he loves.
But with Vicki’s passing, and in this season of adjusting to life without her, the idea of returning to coach Miles’s team slowly began to take shape. So, in October, I stepped back onto the ice to coach the U15 Rec Cardinals. It has been good for me—life-giving, even. One Friday evening, I found myself sitting at home at 8:30 p.m., waiting for our 9:15 practice, and I realized just how much I was looking forward to being on the ice again.
Already, ministry opportunities have come through this team. Early in the season, I held a parents’ meeting to introduce myself and explain my coaching philosophy. I shared that my approach to coaching is an extension of my Christian faith—something inseparable from who I am. After the meeting, a mother approached me and asked for prayer as she grieved the recent loss of her father. It struck me that conversations like this never happen if I’m sitting at home on the couch watching TV. Ministry happens when you show up and make yourself available.
We’ve already held our first Chapel @ The Rink before one of our games, with sixteen moms, dads, players, and siblings in attendance. And several of the players are campers from last summer’s Hockey Ministry camp—talk about follow-up!
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