Greetings!
"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
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And here we are at the start of a new year! The adage that time goes faster as we age is so very true, and for me, it's more real with each passing year. The idea of making New Year's resolutions seems old-fashioned; however, there are a few things I like contemplating at the beginning of each year. I like to envisage what I've learned the previous year and what my intentions are for the year to come.
This past year, I learned the importance of having gratitude when the flow is right in our life and everything is going well. For me, everything was flowing smoothly until mid-year, when my husband developed severe and nearly fatal complications from Covid-19 that resulted in two emergency surgeries (thankfully he's now nearly recovered); my 93-year-old mother was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer; and my 17-year old Maltese Poodle passed away in my arms one morning in bed. The good news is that we have a new grandson, Cohen Ananda, born just before Christmas. This makes six precious little beings. My gratitude is for the love they've all brought into our family and into the universe.
I also have gratitude for my friends and family who were emotionally supportive during the challenging moments of 2022. Thankfully, I was inspired to write a lot of poems--many of which got published. I feel blessed over this. And, of course, I'm grateful for my poetry collection, An Imaginary Affair: Poems Whispered to Neruda, which was published in July.
I have done much grieving in 2022, and many of us deal with grief specifically over the winter holidays when we miss loved ones who have passed on. We know grief can strike any time, but it's especially strong on important holidays. If you're experiencing loss and grief or have experienced loss and grief in the past, please check out my article, "Dealing With Grief During the Holidays," in Psychology Today. The tips are helpful all year round.
On another note, check out my article in Psychology Today "5 Ways to Reflect on 2022," which offers some talking and writing points to look back on the year.
In terms of setting intentions for 2023, one way to begin is by writing in your journal. Don't forget to date your entries. You may want to begin by discussing your passions, both past and present. Sometimes it's useful to tap into some past passions which brought you joy. In any case, writing is a good place to start considering your passions and intentions for the upcoming year. For some more ideas, check out my article "Writing and Finding Your Life Passion," in Sixty and Me.
Wishing you a happy, healthy, and productive 2023 !!
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- Write about your highs and lows in 2022.
- Write about some of your intentions for 2023.
- Write about your earliest memory.
- Write about your greatest fear.
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February 5, 2023
5:30 p.m. - 6:30 p.m.
"Writing Love Letters"
388 Bell Street
Los Alamos, CA
Free
To register email: diana@dianaraab.com
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February 13, 2022
6:00 p.m.- 8:00 p.m.
"Valentine Celebration & Love Poetry with Diana Raab"
Ikat and Pearls
28 S. California Street
Ventura, CA
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IMPORTANT NOTE:
In January, I will be offering an online Zoom workshop:
"WRITING FOR BLISS: WRITING TO SAVE YOUR LIFE"
PLEASE EMAIL DIANA@DIANARAAB.COM
FOR DETAILS.
(limited to 10 participants)
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"The Missing Apex of Maslow's Hierarchy Could Save Us All"
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This was one of those books that I could not put down. I read it all in one sitting on Christmas Day. I do think it helps when the reader has met the writer. Years ago, I met Hood at a Writer's Conference in Florida and she made me laugh with her fantastic sense of humor. That humor really shines in her book. It's extremely entertaining. She clearly has as great memory and is a terrific storyteller. From an early age she wanted to be both a writer and a flight attendant. Both her dreams have come true!
Hood was a stewardess (now called "flight attendant") in the '70s and has so many hysterical and mind-boggling stories. As Hood is about the same age as me, there were several scenarios that resonated. The idea that air travel has changed over the years is clearly an understatement. As she mentions, by 2001, seven of the major airlines had gone out of business. She writes about how both men and women who traveled by air were dressed in suits--now anything goes. Her description of the flight school teachings were shocking. Of course, things have shifted since. In those days, if you gained more than five pounds you could potentially get fired. Today there would be--understandably so--a huge uproar about this restriction!
She writes, "Life unfolds on airplanes. People are flying to funerals and weddings, they are on their honeymoon or leaving a partner, they are carrying a newborn on their first flight to meet grandparents or taking a kid to college or on their way to adopt a baby. And they fall in love." (p. 203)
I simply loved the nostalgia of this book and what her job taught her, including the ability to talk in front of a couple of hundred people, and navigate the subways and streets of foreign cities with ease. It also taught her to listen, and to be kind, helpful, and compassionate. All such wonderful teachings!
Highly recommended!
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