Perfection is a state of mind that many attempt to be or find but their discovery is that it remains unattainable for our human frame. No matter how we color our hair, workout at the gym, or plastic surgeries we have, including tummy tucks or hair transplants or grafts, perfection can make us neurotic, frustrating and leaving feeling like we invested in a terrible waste of time. Many are looking for the perfect mate instead of making themselves better and being the “perfect” mate! There are 3 stages to the human life; Babyhood, Adolescence and Adulthood. Change is inevitable but growth is optional. We must choose to grow in all areas of life to be the best person we can be and bring it into everything we do including our relationships!