Let's talk about magical thinking and divine timing

Are you waiting for your soulmate to magically appear? Maybe thinking God or Fate (or some other deity) might deliver a soulmate to you?

In our most recent podcast, Barry and I had fun exploding the myth that "your soulmate is on their way and God is making it happen." We explored the idea that attracting a special relationship involves more than magical thinking or divine timing.

Simply put, attracting your ideal partner requires intention, self-awareness, internal realignment, and a willingness to get out there and truly connect.

Discover how to become an active participant in your dating life and how to recognize opportunities for authentic love connection when they appear.

Barry Selby and I explore dating and relationship topics in our talk show each Thursday at 1 p.m. PST. We'd love to have you join us! To see a complete list of our past shows, visit Going Solo.

A list of videos is also available on my YouTube channel.

For more about Barry, visit BarrySelby.com.

Send me an email. I'd love to chat with you about it. And if you'd like to dive a little deeper on the subject, let's chat. You can schedule a complimentary conversation with me here. Additionally, if you know someone who would benefit from this information, feel free to forward my newsletter to them. And... if you received this newsletter from a friend and would like to subscribe, please click the link below.

As a coach, I've helped hundreds of people successfully through their dating and relationship processes. I enjoy listening carefully to who you are, and then using that knowledge to help you explore your dating and relationship needs.

Take the first step toward achieving your dream of a happy and fulfilling romantic relationship! Fill out my questionnaire What's Holding You Back From Love, and then let's talk.

My coaching is deeply influenced by my own period of online dating. It was a wonderful time of challenges and discoveries. Not only did I become an expert at online dating back then, I figured out how to have fun while doing it. And it led me to meet and marry my late husband.

As a widow, I have a new level of understanding about dating after loss. Widows (and widowers) tell me "all the dating rules have changed". They tell me they wish they could skip the dating part and just find a wonderful relationship. And I know what they mean. The good news is - my clients and I have discovered there are many safe and proactive ways to re-enter the dating world. And I'm here to tell you, they really do work!