ASBURY FIRST MONDAY READER | SEPTEMBER 22, 2025

CONTENTS: LIVING THE DREAM | THE COLUMBARIUM LIVES | LAMENT AND RELEASE by BISHOP HÉCTOR A BURGOS-NUÑEZ

The Staff Parish Relations Committee is pleased to be able to share significant progress made over the past year.


In 2024, the hard-working Dream Team set out a new framework intended to “inspire meaningful action, encourage thoughtful discernment, and serve as a living document that shapes our ministries for years to come.” The Team wrote: “Dreams alone are not enough—they must be paired with action, commitment, and a shared purpose,” and invited Committees, ministry teams, and staff “to take the next step by developing measurable short- and long-term goals that align with our reaffirmed Values and Guiding Questions.”  


The Dream Team identified eight priorities, driven by the reaffirmed values and carried out through our various areas of ministry. Most of the priorities identified in the Dreams Report relate in part to the SPRC’s work. In particular, the SPRC’s most direct calls to action were (1) Developing a New Priority Focus on Youth, Children/Families, (2) Growing and Engaging the Congregation, and (3) Addressing Expectations and Dependence on Paid Staff. 


In the months following the Report the SPRC, in conjunction with the Senior Minister, undertook a fresh top-to-bottom look at our entire pastoral and lay staffing structure to rethink how it could best be aligned for progress in achieving the Dream priorities. In the background was an understanding, from work of the Finance Committee and Sustainability Task Force, that resources are limited. Additionally, rather than overlap planning work being done by the Community Outreach Center, the SPRC did not include COC staffing in its analysis.


The SPRC developed a complete staff reconfiguration plan to better align people resources with the stated Dream priorities. The general outline of the reconfiguration plan was reviewed with the Governing Board in late Spring and the final detailed plan was formally approved by the Board in September. In connection with the reconfiguration, new positions were created, some positions were eliminated, and revised job descriptions were developed for most existing positions, all within budget parameters. Included among others are an expanded full-time Director of Children and Family Ministries, and reconfigured positions for Director of Nurture and Discipleship, Director of Operations, Operations Manager, and Director of Music Ministry. Job descriptions were approved by the SPRC in September.


To keep focus on the future, the reconfiguration analysis was done without consideration of existing positions or the persons currently filling them. However, when we took the next step of comparing our current staff with the reconfigured structure, we were delighted to find that each current member of our staff fit well within the new framework, and each has been offered a position at least equivalent or better than the one they currently hold. We are truly blessed to have such a talented and hard-working staff. We are excited about the impact toward achievement of our Dreams that each of them will make in the newly aligned positions.


Our work to achieve the Dream vision must continue. To be clear, the job descriptions for each member of our already hard-working staff require more than they can alone fulfill. They will need to prioritize, and their complete success is dependent, in part, on support from volunteers and teams. Each of us in the congregation must do everything in our power to help fill that gap.


Yesterday we held a consecration ceremony for the Columbarium and Memorial Garden, a meaningful addition to Asbury First several decades in the making. Rev. Kathy Thiel presided, leading the ceremony through reflection and prayer.

Of particularly significance was the placement of the first ashes into the columbarium—those of Karen Daniels, a lifelong member of our congregation who passed away this past year. Karen became the first to find rest in this hallowed space, marking the beginning of what will be a lasting legacy for our church community. "...Whether we live or whether we die, we belong to God."

The Columbarium now stands as both a final resting place for those who have lived their lives in the fullness of God and Christ, and as a beautiful comfort to the living—a tangible sign of God's promise of eternal life. This special space on the Asbury First campus will serve our congregation for generations to come, reminding us all that in life and death, we remain in God's care.

This September, the SUS-UNY Episcopal Area entered a holy season of exploration—a time to unlearn, reshape, and reimagine. Through a Spirit-led visioning process, we invite disciples, leaders, and congregations to release what no longer serves, so that our hands and hearts may be open to receive the joy and blessings God is already preparing.


Join me on a movement of release. Place your hands over your heart space. Imagine them holding all the parts of our church—the people and traditions, buildings and budgets, griefs and hopes, pain and praise.


Consider what God may be inviting you to let go.


Lift your hands upward, releasing what no longer serves His purpose.


You may find yourself releasing with one hand while holding on with the other.


That’s okay. Let us notice—and pray.


Pray with me:



Almighty God, Holy One, we admit we have held on too tightly to what we have known. We have desperately gripped to remember and honor the people and traditions of our past. We have clung for comfort, and out of fear. We have grasped so hard, for so long, we can barely imagine what might happen if we let go… And yet, You O God, are faithful. You invite us to let go. Not to take away our past from us, but to offer us a bright and radiant future- a future that is only available to us if our hands are open to receive your good gifts. And so, we ask for your grace and your blessings on this day, as we release those things which weigh us down and hold us back, that we might be ready to receive the abundant blessings you have in store for us. In fear and trepidation—In faith and daring… We pray in Christ’s name. Amen

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1050 East Avenue, Rochester NY, 14607

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