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The Balanced Perspective

July, 2025

Ch-ch-changes

 

Have you ever felt you are being swept up by the tides of change, unsure of where you will land? It's been one of those times of life for me in the last couple of months, between the passing of my mother, then my dog. Add to that spending time with my granddaughters, who are clearly part of a new generation, moving rapidly into the future - one that is not like from whence I came!


I was pondering all of this when I came across the quote "Be curious, not judgmental", mentioned by Ted Lasso in this clip. It's exactly what I believe. I may be in this tidal wave of change, but instead of being caught up in the fear and anxiety of where this is alI leading, I remain curious, riding the wave to wherever it's taking me. And I have found that not only does that attitude help me, but I am, as a result, kinder and more patient with others as well.


May your waves be gentle and may you land on sunny shores!

Be well...

Janet M. Neal

Founder & Queen Bee

 




This Month's Message

(from my blog)



AI & Roy Rogers



I’ve been in situations of late that really bring it home to me that as much as I want to deny my chronological age, that ain’t changing. Besides the physical reminders that I’m not as young as I think I am, there are the situational ones. A few weeks ago, my friend Selina and I decided to be adventurous, and went to the concert of someone we didn’t know. We love music, so where’s the problem? The issue was that we were 7th row center, surrounded by hordes of screaming young women, who stood the whole time, and were recording every movement of the singer. We stood for a while, then got bored and sat, then left. Not our scene. I got my next reminder when I visited my son. He’s the CEO of a manufacturing company that uses 3D printers to create parts for industry. I tried to understand what he was telling me about the technology…but I just don’t get it. And then there are his children…


I gratefully got to spend time with my eldest grandchildren, and am amazed by their command of technology. These are early elementary school age kids, who have taught themselves how to navigate and play computer games that involve other unknown people in the same game with them. At their age I was playing hide and seek. They are literally creating new worlds. I am not only baffled by it, I am a bit terrified.


It would be very easy for me to jump into, and become consumed with, the fear of the unknown – the “What Ifs”. It took some work on my part to take a step back and try to see this from a different perspective. And that is when I remembered pictures of a young me, completely absorbed in a TV show.


When I was a little girl, I would park myself in front of our black and white console TV for hours, taking in The Mickey Mouse Club, Romper Room, Captain Kangaroo, and, my personal favorite, Roy Rogers. Forget Dale Evans – I wanted to be Roy, riding off on adventures! Oh, and don’t forget the Saturday cartoons! That was good for a few hours.


To me, this was all very natural, and I never gave it any thought. I now wonder what my grandparents thought about it, having not grown up with, nor raised their children with this new-fangled technology. I am beginning to surmise they were a bit baffled by the whole thing. Or else I’m just projecting.


Perhaps it has been this way throughout history...


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In Memoriam

Ranger

2019-2025


My beloved companion, best buddy, fierce protector, and all-around beautiful dog has died. To say I am heart-broken is an understatement. But here is the interesting thing to me: I have gotten more sincerely heartbroken condolences from people about this than I did when my mom died a few months ago. It is something I’ve thought about and here is what I’ve noticed:

·     Animals show us unconditional love. Humans try…but it’s complicated

·     Animals touch us at a different level and allow us to grieve more fully

·     Animals get to our soul in a way humans don’t.

·     Animals are capable of bringing out the best in us. They allow us to be fully human: fully loving and caring beings.

·     Because of animals, we can relate to each other without acrimony


Ranger touched a lot of people and I am grateful for all the outpouring of love on his (& my) behalf. May we all strive to connect with the same kindness and love every day.


Janet M. Neal

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