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Because big feelings can roll in like Great Lakes waves—then calm down with support.
Try this quick “LAKE” reset (1–3 minutes):
L — Look: “I see your body is having a hard time.”
A — Air: take 3 slow breaths together (“smell the soup… cool the soup”)
K — Kind words: “You’re safe. I’m here.”
E — Engage: pick a calm-down choice (child chooses)
1-minute calm choices:
Wave Breaths: arms up on inhale, down on exhale (3 times)
Mitten Squeeze: squeeze fists tight → release (5 times)
Wall Push: push the wall for 10 seconds
Turtle Shell: hug yourself tight, then relax (3 times)
Scripts that work:
“It’s okay to feel mad. It’s not okay to hurt.”
“First calm, then we solve.”
- “Do you need help, space, or a hug?”
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