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FridayMusings Monday, June 19, 2023    Helping define Livonia's Quality of Life

Without bias but not without opinion

Spree 73. Celebrating Livonia's Birthday. June 20-25.

On Wednesday Musings will bring you an update on Spree activities

But today we are dedicating Musings to the first ever Livonia Pride Day

Sing Out Detroit

Pride Day Organizing committee

Livonia School Trustee Liz Jarvis summed up the first Livonia Pride Day Celebration calling the gathering "an incredible morning! Such a supportive group of people, taking pride in our city, pride in its people."


And that it was as 300+ friends, neighbors, and new acquaintances took time to showcase Livonia and in the words of Mayor Maureen Brosnan as a welcoming city. Add to the large crowd mingling between 20 informational booths there was Music from Sing Out Detroit and comments shared by a number of community leaders thanking folks for making this day possible with applause returning the thanks to the Livonia Human Relations Commission and Livonia Democratic Club for starting what will inevitably become an annual celebration of Pride.

Elected officials were standing in support of equality: Mayor Maureen Miller Brosnan, Clerk Susan Malone Nash, Councilmen Brandon McCullough, and Jim Jolly. Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib, Representatives Laurie Pohutsky, and Matt Koleszar, and former Representative Lyn Bankes were greeting and being greeted by an appreciative crowd. Livonia school Trustee Liz Jarvis and Clarenceville Trustee Dennis Myers added to the support for this Pride Day Celebration.


Three city candidates Lori Miller running for Clerk, Robb Drzewicki, and Carrie Budzinski seeking a seat on the city council were there helping out and letting those gathering know of their support for an inclusive hometown.


Picture credits to a number of people including Daniel Budzinski

Livonia's Pride Day celebrates LGBTQ+ culture, achievements and activism

As Livonia becomes more racially and ethnically diverse, and as we grapple with how to build a hometown that reflects these changing demographics, Livonians have a complicated set of views about the impact of diversity and the best way to achieve it. Most say it’s good that our hometown has a diverse population, but many also say this introduces its own challenges. And while a majority values community diversity, few understand just how to take race, ethnicity, age, or sexual orientation into consideration in moving Livonia forward in accepting the changes that need to be considered.


(pictured above: Kate Shishkovsky, Pres. Livonia Democratic Club, Former State Rep. Lyn Bankes (R-Livonia), Mayor Brosnan)


Canton, a growing community, hosts an annual Pride Day Celebration and has for several years. They have had an ethnic festival to embrace the multitude of ethnic cultures of new residents and this year hosted a Juneteenth day as a part of their Liberty Fest.


Elected officials in this Livonia neighbor embrace and stay ahead of the changes taking place. A template that Livonia needs to follow. Just as other towns modeled themselves after the progressive ideas of Livonia in the 70's, 80's and 90's, like a library, open spaces and recreational programs we now should look to other models for community diversity.


One part of the template is a Non-Discrimination Ordinance. Nearly 60 other communities in Michigan including Canton already have an NDO. Livonia introduced an NDO over a year ago but it was not able to generate votes on the City Council, with only Councilmen Jim Jolly and Brandon McCullough offering their support.


The Pride Day Celebration offered an opportunity for our elected officials and candidates to meet and have discussions with those attending who want to be a part of the change taking place in Livonia. A sense of welcoming and belonging.


Livonia officials/candidates attending Pride Day


Elected officials and candidates taking advantage of meeting, talking, and learning included Mayor Brosnan, Clerk Nash, Councilmen Jolly and McCullough, and council candidates Drzewicki, and Budzinski, along with Clerk candidate Lori Miller.


One candidate, Jim Baringhaus, notified folks that he and his family had a Baptism scheduled at the same time. Understood.


Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib, State Representatives Laurie Pohutsky, and Matt Koleszar circulated, meeting dozens of residents, answering and asking questions.


Candidates missing Pride Day


This would have been a perfect time for Councilman Scott Morgan and Councilwoman Kathleen McIntyre to engage people and learn about folks, many of whom support an NDO, to get to understand their perspective.


A learning experience for Scott Morgan who during the 2022 campaign endorsed Tudor Dixon suggesting that she is what Michigan needed. Dixon, was described in 2022 publications as identifying with those who believe that LGBTQ+ are by definition sexual predators or that providing compassion to trans children is morally depraved.


Morgan could have sat and talked, learned from parents, straight and gay, and started understanding the issues that are at the forefront of making and keeping Livonia a welcoming community, as one older gentleman said to the bodyguard, "I have lived in Livonia for 30 years and have never felt as welcomed as today."


Dialogue and discussion between people on opposite sides of an issue are good for the soul of the community.


Kathleen McIntyre who opposed an NDO when it was brought up by Mayor Brosnan, would have found a wealth of knowledge in talking with many of those attending. She could have set and talked, learning about the strong belief of many in support of the NDO. Or in fully explaining her perspective so that others understand how she arrived at her position.


Dialogue and discussion between people on opposite sides of an issue are good for the soul of the community.


There were three churches setting up booths, and talking with participants. Scott Bahr who is a man with strong faith beliefs and who is comfortable in his own skin would have, as a hometown leader, shared his faith with those churches participating. They would have learned and hopefully, he would have benefited from understanding why some are in support of LBGTQ+ and they would have benefited from understanding his perspective.


Dialogue and discussion between people on opposite

sides of an issue are good for the soul of the community.


Martha Ptashnik who lost a race for State Representative against Laurie Pohutsky was aligned during that campaign with organizations fighting to repeal the Affordable Care Act. Her position was it to be adopted would have left Michiganders with pre-existing conditions at risk of losing coverage, and would have left at the time 1.2 million without coverage.


She would have found any number of people in attendance to discuss her position on healthcare, a significant issue within the LBGTQ+ community.


Dialogue and discussion between people on opposite

sides of an issue are good for the soul of the community.


Lynda Scheel running for City Clerk would have benefited from talking to two of our State Representatives, Koleszar and Pohutsky regarding the new bills on election legislation, sharing her view, and gathering information about the changes coming down the road for the job she is seeking.


Dialogue and discussion between people on opposite

sides of an issue are good for the soul of the community.


Pride Day brought people together in a loving, respectful way. Think what it would have been had we had a full house of hometown leaders sharing ideas and opening up discussion between disparate ideas and people.


We all understand the busy schedules that our elected officials have but in the case of this Pride event, there have been several months since it was first announced leaving plenty of time to arrange schedules or help promote the gathering. I am sorry that not all attended this historic event in Livonia and that not all helped promote the first ever Livonia Pride Day.


I am happy that those who did attend were able to have dialogue and discussion showcasing Livonia as a welcoming hometown..

Let's take the next step and adopt an NDO

FridayMusings asks all our candidates seeking election in November to support an NDO.


A non-discrimination ordinance would extend protections for LGBTQ+ community members, among other protected classes, in real estate transactions, housing, employment and public accommodations citywide. Nearly 60 other Michigan municipalities have already adopted non-discrimination ordinances.


“Diversity, equity, and inclusion are not just values our community holds, rather, they are priorities that Livonia residents have come together to ask us to advance in real ways,” said Livonia Mayor Maureen Miller Brosnan. “A non-discrimination ordinance will help us build on our work in transparency and accountability that Livonia residents and community members expect from their City government.”


Mayor Brosnan has proposed a non-discrimination ordinance, drafted in partnership with the Livonia Human Relations Commission and the City’s Law and Police Departments, for adoption by the Livonia City Council.


The proposed ordinance builds on existing language from the City’s code of ordinances, centralizing the responsibility for receiving and reviewing discrimination complaints within the City’s Law Department.


FridayMusings will be asking and will share the opinions of all candidates seeking office this November on equality, diversity and the NDO.

Three words summed up the day. Celebrate. Livonia. Pride.

Carrie Budzinski, Brandon McCullough, Laurie Pohutsky

Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib

Judy Puhl shared that "It was a simply amazing day. This was one of the dozens of messages collected from visitors to the LEARN table. It made my heart so full!"

Clerk Susan Malone Nash, Representative Laure Pohutsky and her soon to be step son--she is getting married in December

Clarenceville School Trustee Dennis Myers and daughter Riley Ann.

Mayor Maureen Miller Brosnan, Chuck Dardas and Eric Ladwig

Moms Demand Action info booth

Livonia Democratic Club Info Booth

Anastasia and Katie's snack booth

Livonia Kids and Families with supporter Robb Drzewicki

Unitarian Church

PFLAG Livonia

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What motivates FridayMusings:

We can't only define Livonia as taking small steps toward maintaining the way things were. That will give us mediocre outcomes. Our goal needs to be innovative and transformative.

Our Livonia Library is more important than ever

School is out and summer reading is in full swing! These are just a few of the dedicated readers who have Already completed the Summer Reading Challenge at least once!

All ages can stop by a branch of the library or visit livonialibrary.beanstack.org to get signed up for Summer Reading, and check out the library calendar for the variety of programs they have going on all summer long.

Representative Stephanie Young invites you to a fundraiser June 23rd