Billy DeFrank November 2026 Newsletter

Our Billy DeFrank Rainbow Crosswalk is back!

Some official photos: Assemblymembers, Patrick Ahrens, Ash Kalra and Alex Lee's Certificate of Recognition, & Steve Kline representing Supervisor

Susan Ellenberg.


Below we have Mayor Matt Mahan & our CM Michael Mulcahy Ribbon Cutting, and CM Dave Cohen and Vice Mayor Pam Foley doing the Abbey Road Walk.

More in the next Newsletter

Donate

Click below to make a donation to the Center. 

We are a 501(c)(3)

Gayme Night at Billy DeFrank is adding Mahjong

Monday Nights at

6PM - 9PM

Starting

Monday November 9th

Operating Status

The Billy DeFrank LGBTQ+ Community Center

938 The Alameda,

San Jose, CA 95126

www.defrank.org

Latin Night at Mexico Lindo 3rd Sunday of the Month

Trans Latino

November 15th

8PM - 1:30AM

karaoke, entertainment, dancing


For more information please email: Fabulous@defrank.org

We come together to honor the lives of transgender and gender-diverse individuals lost to violence and to affirm that their memories continue to light our path forward.


Friday, November 20th

5PM to 8PM,

6 PM Program Start


The Chapel -

1137 Hanchett Ave,

San Jose


RSVP: tinyurl.com/SCCTDOR2026


Why Transgenday Day of Remembrance?

https://glaad.org/tdor/


What started as a local vigil in Boston and San Francisco has grown into an international day of action recognized across dozens of countries.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/fc6C4tmoSQ4

The Billy DeFrank Center Honoring

Judy Grahn

Poet, activist, and scholar Judy Grahn was born in Chicago and grew up in New Mexico. She joined the Air Force but was discharged at 21 for being openly gay. A central member of the West Coast feminist poetry movement of the 1970s, Grahn received a PhD from the California Institute of Integral Studies. 


Judy Grahn is coming to the Billy DeFrank Center

Free Event: Sunday, 
November 8th, 2pm - 4pm


Judy will talk about what it was like to be a lesbian in the 1970's and 80's - this will be a taste of herstory for young queer women and nostalia for the older folks.


Julie Enszer of Sinister Wisdom recently published an updated version of her 1985 book The Highest Apple: Sappho and the Lesbian Poetic Tradition. She may read from that and a bit of earlier work too.


If you want to help organize this event with one of our amazing authors/activists

please email: Fabulous@defrank.org

QUEER Singles Mingle

Sunday, November 8th,

7PM - 9PM

at Mexico Lindo,

11 Race Street, San Jose

A Conference with

Julia Serano

in collaboration with

the Billy DeFrank Center & Santa Clara University

This is a timely conference to address what is really happening regarding the attacks against Trans/LGBTQ+ folks, the history behind it, & what we can do now.



Saturday, December 6th

2pm - 5pm

Help us, volunteer, and if you have questions please email: Fabulous@defrank.org

After Julia Serano's Keynote we will break into three workshops (see the topics below) and rotate, so that everyone will participate in all three works shops.


After the workshoips we will come back together to report back to each other with possible action items and a resolve to support each other more.

The Billy DeFrank Center Community Potluck is on Thanksgiving Day Thursday, November 26th, NOON - 3PM

Rainbow Bingo Every Wednesday

Halloween, Día de los Muertos, Bingo was a blast!!


RAINBOW BINGO

Every Wednesday

At the Billy DeFrank Center

Entrance is at the back of the parking lot


Gate opens at 6:15pm

Games start at 7pm


$15 - initial buy-in (for 10 games)

$5 - each additional pack

$2 - single sheets



All proceeds from this event benefit the Billy DeFrank Center

Win door Prizes, Win Games, Win at Cherry Bells

AND BEST OF ALL:

Win Friends EVERY WEDNESDAY at Rainbow Bingo

What's Up at Billy DeFrank

Billy DeFrank Center

Activities and Discussion Groups

are coordinated by peer facilitators and volunteers.

Thank you for keeping the activities and groups going:

www.defrank.org



If you are interested in facilitating a group or activity

please email: Fabulous@defrank.org

Volunteering at the Billy DeFrank Center

Volunteers are Us!

The Billy DeFrank Center is 100% Volunteer-run. That means, when we are open, we run the front desk to greet people, direct them to the activities and groups, answer questions, answer the phone (usually people are looking for resources, and what's happening at the Center). We vacuum, clean, dust, and make the place feel fabulous.

To Volunteer visit the Billy DeFrank Center Website: https://www.defrankcenter.org/volunteer

Volunteers are interviewed, sign policies/procedures & join the team.

Want Information, or Interested in Quitting Smoking/Vaping?

For the downloadable information LGBTQ+ Tobacco Issues, please go to: https://www.defrankcenter.org/3-news/newsflash/1076-documentorme-documentaries or email Fabulous@defrank.org


All LGBTQ Tobacco work done via the Billy DeFrank Center

is funded by Breathe California

Secondhand Smoke Helpline

Call: 408 999 0500


For the Ash Kickers Quit Smoking/Vaping Services go to:

https://lungsrus.org/quit-smoking-services/

Thank you to our Sponsors

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


 
 

 
 
 
 
 
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THE BILLY DEFRANK LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY CENTER | www.defrank.org