Thursday, December 1, 2022

Friends,

 

We’re about to finish the first week of Advent and celebrate the Second Sunday of Advent this upcoming Sunday. Our Mass readings give us an image of what Advent – and what our faith as a whole – is all about:

 

God always exceeds our expectations. 

 

Has this happened to you recently? Like you thought you were going to fail that environmental science test but you actually did way better than you expected? Or you and your teammates finally executed a play to perfection after you thought you’d never get it? Or you thought Thanksgiving was going to be entirely awkward or frustrating but you experienced a moment of true gratitude? 

 

Even if you can’t think of a moment like that, that’s what this Advent season is here for. It’s here to prepare us to experience that earth-shattering truth: God always exceeds our expectations. 

 

The ancient Jewish people expected a Messiah – an “anointed one of God” who was going to unite the tribes of Israel and serve as the King and Deliverer of Israel. But what the world experienced was far greater than that expectation. No one could EVER have expected that God would choose to be born in this world, in human flesh, as a helpless baby, in an obscure little town south of Jerusalem. 

 

When God comes, our expectations are turned upside down. 

 

In the First Reading at Mass, the prophet Isaiah speaks about a very unique figure: “The spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him: a spirit of wisdom and of understanding, a spirit of counsel and of strength, a spirit of knowledge and of fear of the Lord…" (Isaiah 11:2). And when that figure comes into the world, Isaiah writes, our expectations will be flipped on their heads. He uses some powerful imagery to make this point: 

 

“Then the wolf shall be a guest of the lamb,

and the leopard shall lie down with the kid (baby goat);

the calf and the young lion shall browse together,

with a little child to guide them.

The cow and the bear shall be neighbors,

together their young shall rest;

the lion shall eat hay like the ox.

The baby shall play by the cobra’s den,

and the child lay his hands on the adder’s (viper’s) lair…” (Isaiah 11:6-8)

 

We know that in the animal kingdom, all of this is unthinkable. We know that wolves and lambs don’t hang out together, children don’t guide lions, lions don’t eat hay like oxen, and snakes would harm a baby if they were near one another. But when Jesus comes – that is, when God chooses to enter into this world and become one of us – crazy things happen. 

 

Now, those images from Isaiah haven’t literally happened. Isaiah is also speaking ahead to “God’s holy mountain” – an image of heaven, where “there shall be no harm or ruin.” But even on this side of heaven – here on earth, where things are complicated, dangerous, depressing, difficult – even here and now God is flipping and exceeding our expectations. 

 

Advent is a time to step back from the ordinary, day-to-day parts of our lives and recognize that Jesus is present even in those unremarkable, day-to-day moments. 

 

“I couldn’t possibly find Jesus in my school. It’s just so toxic there.” 

 

“God isn’t relevant to PlayStation or college football or Netflix.”

 

“Mass isn’t for me because I haven’t really gotten anything from it.”

 

“God wants nothing to do with me because I’m not really active in my faith.”

 

“I’m just too messed up and broken for God to love me.”

 

If Advent and Christmas teach us anything… it’s that God comes exactly where we DON’T expect Him. Take this time of Advent to start ACTUALLY looking for God in every moment of your day. If you think that God is confined to the Church of St. Mary or that God is only interested in “perfect people” or that God is angry with you because of something you did… allow God to flip those expectations. 

 

Jesus was born in a feeding tray for animals. The God of the whole universe CHOSE to be born into our world. The Lord of heaven chose to be born in literal dirt and hay for us. Who are we to say that God can’t exceed our expectations? Who are we to think that God couldn’t possibly want anything to do with us? Every day this Advent, let Jesus exceed your expectations. Ask God to surprise you. Ask God to be born in your heart. 

 

Come to COR this Sunday to start this new Advent journey. We’ll have some food, games, and a chance to create your own “Advent Game Plan” to help you truly prepare for Christmas. I hope you can join us!


More in this newsletter: 

  • Candlelight Adoration -- December 9
  • Christmas Party!!
  • COR Christmas Movie Poll
  • Advent playlist!

 

In Christ,

 

Chase Hawkins


Director of Youth Ministry

847-582-2503

chawkins@churchofstmary.org

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COR Christmas Movie Night!!

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join us at COR this Sunday for

food, fun, & reflection on Advent!

Getting ready for Christmas is more than just putting together a wish list or buying the right gift for a friend or dusting off the old Christmas sweaters...


Advent is the season in the church where we prepare our hearts to celebrate Jesus' birth in our world and to receive God's presence in our own hearts.


So, how can we prepare ourselves for Christmas spiritually?


Come to COR on December 4 as we talk about how we can make the most of Advent before Christmas comes!


Invite a friend for this fun and reflective COR Night!

COR is hosting a Candlelight Adoration for high schoolers and all other members of the St. Mary's/Lake Forest communities! Come to the Church of St. Mary on Friday, December 9 for an hour of Eucharistic Adoration by candlelight. The lights will be dimmed and the whole church will be lit up with candles!


We'll have opportunities for quiet prayer, praise and worship songs, and the chance to light your own candle for a prayer intention. Afterwards, we'll have hot chocolate and cookies in the Parish Community Room (downstairs in the church). Come take a break from finals studying and enjoy this beautiful night of candlelight adoration!


If any high schoolers are interested in helping set up and light the candles, please email Chase at chawkins@churchofstmary.org.

Song of the Week

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"O Day of Peace"

Josh Garrels


"O day of peace that dimly shines

Through all our hopes and prayers and dreams,

Guide us to justice, truth, and love,

Delivered from our selfish schemes.


May the swords of hate fall from our hands,

Our hearts from envy find release,

Till by God's grace our warring world

Shall see Christ's promised reign of peace.


Then shall the wolf dwell with the lamb,

Nor shall the fierce devour the small;

As beasts and cattle calmly graze,

A little child shall lead them all.


Then enemies shall learn to love,

All creatures find their true accord;

The hope of peace shall be fulfilled,

For all the earth shall know the Lord."


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Prayer for the Week

Jesus,


You are Emmanuel, "God-with-us."

This Advent, help us to know deep in our souls that You are truly with us.


May we lay aside our own narrow expectations,

and allow You to surprise us in small and great ways.


Because we know that You are the One

Who exceeds all of our expectations.


Stay close to us, Jesus.


Amen.

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