February 19, 2026 • ב' אדר תשפ״ו

From the Desk of the Executive Vice President

IN THIS WEEK'S EMAIL

RCA Updates

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In Our RCA Family

RCA-Barkai Exchange Program
Chomer Lidrush

Manning the Media


RCA Updates

1) Upcoming Affinity Group Meeting:


TODAY

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2) 60 Years of Nostra Aetate


Thank you to our chaver and RCA EVP Emeritus Mark Dratch for attending the IJCIC-CRRJ Meeting Nosra Aetate at Sixty: Confrontation, Relationship, Hope on behalf of the RCA, along with our chaveirim Arie Folger and Joseph Kanofsky. Rabbi Dratch's notes from this important event can be found here.

See below for more details, pictures, and a recording.

3) See below for information about a valuable new book by Chevrah Lomdei Mishnah entitled Forever in Our Hearts. It is the latest offering from this special organization helping Jews through loss. This volume is worthwhile for rabbanim to read and important to consider recommending to families facing the loss of a child of any age. I learned a lot by reading it - and you will too.



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A unique book for bereaved parents, grandparents, and their families and friends


Read It. Share It. Gain Newfound Understanding and Valuable Tools.

Forever in Our Hearts does a masterful job of exploring the grief journey and the many challenges parents might face as they grapple with the loss of their child. Based on extensive interviews with bereaved parents and professionals.


Support congregants in finding comfort, encouragement, reassurance and hope.


Includes:


· The grieving process and related emotions

· Changing relationships

· Grief around the year

· Practical suggestions and tools

· Halachos and minhagim

· Aliyas neshamah ideas


Bonus: 40+ page journal of a bereaved father


Recommended by:


Rav Sholom Kamenetsky, shlita. Rosh Yeshivah, Philadelphia Yeshivah

Rav Shmuel Fuerst, shlita, Rav, Agudas Yisrael Peterson Park, Chicago

Rabbi Dr. Dovid Fox, Rabbi Simcha Scholar and Rabbi Sruli Fried of ChaiLifeline

Dr. Norman Blumenthal of OHEL

Mrs. Chumi Friedman of ATIME/HUG


Visit www.ChevrahLomdeiMishnah.org or call 732-364-7029 to order your copy today.


Chevrah Lomdei Mishnah offers a variety of Mishnah and Gemara study options, as well as Kaddish and Yizkor recital, l’iluy nishmas. We also provide support and encouragement to those navigating the challenges of loss and grief through an array of publications and other resources.

In Our RCA Family


  • Mazel Tov to our chaver Pinny and Marie Beth Rosenthal on the birth of twin grandchildren, born to their children Zechariah and Elyanna Rosenthal

RCA-Barkai Exchange Program:

Building Bridges Between American and Israeli Communities

In the summer of 2019, Rabbis Chaim Strauchler, Reuven Tradburks, and David Fine began planning an innovative exchange program between the Rabbinical Council of America and Barkai—the Center for Practical Rabbinics and Community Development in Israel. The vision was to create meaningful connections between North American and Israeli rabbis and their communities through mutual visits, shared learning, and collaborative programming.


In the summer of 2019, Rabbis Chaim Strauchler, Reuven Tradburks, and David Fine began planning an innovative exchange program between the Rabbinical Council of America and Barkai—the Center for Practical Rabbinics and Community Development in Israel. The vision was to create meaningful connections between North American and Israeli rabbis and their communities through mutual visits, shared learning, and collaborative programming.


The program launched in January 2020 when seven RCA rabbis traveled to Israel for a one-day conference with their Israeli counterparts, followed by Shabbat as scholars-in-residence in Israeli communities. The Israeli rabbis were scheduled to reciprocate at the spring RCA convention but the outbreak of Covid prevented that.


Last year, in the midst of Israel’s ongoing war, it decided it was time to try again. In May 2025, six Barkai rabbis attended the RCA convention in Suffern, New York, where they were matched with American counterparts. On the Shabbatot surrounding the convention Behar-Bechukotai, the Israeli rabbis served as scholars-in-residence in their partners’ communities. This fall and winter, the American rabbis are completing their reciprocal visits to Israel, spending Shabbat in their Israeli counterparts’ communities.


To date, more than 103 Israeli rabbis from throughout the Israel have completed Barkai’s rigorous two-year training program, which trains them in a plethora of pastoral skills as well as community development and leadership. Through this exchange, American rabbis witness firsthand how these tools are deployed in Israeli communities, while Israeli rabbis gain insight into the dynamics, strengths, and challenges of American synagogue life.


The goal of the program extends beyond professional development. At its heart is a desire to deepen the bonds between Israeli and American Jewish communities at both the individual and communal levels. Especially now amid war in Israel and rising antisemitism worldwide strengthening these connections is more critical than ever.

The participating rabbis are Rabbi Chaim Strauchler of Congregation Rinat Yisrael in Teaneck, NJ and Rabbi Moshe Bloom of Congregation Netzach Shlomo in Petach Tikva.

Rabbi Josh Hess of the Young Israel of East Brunswick, NJ and Rabbi Yossi Weisberg of Congregation Zechor Le’Avraham, Givat Mordechai Jerusalem


Rabbi Michael Davies of Congregation Sons of Israel, Cherry Hill, NJ and Rabbi Yuval Mitelman of Yeshurun Central Synagogue in Gedera

Rabbi Wes Kalmar of Anshe Sfard Kehillat Torah, Milwaukee, WI, and Rabbi Rashi Tvito, Kfar HaOranim

Rabbi Zev Goldberg of Bais Medrash of Bergenfield and Rabbi Yossi Chazan of Beit Yatir

Rabbi Etan Mintz of Congregation B’nai Israel, Baltimore and Rabbi Shmuel Avraham of Kehilat Sephardi Dati Leumi in Petach Tikva

Moments from the Exchange

This exchange is not merely a program - it is a living bridge between communities, built on shared Torah, shared responsibility, and shared destiny.


Chomer Lidrush

Some ideas to turn your gears heading into the parsha.

1) Atzei Shitim - Something to Remind Us


In our parsha, we are commanded to build the Mishkan out of “Atzei Shittim”. Quoting the Midrash, Rashi explains that acacia wood was available thanks to the foresight of Yaakov Avinu, who planted these trees in Mitzrayim, knowing they would be taken by his descendants on their way out of bondage.


Why not plant them somewhere out of Egypt? Why not leave these trees further in the Midbar? Why did Yaakov feel the need to plant them specifically in Mitzrayim?


R. Yaakov Kaminetzky (Emes LaYaakov) explains that Yaakov Avinu wanted Bnei Yisrael to have more than just the promise of “Pakod Pakaditi” to hold onto in Egypt. He wanted them to look up and see a forest he planted, and be instantly reminded that this was done in order to fulfill a mitzvah that would only be commanded in the future. Yes, the trees could have been planted out of sight, much further along the road of redemption. But then they would never be such a poignant reminder to the Jewish People that they could make it out of their galus.


Every time a Mitzri asked about the trees, Bnei Yisrael would repeat the promise: "pakod yifkod Elokim etchem". The trees were a living, breathing act of faith across generations. And the Torah's phrasing confirms this: atzei shitim omdin — the Gemara (Yoma 72a) reads omdin not merely as "upright" but as standing forever, l'olam ul'olmei olamim.


The derasha writes itself: What are your community's atzei shitim? What rooted commitments – be them Shabbos, Torah learning, acts of chesed – keep your families standing upright even when the surrounding culture pulls downward?


2) Holding Up the Mishkan - and the Klal


Rabbi Moshe Price (Mizekeinim Esbonan) suggests a striking distinction in the structure of the Mishkan, based on the Chiddushei Chasam Sofer al haTorah. The walls as complete units were enormously heavy, far beyond what the connecting bars alone could plausibly support. Their very standing together points to something miraculous. This becomes a metaphor for the existence of the Jewish people as a nation. Our collective survival through history, despite overwhelming forces, rests on Divine intervention. The fact that the “walls” of the people remain standing is itself a neis.


In contrast, the connection between one beam and the next involved multiple sockets, rings, and joining mechanisms. These were smaller, more practical engineering solutions. Symbolically, Rabbi Price explains that maintaining unity between individuals is far more difficult than sustaining national existence. Jewish continuity as a people is guaranteed by Hashem’s promise, but harmony between person and person is not. That requires effort, structure, and repeated acts of connection.


The message is that while we rely on miracles for the survival of כלל ישראל, we cannot rely on miracles for שלום בין אדם לחברו. For interpersonal relationships, Hashem provides tools and opportunities, but human beings must do the work. Unity at the national level is Divinely sustained; unity at the personal level is a human responsibility that demands conscious investment.


This week, at the yearly Israel mission of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, I, along with our president Etan Tokayer, heard Israeli leader after leader assure us that The Jewish People – and the State of Israel, would outlast its many enemies – and there are many of them. What they feared was internal machloket – especially in Israel – tearing the people apart. An NGO named “The Fourth Quarter” noted that the years 75-100 brought rupture and civil war to our first and second kingdoms. We must bring all segments of our people together in conversation before the house caves in.


3) The Shul is Us, Or: There is No Shul (Shiur or Derasha)


Repeating an idea from last year – one that’s still quite usable.


If you look at the description of the building of the Mishkan, you might notice that there were no walls – there were adonim and vavei amudim and kerashim, but all that just made it seem like there were walls. As a mobile sanctuary, the Mishkan could not have had walls!


This gets interesting when you consider the Ramban’s comments in his introduction to Shemos: the Mishkan was to function as a sort of mobile Har Sinai experience (he lists the many similarities between the two). If the function of the Mishkan was to carry the experience of Matan Torah with the people, then where was the stage? Where was the Har in the Mishkan?


The Meshech Chochmah in Parshas Yisro notes that kedusha cannot descend into an open space; for kedusha to come into the world, there must be boundaries, the space must be enclosed. At Har Sinai, the people themselves were the boundary (v’higbalta es ha’am saviv) – the Nation were the walls.


When the kerashim were inserted into the adanim, it would almost seem like people standing shoulder to shoulder with one another; in fact, this is where the contribution of each individual went! The “walls” were a representation of the people – the Nation were the walls.


If this is true of the Mishkan, then it is true of our shuls as well. Our places of holiness appear to have walls, but really, the structure is us. (The shul is not the building, the electrical sockets or the pews; the shul is the minyan, the mispallelim, etc.)


Additional sources: Rav Schachter shlita quoting the Rav and this piece in Mesoras HaRav Chumash.


3) See [the rest of] Last Year’s Chomer Here.


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Mishloach Manot: Connect Your Kehilla to Our Soldiers this Purim

Connect Your Kehilla to Our Soldiers This Purim



Dear Chevrei HaRabbanim,


As we approach Purim, the joy of the chag is tempered by the reality of our brethren on the front lines. Now, more than ever, our soldiers need to feel the embrace of Klal Yisrael.


Connections Israel invites your shul to perform a meaningful act of Ahavat Yisrael and Hakarat Hatov. Through our Purim Project, your community can send Mishloach Manot directly to IDF Lone Soldiers and units protecting our borders.


This is not just a donation; it is a personal connection. Your kehilla can adopt a specific unitincluding the unit of a soldier you know, ensuring your support goes directly to the soldiers you choose. We encourage your congregants and students to write letters, bridging the distance between North America and Eretz Yisroel.


To share the impact, we will document the delivery and produce a personalized video for your community, sent in time for a powerful Yom Haatzmaut screening.


Let us unite in the mitzvah of Mishloach Manot and show our giborim that they are never alone.


www.connectionsisrael.com/purim


B’virkat Purim Sameach, Connections Israel


Manning the Media

Revisiting the idea of a place – be it a shul or some other kind of “temple” – and what can make it special:


profile of Mikvé Israel-Emanuel in Willemstad, Curaçao, one of the most important places of worship in the Caribbean. It may not look the same as ours, but there’s more similarities than differences – and that’s incredible.


And for that “other kind of temple”: this 1999 Boston Globe profile of Fenway Park shows a different kind of “sacred space”, but maybe teaches us something about appreciating the places we make important in our lives.


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60 YEARS OF NOSTRA AETATE

A Conference was held this past week in Jerusalem to mark 60 Years of Nostra Aetate. The conference was a joint conference chaired by Rabbi Mark Dratch, our RCA VP emeritus, in his position as Chairman of IJCIC, the International Jewish Committee for Interreligious Consultations and Cardinal Kurt Koch, President of the Vatican Commission for Religious Relations with the Jews. Rabbis Arie Folger and Joseph Kanofsky attended as RCA representatives.

Besides the many sessions addressing substantive issues that took place over the days of the conference there was an open session to the public, attended by a number of RCA Israel Region members. Both chairmen gave keynote addresses, Cardinal Koch focusing on the history of positions the Vatican has taken over the past 60 years in relationship to the Jews. Rabbi Dratch followed with a tour de force, outlining the historic changes the Vatican has made in its relationship with the Jews, but also addressing directly the disappointments following October 7. His remarks are attached.


Thank you to Rabbi Dratch for his leadership in this historic engagement and to Rabbis Folger and Kanofsky for acting as our RCA representatives to IJCIC.

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