Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

According to Wikipedia… Social conditioning is “the process by which societal norms, values, and beliefs are internalized by individuals through interactions with their environment, shaping their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.” It's a subtle but powerful influence that shapes our perceptions—of ourselves, the world, and our place in it. Via social conditioning we learn how to hide our true selves from others, for fear of being found “unacceptable.”

The problem is, hiding our true selves can be a hindrance to the transforming power of the Holy Spirit and the building up of community.

Currently, a small group of women at CPC are reading the book, The Gifts of Imperfection” by Brené Brown. Discussions center around social issues of vulnerability in a society that teaches self-sufficiency at all costs. Yet, it is by practicing vulnerability that we develop deep, genuine relationships that accept us for who we truly are—warts and all. Such relationships are essential to human thriving. (And once again, we have yet another instance where modern science is catching up to what the Bible already knows!)

In any genuine relationship we can expect to see the good, the bad, and ugly. The Gospels clearly demonstrate that this is so! 

In Mark 8, Peter is rebuked by Jesus for trying to take control. In Matthew 20 James and John manipulate their mother into asking Jesus to exalt them over the other disciples. In Luke 22, Judas betrays Jesus after spending three years under his care. And in John 20, we read the story of an angry, “doubting” Thomas. Clearly in their relationship with Jesus the disciples were accepted and loved, warts and all.

The same is true for us. As Christ’s church it is imperative that we not be “pretenders” who have it all figured out, but inquisitive, vulnerable disciples of Jesus. It is essential that we accept our own weaknesses and limitations, as well as accepting them in others. This is how true community is built… the kind of community that challenges us to grow and change for the better, while also transforming our world!

Church Hiking Group – LAURELWOOD ARBORETUM

Our next hike is scheduled for SATURDAY APRIL 19th, and since Spring is finally upon us we are going to return to Laurelwood Arboretum in Wayne, where we should enjoy their spring flowers. This will be an easy stroll (we have to stop and look at the flowers!) which is suitable for everyone, so please come and join us!

It may be Easter weekend, but all the more reason to get out and enjoy nature! Weather permitting, we will meet, as usual, at 8.00 am in the church parking lot. 

Any questions or suggestions, please call or text Colin at 201-741-6090

Community Youth - upcoming events

April 6th - Youth meeting during worship 

April 13th - Set up Spring UP! Planting Event and join-in with the event

April 18th - Set up and Lead The Path to Easter - 9:30 - 11:30 with lunch following! (12 - 1:30)

Calling all graduates! 

Please reach out to Tracy if you are, or know of, a member of our church graduating from Pre-school, Kindergarten, 8th grade, HS, Vocational or Trade School, College or Grad School. Send me an email with your/their name and graduating level. We want to acknowledge all of our graduates!  

Plastic Film Collection

We are presently 33% on our way to collecting 1000 pounds of plastic film for a free Trex bench for the memorial garden. Collections are made from the side of the church and the Ringwood Public Library periodically.

 Many thanks to those involved including the Arnells, the Romaines, Claire Mingalone and Robin Canetti.  

If the current trend continues we should have a new bench by summer.

Presbytery Videos

Videos are now available. You can find them HERE.

Did you know that you can find all the videos from Presbytery workshops, meetings and other events on our webpage? The last few years of videos are available for viewing. Click on the picture for the videos.