Who Did You Thank Today?
'Tis The Season For...Your Job Search
If you’ve been looking for a new position for even just a short time, the ups and downs of the job search roller coaster can start to take a toll. It’s taking longer than you thought, you’re overwhelmed by everything you need to do for a successful job search and, on any given day, there seem to be more downs than ups.

You know you need to stay positive and remain engaged, but how?

·      Focus on the process, not that ultimate goal of a “job offer.” Ask yourself the question “What am I doing today to get myself one step closer to a new position?” Put together an action plan, and more importantly set realistic weekly goals. Schedule these on your calendar the way you would a doctor appointment or dinner with a friend. It’s better to list 5 goals you want to achieve this week, and complete them all and maybe more, than to create a large list that may be paralyzing. If you achieve those 5 goals by Wednesday, keep going!

·      Celebrate all successes, no matter how small. Baseball is the perfect example of celebrating successes, not failures. If I get on base 1 out of 3 times, my batting average is 333, which is really good. The focus is on what WAS achieved, not what wasn’t. So, start counting all the things you’ve accomplished, from the 5 former colleagues you connected with on LinkedIn, to the focused hours you spent refining and updating your resume to the person you reached out to for an informational interview. Just the act of asking for that informational interview can be counted as a success.

·      Applaud your strengths, rather than bemoaning your weaknesses. Our strengths come naturally to us; they are our “gifts.” As a result we may not value them as much; others however will. In fact, an employer is going to hire you for those very strengths, as well as the skills you’ve developed over time.

·      Taking time off is also important. We don’t work 7 days a week for weeks on end, so make sure to give yourself permission to take time off from your search. You can still check your email once or twice a day but allowing yourself to take that much needed break can make you more productive when you get back to your search.

·      Recognize people who have helped you. As lonely as a job search may sometimes feel, there are plenty of people who are supporting you during this process. Not just the former colleague who shared a lead, the neighbor who introduced you to someone at a company you’re targeting, the friend who shared her resume and helped you with yours, but also others. Your spouse that took your kids out so you could have the morning to focus, or the person who babysat so you could sit in on a virtual job fair.

When you go through all of the above, you can’t help but feel grateful for all you have, and those who have helped you. So, let them know that their actions, help, kind words, advice has been meaningful to you. Taking the time to thank someone can be more important than you’ll ever know.

And at the end of each day, ask yourself “Who have I thanked today??”

- Mary Beth Barrett-NewmanCareer Coach, CRC Board Member and Advisor
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