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A Reflection from Linda Pils, Peacemaker
The Circle starts with telling our names and something about each person, so I’ll start the we always do, my name is Linda Pils, I’m a retired primary teacher, so I’m a good listener and I believe in second chances because they were given to me.
I had a wonderful mother-in-law, but she often said, “I know what you’re thinking”. The truth is, no one really knows what we’re thinking and why we act the way we do. But, in the circle, we find out. We are listening for the many truths that were present at that moment. When I first completed the Peacemaker training, I wondered, “What can I bring to this amazing organization? In the circle, I represent the community, can I be that person?”
What I have learned in the Circle, is that just as in the community, there are many voices, many life experiences that we can share. I have learned something from each Peacemaker that I’ve had the honor of working with at the CRC. I have also learned from the Respondents and victims, witnessing both anger, sadness, humility and forgiveness. At the end of one especially memorable Circle, the victim said to the respondent, “I don’t care about the money anymore, I have also been emotionally abused, I just want you to get the help you need.” The victim and respondent left and we sat, quiet and weeping.
The Circle is a sacred place where truths are shared and respected, where grace is given freely and second chances are the reward. I am so thankful to be working with all of our circle leaders who are committed to seeking justice with dignity.
Linda Pils
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