Update  

April 16, 2025


Lord of the swaying palms,

the stones of earth

and beasts of burden

bear witness to your coming:

lead us from the violence of empire

and the collusion of crowds

to a heart of flesh,

a world re-made

and new song for all creation;

through Jesus Christ, the Crucified God. Amen.

- from Prayers for an Inclusive Church

A Message from the Rector


We continue walking with Jesus through the remaining days of Holy Week. These final days of Holy Week are called “the Triduum” (pronounced TRID-yoo-uhm). It means “three days” in Latin. It refers to the three-day period from Maundy Thursday evening to Easter Sunday, commemorating the passion, death and resurrection of Jesus. These three days are the most sacred days in the Christian calendar and each day has its own significance. Here is what we recall about Jesus in the coming days: 


Wednesday of Holy Week (sometimes known as “Spy Wednesday”)

The Bible indicates that this was the day Judas Iscariot negotiated with the Sanhedrin, the rabbinical court of ancient Israel, to spy and betray Jesus for thirty pieces of silver. (Matthew 26:14-16). This is why this day is sometimes called “Spy Wednesday.” 


Passover and Last Supper on Maundy Thursday

Holy Week takes a somber turn on Maundy (Mandate) Thursday.

From Bethany, Jesus sent Peter and John ahead of Him to the Upper Room in Jerusalem to prepare for the Passover Feast. That evening after sunset, Jesus washed His disciples' feet as they prepared to share in the Passover. By performing this humble act of service, Jesus demonstrated by example how His disciples should serve the world. Today, many churches practice foot-washing ceremonies as a part of their Maundy Thursday services.

During this Last Supper, Jesus established Holy Communion, instructing His followers to continually remember His sacrifice by sharing in the bread and wine in everlasting remembrance of Him. (Luke 22:19-20).


Later, Jesus and His disciples left the Upper Room and went to the Garden of Gethsemane, where Jesus prayed in agony to the Father. Luke's Gospel says, "his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground" (Luke 22:44).

Late that evening in Gethsemane, Jesus was betrayed with a kiss by Judas Iscariot and arrested by the Sanhedrin. He was taken to the home of Caiaphas, the High Priest, where the whole council of the Sanhedrin had gathered to begin making their case against Jesus.


In the overnight hours, as Jesus' trial was getting underway, Peter denied knowing his Master three times before the rooster crowed. Thursday's events are recorded in Matthew 26:17–75, Mark 14:12-72, Luke 22:7-62, and John 13:1-38.


Trial, Crucifixion, Death, and Burial on Good Friday

Good Friday is the most difficult day of Holy Week. Christ's journey turned treacherous and acutely painful in these final hours leading to His death.

According to Scripture, Judas Iscariot, the disciple who had betrayed Jesus, was overcome with remorse and hanged himself early Friday morning.


Meanwhile, before the third hour (9 a.m.), Jesus endured the shame of false accusations, condemnation, mockery, beatings, and abandonment. After multiple unlawful trials, He was sentenced to death by crucifixion, one of the most horrible and disgraceful methods of execution known at the time.


Before Christ was led away, soldiers spit on Him, tormented and mocked Him, and pierced Him with a crown of thorns. Then Jesus carried His own cross with the help of Simon of Cyrene to Calvary, and was again mocked and insulted as Roman soldiers nailed Him to the wooden cross.


Jesus spoke seven statements from the cross. His first words were, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." (Luke 23:34). His last words were, "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." (Luke 23:46)


Then, about the ninth hour (3 p.m.), Jesus breathed His last breath and died.

By 6 p.m. Friday evening, Nicodemus and Joseph of Arimathea took Jesus' body down from the cross and laid it in a tomb. Friday's events are recorded in Matthew 27:1-62, Mark 15:1-47, Luke 22:63-23:56, and John 18:28-19:37.


Saturday in the Tomb

Jesus' body lay in the tomb, where it was guarded by Roman soldiers throughout the day on Saturday, which was the Jewish Sabbath. When the Sabbath ended at 6 p.m., Christ's body was ceremonially treated for burial with spices purchased by Nicodemus. The Roman soldiers continues their guard over Jesus tomb overnight. Saturday's events are recorded in Matthew 27:62-66, Mark 16:1, Luke 23:56, and John 19:40.


Resurrection Sunday: Easter Day

We now reach the culmination of Holy Week. The resurrection of Jesus Christ is the most important event of the Christian faith. The actual moment of resurrection is not recorded in the Bible. We can only speculate what happened overnight from this statement in Matthew 28:2-3 “Suddenly there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightening and his clothing white as snow. For fear of him the guards shook and became like dead men.”   


Before sunrise on Easter Day, several women (Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Salome, and Mary the mother of James) went to the tomb and discovered that the large stone covering the entrance had been rolled away. An angel announced: "Don't be afraid! I know you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He isn't here! He is risen from the dead, just as he said would happen." (Matthew 28:5-6)


On the day of his resurrection, Jesus Christ made at least five appearances. Mark’s and John’s Gospel says the first person to see him alive was Mary Magdalene. Jesus also appeared to Peter, to the two disciples on the road to Emmaus, and later that day to all of the disciples except Thomas, while they were gathered in a house for prayer. Easter Day’s events are recorded in Matthew 28:1-13, Mark 16:1-14, Luke 24:1-49, and John 20:1-23.



Anne and I wish extend to you and all in your family our best wishes for a joyful and glorious celebration of Easter. Alleluia! Christ is risen! The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!  


Father Robert Harvey

Holy Week Schedule


Maundy Thursday

  • April 17, 7 p.m. Maundy Thursday Liturgy
  • April 17, 8 p.m. Overnight Vigil


Good Friday

  • April 18, Noon Good Friday Service
  • April 18, 7 p.m. "Behold, We Go to Jerusalem" Concert for the Passion


Holy Saturday

  • April 19, No services


Easter Sunday

  • April 20, 8 a.m. Festal Holy Eucharist with organ and hymns
  • April 20, 10 a.m. Festal Holy Eucharist with brass, organ, choir and hymns

Take a Seat



Help yourself to the old grey chairs in Hughson Hall. They are located along the east side of Hughson Hall, by the windows facing the courtyard. They can be re-upholstered and used as additional seating at your home. A donation for the chairs would be gratefully appreciated.


The deadline for claiming them is Saturday April 19. Please contact Bryan Gorney if you have any questions at bbgken100@gmail.com or 716 367-8094. 

Maundy Thursday Overnight Prayer Vigil


Following the Maundy Thursday service, Calvary will hold an overnight prayer vigil in St. Luke’s Chapel, from 8 p.m. on April 17 to 8 am on Good Friday, April 18. Join the vigil at any time, for as long as you wish, in person or at home. Sign up on the sheet in the Reception Room or online here.


Light refreshments will be available in the Reception Room. Prayers and other resources will be available for your use. Contact Emily Sityar with additional questions.

Good Friday Offering

 

The history of the Good Friday Offering reaches back to 1922 when, in the aftermath of World War I, The Episcopal Church sought to create new relationships with and among the Christians of the Middle East. From these initial efforts which focused on a combination of relief work and the improvement of ecumenical and Anglican relations, the Good Friday Offering was created. Presiding Bishop Sean Rowe encourages people to pray for al-Ahli hospital in Gaza City, which was hit by missiles early on Palm Sunday, and to donate to the Good Friday offering, which supports the ministries of the Diocese of Jerusalem, including al-Ahli Hospital. Read more in this letter to congregations. Donations made at the noon service on Good Friday will support this fund.

Vestry Invitation


All are welcome to attend a hybrid Vestry Meeting on Tuesday, April 22 at 7 p.m. The minutes for the March vestry meeting may be found here. The agenda for the April meeting may be found here.


Please keep in mind that guests are silent observers with neither voice nor vote during the meeting. Come in person or use this Zoom link for the Vestry meeting. To listen by phone, call +1 646 558 8656  and use Meeting ID 853 1394 2359 and Passcode 773398

Friends of Night People

Calvary Team 2 volunteers will be serving dinner at Friends of Night People on Tuesday, April 22. Please sign up in the Reception Room. Volunteers will meet at Calvary's parking lot at 4 p.m. to carpool and return by 8 p.m. Click here to watch training videos for volunteers. For more information for FONP Team 2, contact Betsy Greno(716) 864-4817 or Ellen Marshall (716) 689-2133.


Thanks to everyone who has contributed to our recent collection drive of socks, underwear and toiletries. Your kindness to those experiencing homelessness and poverty in our community makes a much-appreciated impact on their lives.

Collection Drive for Stitch Buffalo


Have you any extra fabric, yarn, buttons, or other textile/fiber art supplies that you wish to unload? Calvary's Outreach Committee will be collecting these items for Stitch Buffalo's Second Stitch sustainability program from Tuesday April 22 through Sunday May 4, when Calvary will be hosting a Stitch Buffalo pop-up sale. Please refer to these guidelines to see what items are acceptable donations. Drop off your donations in Calvary's Reception Room.


Every year, Stitch Buffalo rescues for re-use over 15,000 pounds of textile arts tools and supplies. These supplies are integral to Stitch Buffalo's Refugee Women’s Workshop, where refugee and immigrant women are empowered through the sale of their handcrafted goods. The materials are also used in Stitch Buffalo's community education classes and kits. Any leftover items are offered to the community at huge discounts, and all proceeds directly support Stitch Buffalo's programming.

Fellowship Meeting April 24


There will be a hybrid Fellowship meeting April 24th in the Calvary Reception Room from 5:30 - 7:00 p.m. Join in person, via Zoom, or call 646 558-8656 using Meeting ID 896 6604 8987 and passcode 304875.  We will be making final arrangements for the Friday, May 2nd Derby Eve Fellowship event and planning for the June Parish Picnic, Strawberry Sunday Coffee Hour, and July Fellowship event.

 

The Fellowship Ministry at Calvary serves to provide our parishioners whether they are newcomers or long standing members with opportunities to enjoy socializing together. If this sounds like a committee that would interest you, please join us. We are always happy to welcome new members and ideas.

Good Grief



The next Good Grief Support Group Meeting will be Saturday, April 26 at 9:30 a.m. in the Reception Room. The group offers fellowship and support to anyone who has suffered any type of significant loss. For more information, contact Ellen Marshall, 716-689-2133.

Parish Clean Up Saturday April 26 - NEW DATE


Grab your yard tools and come to Calvary on Saturday, April 26 from 9 a.m. until noon. We will work primarily outdoors this year, cleaning up the grounds after a long winter. Calvary will provide cleaning supplies and trash bags; volunteers, please bring your garden gloves, rakes, and tools. Little people close to the ground are welcome to pick up sticks. There will be pizza and pop when we are done.


All of the above depend on the number of volunteers and the weather. Contact Paul McKenna if you can help.

Calvary Encourages Youth Participation


The next Children's Service will be Sunday, April 27Use this link to sign up children and youth to participate as in various roles at the service. Crucifers can sign up every week at this link as well.

Fundraising Brainstorming Meeting


We are establishing a stand-alone Fundraising Committee at Calvary. We will brainstorm ideas to raise money to fund the parish. A chicken dinner? A meat raffle? A spaghetti dinner? A night of music with the choir? Who knows what ideas we will come up with!

Please come and join us on Tuesday April 29 at 6 PM in the Reception Room or online through this Zoom link or by phone 646 558 8656. The Meeting ID is 891 0518 0079, and the passcode is 659023.


Please bring a snack and beverage if you would like.

"Derby Eve" Fellowship Event

Friday, May 2, 2025 from 5:30 - 8:00 p.m.


Come to an evening of special Kentucky Derby themed fun! Our dinner will feature glazed ham, fried chicken, sauteed green beans, coleslaw, Kentucky Hot Brown (bacon, turkey & cheese) pasta, chocolate pecan derby pie and Mint Julep mocktails. (You may BYOB miniature bottles to make your mocktail a cocktail). Wine, beer, iced tea and coffee will also be provided. This is a “free will offering” event.


Before and after dinner, you can participate in games with a “horse” or derby theme for you to enjoy. You are encouraged (but not required) to get into the spirit of the party by wearing hats or fascinators that you might see at the Kentucky Derby. We will have a contest with different categories: Most Elegant, Best Horsey theme, and Dapper Dan.


In order to accurately plan for our food and beverage quantities, we ask that you sign up for this event by April 28th, either on the sign-up sheet in the Reception Room or by clicking here to sign up online. Guests are welcome.


Here are photos from last year's Derby Eve.

Palm Sunday Sunday School


Last Sunday, the Sunday School students helped distribute palm branches and crosses at the start of the 10 am service. After a lesson about Holy Week, the children and youth made crafts, baked unleavened bread, and ate a Seder Meal. There will be no Sunday School on Easter Sunday or the following Sunday; classes resume on May 4.

Welcome to Coffee Hour!


Coffee Hour is a wonderful time to welcome newcomers, reconnect with friends, and share in the spirit of community that makes Calvary so special. Special thanks to Guy and Tricia Whalen for providing the refreshments atlast Sunday's coffee hour.

Vestry Prays for Parishioners


Calvary's vestry continues to pray for all parishioners in the Calvary Parish Directory, focusing on one page per week. This week the vestry is praying for the following people:

Michael & Janis Bommer

Barbara Bongiovi

Natalie Bottomley and children

David & Gretchen Brand

Ray & Lindamae Braun

Dona Bronkie

Jim Brophy

Erin Hershey & Justin Brown and children

Mark & Lora Bunting and children

TJ & Kimberly Burch

Pat Burt

Dave & Barb Burton

Lou Butenschoen

Sue Butenschoen & Nancy Fultz

Sue Butts

Jacque Castilone

Rosemarie Cherpak & Tim Haynes

Margie & Andrew Chritton

Henry Chudy

Frank & Wilma Cipolla

Bill & Joyce Clark

If your last name falls within the alphabetical range of the names above but is missing from the list, please contact the office (716) 633-7800 to be included in the directory. If you haven't already, please submit your photo and any updated information to the office.

2025 Areas of Ministry & Vestry Liaisons

 

Each area of ministry at Calvary is assigned a Vestry member liaison. The liaison serves as an intermediary between the committee and the whole Vestry. These are the liaison assignments for 2025:

  • Worship & Music - Fr. Robert, Nancy Bolton and Janet Newall
  • Christian Formation - Emily Sityar
  • Fellowship - Howard Craig
  • Pastoral Care - Ted Andrews
  • Outreach - Larry Bernhard
  • Communications - Laurie Kaiser
  • Property - Bryan Gorney
  • Giving/Development - Dennis McCoy and Janet Metcalfe
  • Finance - Guy Whalen

Diocesan Partnership and Church News

 

  • Sign up for Diocesan Partnership newsletters and/or read recent editions here.
  • For more news about the Dioceses of WNY and NWPA and to sign up for emailed newsletters, go here.
  • The Episcopal Church website offers resources for individuals, congregations, and various ministries. 

Worship at Calvary


In-person worship

  • Sunday 8 a.m. Holy Communion
  • Sunday 10 a.m. Holy Communion. This worship service is also live streamed.
  • Saturday, 4 p.m. Holy Communion
  • Wednesday, 7 a.m. Holy Communion


Online worship

  • Sunday 10 a.m. Holy Communion is also live streamed. The link to Calvary's 10 a.m. service can be found on the Calvary website or streamed on Facebook and YouTube. All three places will have the recording to watch later.

Attendance

On April 13, 2025, online viewers for the 10 a.m. service came from NY, FL, PA, MA, WA, Quebec, OH, and IN.

Jesus, alongside your suffering, you also bear my wounds. I offer you all the grief and worries I carry at this hour: may they be transformed by your love. Amen.


from Daily Prayers for all Seasons.

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