Update  

April 9, 2025


Extravagant God,

lavishing your love

on our poverty of heart:

inspire us to give without stint,

to lose life

that we might find it again,

so the world will be filled

with the fragrance of your love;

through Jesus Christ, who offers himself for us. Amen.

- from Prayers for an Inclusive Church

A Message from the Rector


Starting this weekend through Easter Day, Christians throughout the world follow the sacred drama of Holy Week. Each day of Holy Week has special significance. It’s important for all of us to know and follow this drama to fully understand and appreciate what happened that week. I encourage you to follow along with the steps of Jesus from Palm Sunday through Easter Day, exploring the major events that occurred on each day. Our Easter celebration will be far more meaningful if we walk the way of Jesus through the events of Holy Week.


Day 1: Triumphal Entry on Palm Sunday

On the Sunday before His death, Jesus began His trip to Jerusalem, knowing that soon He would lay down His life for the world. Nearing the village of Bethphage, Jesus instructed the disciples to untie a donkey and bring it to Him. Then Jesus sat on the young donkey and slowly, humbly, made His triumphal entry into Jerusalem. Jesus' triumphal entry is recorded in Matthew 21:1-11, Mark 11:1-11, Luke 19:28-44, and John 12:12-19.


Day 2: Jesus Clears the Temple on Monday

The following morning, Jesus returned with His disciples to Jerusalem. Along the way, He cursed a fig tree because it had failed to bear fruit. Some scholars believe this cursing of the fig tree represented God's judgment on the spiritually dead religious leaders of Israel. Others think the symbolism extended to all believers, demonstrating that genuine faith is more than outward religiosity; true, living faith must bear spiritual fruit in a person's life.


When Jesus arrived at the Temple, He found the courts full of corrupt money changers. He overturned their tables and cleared the Temple, saying, "The Scriptures declare, 'My Temple will be a house of prayer,' but you have turned it into a den of thieves" (Luke 19:46). Monday's events are recorded in Matthew 21:12–22, Mark 11:15–19, Luke 19:45-48, and John 2:13-17.


Day 3: Jesus Goes to the Mount of Olives on Tuesday

On Tuesday morning, Jesus and His disciples returned to Jerusalem. On their way, they passed the withered fig tree, and Jesus spoke to His companions about the importance of faith.


Later that afternoon, Jesus left the city and went with His disciples to the Mount of Olives, which overlooks Jerusalem. Here, Jesus gave the Olivet Discourse, an elaborate prophecy about the destruction of Jerusalem and the end of the age. He speaks, as usual, in parables, using symbolic language, including the final judgment at the end of time.

After a tiring day of confrontation and warnings about the future, Jesus and His disciples again returned to Bethany to stay the night. The events of Tuesday and the Olivet Discourse are recorded in Matthew 21:23–24:51, Mark 11:20–13:37, Luke 20:1–21:36, and John 12:20–38.


Day 4: Holy Wednesday (sometimes known as “Spy Wednesday”)

The Bible indicates that this was the day Judas Iscariot negotiated with the Sanhedrin, the rabbinical court of ancient Israel, to spy and betray Jesus for thirty pieces of silver. (Matthew 26:14-16). This is why this day is sometimes called “Spy Wednesday.”

 

Day 5: Passover and Last Supper on Maundy Thursday

Holy Week takes a somber turn on Maundy (Mandate) Thursday.

From Bethany, Jesus sent Peter and John ahead of Him to the Upper Room in Jerusalem to prepare for the Passover Feast. That evening after sunset, Jesus washed His disciples' feet as they prepared to share in the Passover. By performing this humble act of service, Jesus demonstrated by example how His disciples should serve the world. Today, many churches practice foot-washing ceremonies as a part of their Maundy Thursday services.

During this Last Supper, Jesus established Holy Communion, instructing His followers to continually remember His sacrifice by sharing in the bread and wine in everlasting remembrance of Him. (Luke 22:19-20).


Later, Jesus and His disciples left the Upper Room and went to the Garden of Gethsemane, where Jesus prayed in agony to the Father. Luke's Gospel says, "his sweat became like great drops of blood falling down to the ground" (Luke 22:44).


Late that evening in Gethsemane, Jesus was betrayed with a kiss by Judas Iscariot and arrested by the Sanhedrin. He was taken to the home of Caiaphas, the High Priest, where the whole council of the Sanhedrin had gathered to begin making their case against Jesus.


In the overnight hours, as Jesus' trial was getting underway, Peter denied knowing his Master three times before the rooster crowed. Thursday's events are recorded in Matthew 26:17–75, Mark 14:12-72, Luke 22:7-62, and John 13:1-38.


Day 6: Trial, Crucifixion, Death, and Burial on Good Friday

Good Friday is the most difficult day of Holy Week. Christ's journey turned treacherous and acutely painful in these final hours leading to His death.


According to Scripture, Judas Iscariot, the disciple who had betrayed Jesus, was overcome with remorse and hanged himself early Friday morning.


Meanwhile, before the third hour (9 a.m.), Jesus endured the shame of false accusations, condemnation, mockery, beatings, and abandonment. After multiple unlawful trials, He was sentenced to death by crucifixion, one of the most horrible and disgraceful methods of execution known at the time.


Before Christ was led away, soldiers spit on Him, tormented and mocked Jim, and pierced Him with a crown of thorns. Then Jesus carried his own cross with the help of Simon of Cyrene to Calvary, and was again mocked and insulted as Roman soldiers nailed Him to the wooden cross.


Jesus spoke seven statements from the cross. His first words were, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." (Luke 23:34). His last words were, "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." (Luke 23:46)


Then, about the ninth hour (3 p.m.), Jesus breathed his last breath and died.

By 6 p.m. Friday evening, Nicodemus and Joseph of Arimathea took Jesus' body down from the cross and laid it in a tomb. Friday's events are recorded in Matthew 27:1-62, Mark 15:1-47, Luke 22:63-23:56, and John 18:28-19:37.


Day 7: Saturday in the Tomb

Jesus' body lay in the tomb, where it was guarded by Roman soldiers throughout the day on Saturday, which was the Jewish Sabbath. When the Sabbath ended at 6 p.m., Christ's body was ceremonially treated for burial with spices purchased by Nicodemus. The Roman soldiers continues their guard over Jesus' tomb overnight. Saturday's events are recorded in Matthew 27:62-66, Mark 16:1, Luke 23:56, and John 19:40.


Day 8: Resurrection Sunday: Easter Day

We now reach the culmination of Holy Week. The resurrection of Jesus Christ is the most important event of the Christian faith. The actual moment of resurrection is not recorded in the Bible. We can only speculate what happened overnight from this statement in Matthew 28:2-3 “Suddenly there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled back the stone and sat on it. His appearance was like lightening and his clothing white as snow. For fear of him the guards shook and became like dead men.”

 

Before sunrise on Easter Day, several women (Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Salome, and Mary the mother of James) went to the tomb and discovered that the large stone covering the entrance had been rolled away. An angel announced: "Don't be afraid! I know you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He isn't here! He is risen from the dead, just as he said would happen." (Matthew 28:5-6)


On the day of his resurrection, Jesus Christ made at least five appearances. Mark’s Gospel says the first person to see him alive was Mary Magdalene. Jesus also appeared to Peter, to the two disciples on the road to Emmaus, and later that day to all of the disciples except Thomas, while they were gathered in a house for prayer. Easter Day’s events are recorded in Matthew 28:1-13, Mark 16:1-14, Luke 24:1-49, and John 20:1-23.


Walking with Jesus through each day of Holy Week we can feel our love for Jesus grow even stronger knowing what He did for us.  


Father Robert Harvey

Holy Week Schedule


Palm Sunday

  • April 12, 4 p.m. Holy Eucharist with palms and reading of the Passion - starting in the Reception Room
  • April 13, 8 a.m. Holy Eucharist with palms and reading of the Passion - starting in the Reception Room
  • April 13, 10 a.m. Holy Eucharist with palms and reading of the Passion - starting in Hughson Hall


Maundy Thursday

  • April 17, 7 p.m. Maundy Thursday Liturgy
  • April 17, 8 p.m. Overnight Vigil


Good Friday

  • April 18, Noon Good Friday Service
  • April 18, 7 p.m. "Behold, We Go to Jerusalem" Concert for the Passion


Holy Saturday

  • April 19, No services


Easter Sunday

  • April 20, 8 a.m. Festal Holy Eucharist with organ and hymns
  • April 20, 10 a.m. Festal Holy Eucharist with brass, organ, choir and hymns

Behold, We Go to Jerusalem

Good Friday Concert April 18 at 7 p.m.


Some of the most beautiful music ever written was composed for Holy Week and Christ's Passion. This concert will feature settings of The Good Friday Reproaches and J. S. Bach's Behold, We Go up to Jerusalem. Come and immerse your soul in this musical meditation on the Passion.

Wednesday Potluck and Lenten Study Series


Calvary’s annual Wednesday Potluck Series ends tonight April 9. Bring a dish to pass and join us for dinner at 6 pm, and then stay for the Lenten Study Program beginning at 7 pm.


This Lent, we've been looking at what the Bible has to say about kindness and how it applies to daily living. Tonight's topic – Practicing random acts of kindness (I Corinthians 13:4 (“Love is patient; love is kind . . .”). Hope you can join us tonight as we together learn more about the importance of kindness

Parish Clean Up Saturday April 26 - NEW DATE


The forecast for this Saturday looks rainy and cold, so we will delay the Spring Clean Up until April 26. Grab your yard tools and come to Calvary on Saturday, April 26 from 9 a.m. until noon.


We will work primarily outdoors this year, cleaning up the grounds after a long winter. Calvary will provide cleaning supplies and trash bags; volunteers, please bring your garden gloves, rakes, and tools. Little people close to the ground are welcome to pick up sticks. There will be pizza and pop when we are done.


All of the above depend on the number of volunteers and the weather. Contact Paul McKenna if you can help.

Take a Seat



Help yourself to the old grey chairs in Hughson Hall. They are located along the east side of Hughson Hall, by the windows facing the courtyard. They can be re-upholstered and used as additional seating at your home. A donation for the chairs would be gratefully appreciated.


The deadline for claiming them is Saturday April 19. Please contact Bryan Gorney if you have any questions at bbgken100@gmail.com or 716 368-8094. 

New Chairs are Here


New replacement chairs have arrived. Many thanks to Bryan Gorney, Guy Whalen, and Emily Sityar for unpacking the pallets and bringing the chairs into Hughson Hall.

Sunday School Seder


On Palm Sunday, April 13, Sunday School students will help distribute palms and palm crosses upstairs in Hughson Hall before the 10 am service. They will remain in Hughson Hall to participate in a Seder Meal. Parents are welcome to join us!


There will be no Sunday School on Easter Sunday.

Photo by Yoninah

Property Meeting


The Property Committee will meet next Monday, April 14 at 6 pm. Anyone interested is welcome. Join the meeting in the Reception Room, go online through Zoom, or call (646) 558-8656. The Meeting ID is 822 5035 8310, and the passcode is 853444.

Easter Flower Donations


The beauty of our worship at Easter is a gift we offer to God and each other. Consider donating toward Easter flowers in memory or in thanksgiving for loved ones. Download this form or write a note to mail or put in the offering plate with a check, or make your donation online and write "Easter Flower Donation" on the memo line. To be sure your loved one's name is publicized this Easter, please submit your names and contributions by Monday, April 14.

Maundy Thursday Overnight Prayer Vigil


Following the Maundy Thursday service, Calvary will hold an overnight prayer vigil in St. Luke’s Chapel, from 8 p.m. on April 17 to 8 am on Good Friday, April 18. Join the vigil at any time, for as long as you wish, in person or at home. Sign up on the sheet in the Reception Room or online here.


Light refreshments will be available in the Reception Room. Prayers and other resources will available for your use. Those with special intentions may complete a prayer card beforehand and place it in the collection plate, so we can pray for these intentions during the vigil. Contact Emily Sityar with additional questions.

Friends of Night People


Calvary's Lenten theme of Kindness extends to "kindness in the community." The Outreach Committee is running a Lenten Collection Drive for socks, underwear, and small hygiene products/travel-sized toiletries, primarily for men. Place your donations in the baskets in the Reception Room. The drive ends on Palm Sunday April 13. Thanks to those who have already donated items.

Calvary Team 2 volunteers will be serving dinner at Friends of Night People on Tuesday, April 22. Please sign up in the Reception Room. Volunteers will meet at Calvary's parking lot at 4 p.m. to carpool and return by 8 p.m. Click here to watch training videos for volunteers. For more information for FONP Team 2, contact Betsy Greno(716) 864-4817 or Ellen Marshall (716) 689-2133.


Thank you for your kindness to those experiencing homelessness and poverty in our community.

Fundraising Brainstorming Meeting


We are establishing a stand-alone Fundraising Committee at Calvary. We will brainstorm ideas to raise money to fund the parish. A chicken dinner? A meat raffle? A spaghetti dinner? A night of music with the choir? Who knows what ideas we will come up with!

Please come and join us on Tuesday April 29 at 6 PM in the Reception Room or online through this Zoom link or by phone 646 558 8656. The Meeting ID is 891 0518 0079, and the passcode is 659023.


Please bring a snack and beverage if you would like.

"Derby Eve" Fellowship Event

Friday, May 2, 2025 from 5:30 - 8:00 p.m.


Come to an evening of special Kentucky Derby themed fun! Our dinner will feature glazed ham, fried chicken, sauteed green beans, coleslaw, Kentucky Hot Brown (bacon, turkey & cheese) pasta, chocolate pecan derby pie and Mint Julep mocktails. (You may BYOB miniature bottles to make your mocktail a cocktail). Wine, beer, iced tea and coffee will also be provided. This is a “free will offering” event.


Before and after dinner, you can participate in games with a “horse” or derby theme for you to enjoy. You are encouraged (but not required) to get into the spirit of the party by wearing hats or fascinators that you might see at the Kentucky Derby. We will have a contest with different categories: Most Elegant, Best Horsey theme, and Dapper Dan.


In order to accurately plan for our food and beverage quantities, we ask that you sign up for this event by April 28th, either on the sign-up sheet in the Reception Room or by clicking here to sign up online. Guests are welcome.


Here are photos from last year's Derby Eve.

Vestry Prays for Parishioners


At the Vestry Retreat, Calvary's vestry resolved to pray for all parishioners in the Calvary Parish Directory, focusing on one page per week. This week the vestry is praying for the following people:

Carol Ackerman

George & Gail Adema

Brian & Deidre Adler

Guy and Pam Agostinelli

Sam Alessi 

Kim & Rob Alexander-Thomson

Ted & Vanessa Andrews & children

Bill Anspach

Brad & Lorrie Archdeacon

Beth Aschbacher

Suzanne Atkinson

Anthony & Lisa Barone

Barry & Jan Barrett

J. Leeds Baxter

Sara Baxter

Larry Bernhard

Jacob & Rachael Billings & children

Kelly Blackey

Brian Bolton

Nancy Bolton

If your last name falls within the alphabetical range of the names above but is missing from the list, please contact the office (716) 633-7800 to be included in the directory. If you haven't already, please submit your photo and any updated information to the office.

Vestry Meeting Highlights


Below are highlights of the March 18 Vestry Meeting. Read the full meeting minutes here.


Stewardship Report:

  • The Stewardship Committee invites committees to provide a brief presentation during the Saturday and Sunday services. Outreach will present in May; Music will present in June.
  • Stewardship will spearhead the creation of videos highlighting Calvary members talking about their experience at Calvary.


28 Milton St. Discussion

  • Vestry members who visited the 28 Milton house shared their impressions.
  • A subcommittee will schedule a house inspection and reach out to contractors. Members of this subcommittee are Janet Newall, Larry Bernhard and Howard Craig, utilizing Jim Greno as a resource.


Rector’s Report

  • The Sunday 9 am Lenten forum will explore topics related to the Special Convention in May and the future of the Diocesan Partnership.
  • The annual Vestry Retreat will be held at Calvary and facilitated by the Rev. Cathy Dempesy-Sims on April 4 & 5.


One-Year Warden’s Report

  • Committee chairs are being sought for the Capital Campaign, Fundraising, Planned Giving, and Newcomers. Ted and Vanessa Andrews are now co-chairs for CYM. Pat Zebrowski will chair the Garage Sale.
  • The Committee to Dismantle Racism and Discrimination held a regional Lenten conversation about the Land Acknowledgement of Indigenous People.


Two-Year Warden’s Report

  • Bryan Gorney has enlisted Brad Archdeacon for the Property Committee and is seeking volunteers to help Pat Zebrowski in the garden.
  • On-going Property projects include lights for Hughson Hall and the main hallway, an estimate for the rectory roof, and replacement chairs for Hughson Hall.
  • Capital Campaign survey indicate most people are in favor of a 3-year formal Campaign and the adopt-a-project approach.


Other Business:

  • This year’s Ashes to Go program blessed 1,111 people from our community and raised $3000 to assist those affected by the recent wildfires in California.

2025 Areas of Ministry & Vestry Liaisons

 

Each area of ministry at Calvary is assigned a Vestry member liaison. The liaison serves as an intermediary between the committee and the whole Vestry. These are the liaison assignments for 2025:

  • Worship & Music - Fr. Robert, Nancy Bolton and Janet Newall
  • Christian Formation - Emily Sityar
  • Fellowship - Howard Craig
  • Pastoral Care - Ted Andrews
  • Outreach - Larry Bernhard
  • Communications - Laurie Kaiser
  • Property - Bryan Gorney
  • Giving/Development - Dennis McCoy and Janet Metcalfe
  • Finance - Guy Whalen

Diocesan Partnership and Church News

 

  • Sign up for Diocesan Partnership newsletters and/or read recent editions here.
  • For more news about the Dioceses of WNY and NWPA and to sign up for emailed newsletters, go here.
  • The Episcopal Church website offers resources for individuals, congregations, and various ministries. 

Worship at Calvary


In-person worship

  • Sunday 8 a.m. Holy Communion
  • Sunday 10 a.m. Holy Communion. This worship service is also live streamed.
  • Saturday, 4 p.m. Holy Communion
  • Wednesday, 7 a.m. Holy Communion


Online worship

  • Sunday 10 a.m. Holy Communion is also live streamed. The link to Calvary's 10 a.m. service can be found on the Calvary website or streamed on Facebook and YouTube. All three places will have the recording to watch later.

Attendance

On April 6, 2025, online viewers for the 10 a.m. service came from NY, MA, IN, GA, FL and CA.

This only do I ask of your extreme kindness. That you convert me wholly to you and you allow nothing to prevent me from wending my way to you.

– St. Augustine, from Daily Prayers for all Seasons.

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