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Relationality, Gratitude, and the Year Ahead
As a new year begins, I’ve been reflecting on two things that feel deeply connected: relationality and gratitude. Relationality reminds us that regardless of race, creed, colour, culture, or background, we are all people who are connected by shared humanity. Gratitude, in turn, grows out of those connections.
This reflection was deepened during a recent trip to Sri Lanka. In a country where the majority of people practice Buddhism, I noticed a calm and respectful way of being with one another. Even in heavy traffic, there was very little aggression. People seemed aware of those around them, moving through daily life with patience and consideration.
One of the most meaningful experiences was the greeting I received from strangers: Ayubowan (ආයුබෝවන්). It means “May you live long,” but its deeper intention is a wish for health, peace, and well-being. Shared with palms pressed together, it is both a greeting and a quiet moment of connection. It made me think about how powerful simple human exchanges can be.
Upon my return to Canada, the contrast was striking. Life felt faster. Faces seemed more stressed, attention more divided. It left me wondering how we might carry more intention and presence into our everyday interactions, especially as we move into a new year.
At Carter Notary, relationality is central to our work. While we deal in legal documents and precise details, our purpose is always people—their homes, their families, and their future plans. This is why I was so deeply grateful and humbled to learn that Carter Notary was voted Best Law Office in the recent Times Colonist Readers' Choice Awards. That recognition belongs to our team, to our clients, and to community members who placed their trust in us. Thank you for taking the time to vote and for allowing us to serve you.
As we begin this new year, my wish for you echoes the spirit of Ayubowan: good health, peace of mind, and meaningful connection. May the year ahead be marked by kindness, presence, and shared respect.
With sincere thanks and warm New Year wishes,
Beverly
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